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Overreaction about glue gun incident at school

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backinthestoneage · 05/08/2023 23:07

https://www-thesun-ie.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.thesun.ie/news/8810155/furious-mum-school-son-burn-glue-gun/amp/?amp_gsa=1&amp_js_v=a9&usqp=mq331AQIUAKwASCAAgM%3D#amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&aoh=16912722078861&csi=1&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thesun.ie%2Fnews%2F8810155%2Ffurious-mum-school-son-burn-glue-gun%2F

Resulting in a teacher misconduct hearing
https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/teacher-misconduct-panel-outcome-ms-sarah-mead

No wonder more and more staff are unwilling to do activities and trips. If the slightest thing goes wrong there will be a petition at the school gates and a public hounding

My son, 10, burnt his hand with a glue gun - I didn't know until he got home

A MUM is livid after her son burnt his hand using a glue gun at school – and she didn’t find out until he got home. Jenna Anderson said 10-year-old Taylen was in serious pain …

https://www-thesun-ie.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.thesun.ie/news/8810155/furious-mum-school-son-burn-glue-gun/amp?amp_gsa=1&amp_js_v=a9&usqp=mq331AQIUAKwASCAAgM%3D#amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&aoh=16912722078861&csi=1&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thesun.ie%2Fnews%2F8810155%2Ffurious-mum-school-son-burn-glue-gun%2F

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truthhurts23 · 06/08/2023 15:12

Bluepiano · 06/08/2023 09:57

He was sent to the medical room but refused to go. The teacher did her best and told him to run it under a cold tap.
For me, all this does is highlight the unreasonable number of responsibilities teachers have and the lack of TA shows the impact of reduced funding. When you have so many responsibilities and tasks to do each day, it is no wonder something is forgotten. It has happened to me many times.

If the child is injured it becomes a priority, where did you read that the boy refused to go to medical ?
He should have been told he HAS to go to medical and if he refused his mum should’ve been phoned to remove him from school
you don’t just shrug your shoulders and leave the child in pain
maybe if they didn’t give the primary school kids glue guns in the first place then they could have avoided accidents like these

punjana · 06/08/2023 15:17

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5368862/

punjana · 06/08/2023 15:18

A NICE endorsed piece of research on moist (petroleum ie Vaseline) based dressings for burns

ilovesooty · 06/08/2023 15:44

truthhurts23 · 06/08/2023 15:12

If the child is injured it becomes a priority, where did you read that the boy refused to go to medical ?
He should have been told he HAS to go to medical and if he refused his mum should’ve been phoned to remove him from school
you don’t just shrug your shoulders and leave the child in pain
maybe if they didn’t give the primary school kids glue guns in the first place then they could have avoided accidents like these

It's in the report that he refused to follow instructions.

LlynTegid · 06/08/2023 15:49

School may have been slow or wrong in how they responded. That does not make running off to speak to the paper than libelled those at Hillsborough in April 1989 an acceptable response.

truthhurts23 · 06/08/2023 15:54

ilovesooty · 06/08/2023 15:44

It's in the report that he refused to follow instructions.

i didn’t read that part but so what?? He’s a child, the adult has to make the decision for him , and like I said if he really was adamant that he didn’t want to go to medical for whatever reason , they should have called his mum to collect him from school
I really don’t believe they were insistent on him going to medical,
im imagining that they asked him if he wanted to go to medical and he refused, like most children do , and then they dropped it after that
It’s pathetic

Callyem · 06/08/2023 16:08

truthhurts23 · 06/08/2023 15:54

i didn’t read that part but so what?? He’s a child, the adult has to make the decision for him , and like I said if he really was adamant that he didn’t want to go to medical for whatever reason , they should have called his mum to collect him from school
I really don’t believe they were insistent on him going to medical,
im imagining that they asked him if he wanted to go to medical and he refused, like most children do , and then they dropped it after that
It’s pathetic

It was the end of the day. He didn't TELL his teacher - another child did. He refused to SHOW his teacher, another child pulled his hand away where he was covering it up. He was asked to go to medical and refused. He was asked to run it under the cold tap and refused. Was it not already hometime, she would have had other options EG involving the office but you can't keep a child back at hometime who refuses treatment.

The teacher would have had 30 children to see off and was then handling an urgent safeguarding matter involving vulnerable children.

Presumably, this teacher planned to call home and log it immediately after school but was caught up with the CP issue and then forgot. It could have happened to anyone.

Woopzies · 06/08/2023 16:15

Teacher should have done more to prevent this in the first place.
Teacher should have acted in accordance with protocol after the injury had happened.
Parent overreacted majorly.

Overreaction about glue gun incident at school
Overreaction about glue gun incident at school
Eddyraisins · 06/08/2023 16:17

Teacher couldn't win if had spent 15 mins getting the number of parent, arguing with child to go to medical then:-

Late for duty- Safeguarding not doing your job.
Didn't deal with serious DSLissue- Safeguarding not doing job.

What happened? Same thing.

Pulled too many ways. No time.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 06/08/2023 16:17

MillicentBystandr · 06/08/2023 10:02

The HT didn’t tell her to resign, that was advice given to the HT by HR.

The tribunal found her culpable- the facts are she made serious errors.

She hasn’t lost her career. She’d already gotten another teaching job in a different school as there was character statements from her current HT.
The Tribunal decided not to do a prohibition, so she’s still got her new job.

