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To think people who want "safe routes to migration" into the UK are hopelessly naive

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ForestGoblin · 14/08/2023 07:25

We could spend every penny of public money on bringing refugees to the UK in comfy and safe boats and planes. We could make it mandatory for every home to provide accommodation and food. We could ban healthcare for anyone except refugees.

And there would still be thousands and thousands of boat crossings every year and millions more people languishing in bad situations and trying to figure out how to get here or elsewhere in northern Europe.

It's a crap situation. Life is bad. I feel dreadful for them.

But "safe routes" is a load of glib nonsense that can't work.

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Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 22:40

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Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 23:07

Blossomtoes · 14/08/2023 22:30

No idea. I suspect far more secretly think it than would openly come out and say it.

Anyone who claims to believe that 22% of English men believe women should not be educated is, now how should I put this to not upset the censors again, somewhat confused. Yes, let's go with confused. And everyone reading this knows it, as do you.

And you know what's most ironic about this? This kind of thing is so incredibly offensive to the Afghan women who have to live with the reality of their society. To pretend English women live under the same conditions is absolutely disgusting.

Fawful · 14/08/2023 23:10

Your article also says that they think Sharia law should only apply to Muslims, so your irate posts are a lot of froth over not very much.
It also says Muslims' opinions on sharia law mirrors their own country's set up...

CloudyMcCloud · 14/08/2023 23:12

Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 23:07

Anyone who claims to believe that 22% of English men believe women should not be educated is, now how should I put this to not upset the censors again, somewhat confused. Yes, let's go with confused. And everyone reading this knows it, as do you.

And you know what's most ironic about this? This kind of thing is so incredibly offensive to the Afghan women who have to live with the reality of their society. To pretend English women live under the same conditions is absolutely disgusting.

It likely comes from a place of privilege and comfort. I can see why you post as you have.

Blossomtoes · 14/08/2023 23:13

To pretend English women live under the same conditions is absolutely disgusting.

Nobody’s pretending anything of the sort. My flippant response was exactly what your question deserved. It’s disingenuous to attempt to compare two cultures so different in history, religion and attitude. It was the equivalent of the perpetual and tiresome “but why don’t men ….?” that clutters up MN. There’s no point in attempting false equivalence.

Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 23:19

Blossomtoes · 14/08/2023 23:13

To pretend English women live under the same conditions is absolutely disgusting.

Nobody’s pretending anything of the sort. My flippant response was exactly what your question deserved. It’s disingenuous to attempt to compare two cultures so different in history, religion and attitude. It was the equivalent of the perpetual and tiresome “but why don’t men ….?” that clutters up MN. There’s no point in attempting false equivalence.

This isn't a thread about some academic cultural comparison exercise, as you know perfectly well. It's a thread about immigration policy. And anyone advocating for the immigration of Afghan men had better have an answer for why it would be of benefit to English women, or indeed Afghan women who have been given refuge in England, to allow the immigration of men whose views of women are on average vastly more misogynistic and sexist than those of the current inhabitants. Given the fact that it's not possible to screen those immigrants for their beliefs, anyone advocating such a policy is making England a more dangerous and less free place for women, obviously enough. But you know all of that, you just don't want to discuss it.

Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 23:27

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Moneynewpence · 14/08/2023 23:45

ForestGoblin · 14/08/2023 07:25

We could spend every penny of public money on bringing refugees to the UK in comfy and safe boats and planes. We could make it mandatory for every home to provide accommodation and food. We could ban healthcare for anyone except refugees.

And there would still be thousands and thousands of boat crossings every year and millions more people languishing in bad situations and trying to figure out how to get here or elsewhere in northern Europe.

It's a crap situation. Life is bad. I feel dreadful for them.

But "safe routes" is a load of glib nonsense that can't work.

Not remotely what 'safe routes' means. It means claiming asylum outside our borders so they don't have to risk life and limb. Do the research before sounding off.

ReginaRegina · 14/08/2023 23:47

Why did we have a Ukrainian scheme to house those victims of war but not Syrian or Iraqi..oh yes, because Ukrainians are more like "us".

Well, no shit sherlock lol.

I don't know why people are continually surprised that the populace would rather live with people from countries sharing similar values, rather than people from patriarchal cultures who believe gay people should be imprisoned, women should always obey their husbands, and where the majority of men admit to sexually harassing women in public (all of the latter statements are from studies on either Islamic or middle eastern male attitudes which I'll happily post tomorrow when I have time).

And let's not forget the 1200 women sexually assaulted on one NYE by largely middle eastern men in a recreation of the cultural practice Taharrush Gamea, roughly translating as 'The Rape Game'.

