Would this annoy you if this was said to you?

[Lolololololl]

The guy I am seeing was telling me he won’t see me tonight and will be going out drinking unless ‘I give him a good enough reason to stay in’. With a wink emoji. This has annoyed me. Aibu?

What a useless moron.

He has no respect for you at all.

'Have a nice night' and block

I’d say grow up, then block him

BF, go fuck yourself 👋

Ew. He's shown what he thinks of you.

Sorry, sounds like he sees you more as a fuck buddy than someone he’s in a proper relationship with.

Do you always have sex every time you see him? Or is he happy to spend time with you even if it doesn’t end with sex?

Only thing I'd be giving him is a slap in the face with a wet fish. Yuck.

Also yuk

Boke

Gross 🤮

You are worth more, OP. Even if this is a clumsy attempt at flirting (which it's not, he's just behaving like a dick), you are worth spending time with for who you are, not because some pathetic man wants sex. Please dump him and find someone better.

🤮

He has messaged me to say his mates are no longer going out so he’s now free all evening if I want to come and see him

What are you replying to him though, OP?

I couldn’t be doing with this because I wouldn’t feel sure what his intentions really are or what he really thought of me.
Is he being disrespectful? Did he really want to spend the evening with you all along and made it up about his mates?
Too much game playing and lack of clarity.

You're going aren't you?

Why haven’t you told him to fuck off? He’s revolting.

As much as I'd love to suck your cock and shag you senseless... I've had a better offer. Enjoy your night.

And block.

And what are you planning to do ?

So you get to go to him as well. Lucky you. 🙄

Have you not dumped him by now

Exactly

Yeah he hasn’t to come to me before, but I live about 10/15 minutes by car and he doesn’t drive so I make the journey to him, he even said once if I don’t feel like driving then he will pay for my taxi to him! Not that he will get a taxi to me

So doesn't make the effort to come to you and is expecting you to be available whenever for sex..........if you stay with him, expect things to go downhill fast. He's not that into you.

You need to do the www.freedomprogramme.co.uk and have a look at the "Shark analogy".

If you were my daughter I would be having kind firm words with you to value yourself.

Do you want to be a mecca for losers that won't value you?

If you want a good life, value yourself and make wise choices....even if it means ditching the hot loser.