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Kids at the park

405 replies

Blueb3ll · 10/08/2023 19:42

I specifically went to the park late today so it would be quiet and dd (1.5) could explore. When we turned up we were literally the only people there, but after 15 mins or so a group of kids turned up.

When the kids (4 of them, supervised by a teenager), my dd was playing on the slide. They wanted to use the slide so I moved dd and said “come on let’s use something else”, and I moved her to another part which was one of the ways up to this climbing frame. There were 4 ways to get up to this slide. Two of the kids, the same ones I moved her for, I’d say around 7&5 then decided they wanted to come up and down the part she was playing on. Didn’t say excuse me, didn’t say anything, the seven year old looking boy pushed my child out of the way by her head!!! I said “No, don’t push her”. I wasn’t angry, I was just firm.

The boy then didn’t come back but the 5 year old girl kept coming back and trying to push passed dd not saying excuse me or anything. I looked over at the teenager and she was just sat on her phone. I didn’t move dd but I didn’t stop the girl squeezing passed, I don’t think I had the right to tell the girl no go a different way so I just ignored her and carried on playing with dd.

Am I being unreasonable? I’m new to the children’s park scene but how do I handle situations like this?

I can’t believe that boy pushed my 1 year old by her head! I’m annoyed. Is this normal? I’ve never seen any kids in my family/ friends behave like this.

OP posts:
MrsSchrute · 11/08/2023 20:21

Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 15:50

There’s no need for the attitude that others have given me either and yet you want to tell me about it. Anyone would get defensive when you’ve got 5 women getting on your arse

The point is op, you can't control how other people post, that's up to them. You can only control your own responses, and you are choosing to be pretty rude, commenting in people's ages and parenting in a totally unnecessary way.
Some commenters haven't come across well on this thread, but neither have you.

Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 20:22

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Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 20:23

MrsSchrute · 11/08/2023 20:21

The point is op, you can't control how other people post, that's up to them. You can only control your own responses, and you are choosing to be pretty rude, commenting in people's ages and parenting in a totally unnecessary way.
Some commenters haven't come across well on this thread, but neither have you.

I stopped giving a shit about coming across well about ten pages ago

OP posts:
surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:54

I stopped giving a shit about coming across well about ten pages ago

That's extremely obvious!

Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 20:54

surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:54

I stopped giving a shit about coming across well about ten pages ago

That's extremely obvious!

And you think you’re doing much better?

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surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:55

awh, bless. Don’t worry deary, I don’t want you trying to juggle too much at that age. Don’t want you putting a hip out do we

Your poor daughter.

surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:55

And you think you’re doing much better?
Well, yes...

Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 20:56

surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:55

awh, bless. Don’t worry deary, I don’t want you trying to juggle too much at that age. Don’t want you putting a hip out do we

Your poor daughter.

Oh as if you couldn’t tell that was light hearted because she was taking the mick in her comment too.

OP posts:
Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 20:56

surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:55

And you think you’re doing much better?
Well, yes...

That’s so funny, because you’re not. You’re coming across very hypocritical. Every single thing you’ve accused me of you’ve done yourself

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surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:57

OP, you sound SO angry and unhappy. I'm really sorry you feel this way.

Mamette · 11/08/2023 21:03

You don’t sound terribly unhappy OP.

Come on, you have a lovely DD who you obviously love with all your heart.

There will always be little shits in playgrounds, soft plays, beaches etc etc

Just file it in the “shit happens” folder and move on.

Mamette · 11/08/2023 21:04

That was supposed to say you do sound unhappy.

Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 21:05

surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 20:57

OP, you sound SO angry and unhappy. I'm really sorry you feel this way.

You’re hilarious. I’m not angry or unhappy, I’ve actually found your responses quite funny. Because see how you’re saying that to piss me off and you’re really missing your target.

OP posts:
Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 21:06

Mamette · 11/08/2023 21:04

That was supposed to say you do sound unhappy.

This thread has progressed passed my dd and that park and has moved on to a handful of women thinking I’m going to take their sarcastic shit on the internet and not respond

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Mamette · 11/08/2023 21:07

I know that and I’m trying to bring you back to earth.

Honestly this isn’t worth your precious energy.

Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 21:07

Mamette · 11/08/2023 21:04

That was supposed to say you do sound unhappy.

You think I would have even thought about the park thing yesterday if a handful of women weren’t being pedantic and kept coming back to this thread

OP posts:
Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 21:08

Mamette · 11/08/2023 21:07

I know that and I’m trying to bring you back to earth.

Honestly this isn’t worth your precious energy.

Yet you’re directing your comments at me and not the other woman who keeps commenting. Worry about her precious energy too if it’s really about that

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Merseymum992 · 11/08/2023 21:32

Hopefully your daughter will learn that you walk/push PAST some body, not passed.
Every time I read 'passed' it did my head in

Blueb3ll · 11/08/2023 21:43

Merseymum992 · 11/08/2023 21:32

Hopefully your daughter will learn that you walk/push PAST some body, not passed.
Every time I read 'passed' it did my head in

Ooo look we’ve got another snippy woman joining the thread. What a surprise

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Meerkatdog · 11/08/2023 21:55

Haven't RTFT, but no it's not normal behaviour. My 7 year old would never have done that at 3 let alone 5.

Thatboymum · 11/08/2023 22:44

I can’t believe this thread is still going I think it’s ironic that the op expects 5&7 year olds to be kind and compassionate when she in her early 20s hasn’t learnt that life skill yet. The way you have gone on shows that you are no where near mature enough to be a parent yet.

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 11/08/2023 22:51

I can't believe this thread is still going on either. Your replies sound ridiculous now and seems like you always need to have the last word. You don't have to try and turn it into an argument every time someone doesn't agree with you or says something you don't like.

I think most people have said your daughter shouldn't have been hurt but it's your job to make sure you're watching her too, to make sure it doesn't happen either.

BoredZelda · 11/08/2023 23:28

she spent the entire time at the edge of the park on her phone

I guess this is what happens when teenagers are bored in the school holidays. They spend all their time mucking about on their phones.

surreygirl1987 · 11/08/2023 23:29

You’re hilarious. I’m not angry or unhappy, I’ve actually found your responses quite funny. Because see how you’re saying that to piss me off and you’re really missing your target.

Okay, great, good to hear. You really do SOUND very angry and unhappy though. Interesting you seem to think this is funny yet you come across as so angry and aggressive. Anyway, best of luck to you and your daughter.

Panpastels · 12/08/2023 01:02

These things happen, not sure what you want from this post tbh.

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