Moneynewpence · 14/08/2023 23:47

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Moneynewpence · 14/08/2023 23:49

@CloudyMcCloud

Yeah, we can see why she posts like it too...🙄

Middlelanehogger · 15/08/2023 00:00

Moneynewpence · 14/08/2023 23:45

Not remotely what 'safe routes' means. It means claiming asylum outside our borders so they don't have to risk life and limb. Do the research before sounding off.

We know what safe routes means, don't play dumb.

We are saying it isn't workable without a corresponding massive decrease in the acceptance rate, to compensate for the massive increase in the application rate.

JanieEyre · 15/08/2023 00:06

Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 23:19

This isn't a thread about some academic cultural comparison exercise, as you know perfectly well. It's a thread about immigration policy. And anyone advocating for the immigration of Afghan men had better have an answer for why it would be of benefit to English women, or indeed Afghan women who have been given refuge in England, to allow the immigration of men whose views of women are on average vastly more misogynistic and sexist than those of the current inhabitants. Given the fact that it's not possible to screen those immigrants for their beliefs, anyone advocating such a policy is making England a more dangerous and less free place for women, obviously enough. But you know all of that, you just don't want to discuss it.

The thing is, we, like many other countries, have bound ourselves to various treaties that require us to accept refugees on the basis of criteria that don't include their sex and whether their views are deemed acceptable. Probably because, going right back to the formulation and signing of the EHRC by Churchill, we could see (and indeed history has demonstrated) that that is a very slippery slope with potentially even more dangerous consequences..

CloudyMcCloud · 15/08/2023 06:25

Moneynewpence · 14/08/2023 23:49

@CloudyMcCloud

Yeah, we can see why she posts like it too...🙄

So you agree with the pp who believes it’d be the same 22% here then?

CloudyMcCloud · 15/08/2023 06:36

Moneynewpence · 14/08/2023 23:45

Not remotely what 'safe routes' means. It means claiming asylum outside our borders so they don't have to risk life and limb. Do the research before sounding off.

People know what safe routes are it doesn’t make it any more viable. Unless you’re going to say how many, which countries and if you’ll cap numbers

And how you’ll deal with boats arriving in accordance with international law outside those routes

Jennygosoftly · 15/08/2023 06:51

Coolasakebab · 14/08/2023 20:40

And if we took our ‘fair share’, we would be taking more than we currently do!

And who decides what a "fair share" is ??

Jennygosoftly · 15/08/2023 07:06

80sMum · 14/08/2023 09:02

The only real long-term solution to the crisis would be a dramatic reduction in the human population. There are simply too many of us.

We have lost, sadly, 228,000 people to Covid to date.

We still have about 20 people a week who have 'Covid' listed on their death certificates.

I haven't seen any marked increase in job availability, any more houses available or a reduction in taxation.

I don't know how many people we would need to 'loose' before there was any improvement in the situation?

Jennygosoftly · 15/08/2023 07:13

JamSandle · 14/08/2023 13:19

Turkey also has a rising anti-refugee movement at the moment.

Turkey defends it's borders aggressively

https://www.hrw.org/news/2023/04/27/turkish-border-guards-torture-kill-syrians

Pollyputhekettleon · 15/08/2023 07:58

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Yes yes, shrieking self righteousness is a lot easier than reading isn't it. You're getting people killed but, hey, whatever. Shriek more.

Pollyputhekettleon · 15/08/2023 08:05

@JanieEyre Treaties are man-made laws. Laws change continually from year to year. The only reason all western countries are bound by laws which the majority of their population oppose is because they all have a decades long cross-party consensus for mass immigration.

The 'slippery slope' is literally the propaganda they use to pacify those majorities into thinking that it's the status quo or the gas chambers. They know that social primates have very fragile capacities to think, and are constantly falling into false binaries. So you hand them the false binaries you want them to have and off they go, happy.

The fact they've been able to pull that one over even on countries like the UK who have living memories of how many people they lost fighting fascism is an incredible testament to the sophistication of psychological warfare. Of course it's extremely emotionally rewarding to believe you're fighting the greatest evil the world has ever seen, and if little girls need to get blown up at concerts in service of that feeling, well, stuff happens. After all, the gas chambers would be worse.

penelopelady · 15/08/2023 08:31

Conveniently ignoring the fact the Uk takes less than most places in Europe.
Conveniently blaming the last labour government... when was that again... if it was their fault why have the current crowd been so incompetent that they can't sort it out in nearly 15 years

Judging by some of the posts today I am expecting the announcement of an election in the next few months ... oh hang on....

CloudyMcCloud · 15/08/2023 08:36

Pollyputhekettleon · 15/08/2023 08:05

@JanieEyre Treaties are man-made laws. Laws change continually from year to year. The only reason all western countries are bound by laws which the majority of their population oppose is because they all have a decades long cross-party consensus for mass immigration.

