Would this annoy you if this was said to you?

[Lolololololl]

The guy I am seeing was telling me he won’t see me tonight and will be going out drinking unless ‘I give him a good enough reason to stay in’. With a wink emoji. This has annoyed me. Aibu?

He’ll just shag you then find an excuse to leave so he can go out as well.

Don’t be fooled.

@Busubaba yes he has now said come and give it to him before he goes so he is definitely still going out

Please block this loser.

So you are to rock up to his house so he can empty his balls before his lad's night out?

I would ask can he leave his solid gold cock with me to pawn then?

No other reason would have me running over there to service him.
Jeeze, this has to be a wind up? 🤔

It would be ok if it meant - " we haven't planned to meet and I'm meant to be going out with my friends, but if you are available, I'd rather spend my evening with you". But it doesn't sound like that's what he meant.

In my opinion, if you liked him this wouldn’t be an issue and would enjoy this for what it clearly is - flirting. If you’re not bothered move on.

If this was someone I liked, I’d give him something to stay in for 🤣

Gosh he considers himself quite the prize doesn't he?
You lucky thing.

I agree with this.
Said by a man you really like it would probably be fine (if you're happy to date someone who's not much of a wit or a wordsmith)
The fact you see it as him being presumptuous says you're not that into him.

“Give it to him”- he doesn’t sound like the kind of man to be sensitive and giving in bed, does he?
Why doesn’t he want to go out with you?
Do you have somewhere to go tonight while he’s drinking with his mates after his shag stop at your place?
You’d be better off finding an actual boyfriend.

Gross

Ewww. I'd ignore him for ever more

Actually I will revise my answer to this, if said in a LTR or an established ‘comfy’ relationship I would see it as banter/flirting. Or if (for example) he already had plans to go out and I was the one persuading him to stay in.

But I read this as OP was supposed to see him tonight but he’s ditched her for his friends and will only stay in if he gets a blowjob/sex. And even then will maybe go out after.

🤮
Definitely one to throw back in the pond.

What a twat. Bin.

"Crack on and have fun, I wanted to watch xyz show anyways" would be my response then I'd mute him for a while

In my opinion, if you liked him this wouldn’t be an issue and would enjoy this for what it clearly is - flirting. If you’re not bothered move on.

If this was someone I liked, I’d give him something to stay in for 🤣

That’s some shit flirting.

My bar is higher.

‘can come and give it to him before he goes out’

...I've never wanted to clamp my legs (and everything between them) shut harder in my life. Ick.

"Tempting but no" would be my response.

Are you definitely in a relationship?

As it sounds like he sees you as a FWB and that you’re only inviting him around for sex.
Which is why he’s kindly offered that you give it to him before he goes out.

Gross and would put me off completely

So basically he’s saying I’m going out drinking with my mates unless you’re up for sex?

What an absolute charmer he is.

What a charmer I'm young and that would put me right off, good enough to shag not good enough to take you out to

Yuck get him to fuck how unattractive

Me too!

I would pretend I've misunderstood
"Awww, its lovely you'd rather cancel your night out and take me somewhere nice but I've made plans now. Hope you haven't spent too much on whatever it is your planning on giving me, (do l need to book time off work, l have to get my holidays in quick) can't believe my luck meeting someone as thoughtful and caring as you"