The 'slippery slope' is literally the propaganda they use to pacify those majorities into thinking that it's the status quo or the gas chambers. They know that social primates have very fragile capacities to think, and are constantly falling into false binaries. So you hand them the false binaries you want them to have and off they go, happy.

The fact they've been able to pull that one over even on countries like the UK who have living memories of how many people they lost fighting fascism is an incredible testament to the sophistication of psychological warfare. Of course it's extremely emotionally rewarding to believe you're fighting the greatest evil the world has ever seen, and if little girls need to get blown up at concerts in service of that feeling, well, stuff happens. After all, the gas chambers would be worse.

Mn has typically been quite removed with a layer of privilege and comfort. On one hand you have leaders using movement of people as a destabilising factor but on here some will only post the positives.

It shows how removed many are. People seem to be realising though, going by the vote on this thread with majority yanbu

It will continue to switch as climate crisis ramps up

Pollyputhekettleon · 15/08/2023 09:00

penelopelady · 15/08/2023 08:31

Conveniently ignoring the fact the Uk takes less than most places in Europe.
Conveniently blaming the last labour government... when was that again... if it was their fault why have the current crowd been so incompetent that they can't sort it out in nearly 15 years

Judging by some of the posts today I am expecting the announcement of an election in the next few months ... oh hang on....

Mass immigration has been for decades, and continues to be, a cross-party policy consensus among the main political parties in all western countries, whether they claim to be left right or right wing. Attempts to frame it as Tory vs Labour, as an election issue, as a UK problem, or a Brexit problem, or a UK vs rest of Europe competition, are efforts to prevent people from noticing the nature of the issue by keeping their eyes fixed on the parochial level.

AdamRyan · 15/08/2023 09:48

Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 22:36

Read this link:

The World’s Muslims: Religion, Politics and Society | Pew Research Center

You, and everyone else, has absolutely no business having opinions on immigration, let alone having the right to pretend to vote on it, when you're this ignorant. The question they were asked specifically was whether they favoured making sharia the official law of their country. Not whether or not they 'believe in it', whatever that means.

And 99% is not actually an outlier. It's the highest, sure, but someone has to be on top. Look at Iraq - 91%. Neighbouring Pakistan 84%, Bangladesh 82%, Malaysia 86%. This has absolutely nothing to do with respecting your country. You literally don't understand the basics of how those huge majorities view their country and their religion and the relationship between the two. They're not stupid. The only stupidity around here is the continued wilful ignorance of what's now fortunately a minority, albeit still a powerful one, of westerners.

Polly, the person I quoted initially said 99% of Afghan men believe in Sharia law. Then couldn't back it up.

Well done for finding that posters reference.

It says "Indeed, the survey finds that support for making sharia the law of the land is often higher in countries where the constitution or basic laws already favor Islam over other religions.2 Majorities in such countries say sharia should be enshrined as official law, including at least nine-in-ten Muslims in Afghanistan (99%) and Iraq (91%). By comparison, in countries where Islam is not legally favored, roughly a third or fewer Muslims say sharia should be the law of the land. Support is especially low in Kazakhstan (10%) and Azerbaijan (8%).3"
Afghanistan legal system is already based on sharia. So that backs my second point. Afghans who support sharia, may in fact be demonstrating they are law abiding citizens.

The World’s Muslims: Religion, Politics and Society

A new survey report looks at attitudes among Muslims in 39 countries on a wide range of topics, from science to sharia, polygamy to popular culture. The survey finds that overwhelming percentages of Muslims in many countries want Islamic law to be the...

https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2013/04/30/the-worlds-muslims-religion-politics-society-overview/#ftn2

AdamRyan · 15/08/2023 09:53

Pollyputhekettleon · 14/08/2023 23:19

This isn't a thread about some academic cultural comparison exercise, as you know perfectly well. It's a thread about immigration policy. And anyone advocating for the immigration of Afghan men had better have an answer for why it would be of benefit to English women, or indeed Afghan women who have been given refuge in England, to allow the immigration of men whose views of women are on average vastly more misogynistic and sexist than those of the current inhabitants. Given the fact that it's not possible to screen those immigrants for their beliefs, anyone advocating such a policy is making England a more dangerous and less free place for women, obviously enough. But you know all of that, you just don't want to discuss it.

There are a lot of things that need to happen to make Britain safer for women. Asylum seekers are not the problem here, just like they aren't the cause of the crumbling NHS, our lack of social housing, the coat of living crisis etc.

When we have a justice system where rape isn't effectively decriminalised, when misogyny is treated as a hate crime like racism or homophobia, then I'll be more concerned about the putative attitudes of asylum seekers.

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