Im very glad about that, but it is completely, mind blowingly insane that this became a professional conduct issue.
Yes, silly mother we’re very sorry but no, silly mother, we are not taking any steps against this teacher, and we don’t care which tabloid tag you run to. End.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 06/08/2023 16:18

Eddyraisins · 06/08/2023 16:17

Teacher couldn't win if had spent 15 mins getting the number of parent, arguing with child to go to medical then:-

Late for duty- Safeguarding not doing your job.
Didn't deal with serious DSLissue- Safeguarding not doing job.

What happened? Same thing.

Pulled too many ways. No time.

Quite. She took a sensible view of what the real priorities were. That’s life. If the mother doesn’t like it, tough.

MillicentBystandr · 06/08/2023 16:25

punjana · 06/08/2023 15:18

A NICE endorsed piece of research on moist (petroleum ie Vaseline) based dressings for burns

Sorry, @punjana but in the study you’ve posted (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5368862/)
the Vaseline was used in the control group, not the moist dressing treatment group which used Mepitel/Mepilex. So the study actually is one of many showing Vaseline is not good for burns:

“The treatment group received a moist dressing in the treatment of burn wounds and the control group adopted iodine gauze or Vaseline gauze coverage. Wound healing effect and the impact on the degree of pain of in the two different treatment methods were observed after treatment. The results of 42 patients were included in the analysis. The average healing time of patients’ burn wounds in treatment group is (10.9 3.3) d, and the average healing time in control group is (13.8 3.6) d, so, the difference is significant (P<0.01). Wound pain in the treatment group is significantly lower than that in the control group (P<0.01). Using moist dressing (Mepitel and Mepilex, etc.) in the treatment of burn wounds, wound-healing time can be shortened and wound pain can be reduced significantly.”

The application of moist dressing in treating burn wound

Basic experiments have demonstrated that the effect of wound healing in moist environments is better than that in dry environments; therefore, research on moist dressing is the focus of wound healing research. 42 burn patients receiving treatment in Ji...

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5368862/

MillicentBystandr · 06/08/2023 16:36

Frydaycryday · 06/08/2023 10:07

Then you will know the nhs don't use 1st, 2nd and 3rd degree anymore. They use categories, the first two categories are superficial ....not full thickness burns which would be what you're implying is 3rd degree. The doctor says superficial. You are incorrect.

Yes I do know, but on a website with laywomen mums it’s usually best to use terms more commonly understood than a deep dermal burn- which is the old 3rd degree burn. A full thickness burn is a 4th degree burn.

It wasn’t listed in the notes as a diagnosis, but an impression so not the notes of a doctor.

I’m giving my own opinion, I think the hospital were wrong about the burn. It is clearly not a superficial burn. It is a minor burn overall because despite being a severe burn (deep dermal) it covers less than 1% of his body.

Caribun · 06/08/2023 16:41

MillicentBystandr · 06/08/2023 00:24

A minor medical professional as it was notes and it said “impression: superficial burn” meaning it wasn’t a doctor that wrote it, and it wasn’t a diagnosis.

Just wanted to say this interpretation of the way the medical report was written is absolutely, completely and utterly wrong.

You clearly have no really understanding of what you're talking about, so just stop.

Cigarettesandbooze · 06/08/2023 16:48

The mother is an absolute disgrace. She should be ashamed of herself.

MillicentBystandr · 06/08/2023 16:52

Caribun · 06/08/2023 16:41

Just wanted to say this interpretation of the way the medical report was written is absolutely, completely and utterly wrong.

You clearly have no really understanding of what you're talking about, so just stop.

There was no formal medical report.
The bits being quoted are from a hospital clinical summary sheet.

I8toys · 06/08/2023 16:53

Mother is totally in the wrong. Waiting for a payout obviously. Terrible example to her child.

ilovesooty · 06/08/2023 16:59

truthhurts23 · 06/08/2023 15:54

i didn’t read that part but so what?? He’s a child, the adult has to make the decision for him , and like I said if he really was adamant that he didn’t want to go to medical for whatever reason , they should have called his mum to collect him from school
I really don’t believe they were insistent on him going to medical,
im imagining that they asked him if he wanted to go to medical and he refused, like most children do , and then they dropped it after that
It’s pathetic

Anyone would think that you were actually there - you're so adamant about how it was handled.

Cinnamonandcoal · 06/08/2023 17:00

Still have a scar now from a glue gun burn at school. It hurt, I think I went to the school nurse, I'm almost certain they did not call my parents. No big deal.

MillicentBystander2022 · 06/08/2023 17:11

We used soldering irons, glue guns and heat presses from year 6. I didn't think I was that old, but apparently I am. Are these all a big no no now? Not that i would blame the schools, tbh.

Soontobe60 · 06/08/2023 17:13

Ilovenicnacs · 05/08/2023 23:19

I'm a teacher and have used glue guns in lessons before and whilst you cannot always avoid a (tiny) burn, I really do think the teacher should have informed the parent.

She was busy dealing with a serious safeguarding concern at home time and wasn’t able to tell the mum at the end of the day because the mum didnt pick her child up. Seems like the mum thinks hes old enough and sensible enough to walk home alone but not to use a glue gun without being smothered!

Soontobe60 · 06/08/2023 17:15

MillicentBystandr · 05/08/2023 23:42

That is a small but very deep 3rd degree burn, it isn’t minor in its severity. It should have been first aided and his parents contacted in regards to getting him to be seen. I think the mum was right to complain about her DC just being left untreated.

That’s not what the hospital report says. It says its a superficial burn.

MinnieTruck · 06/08/2023 17:17

I do understand the mum’s complaint as she should have been informed straight away regardless of what the teacher had to do. What I don’t agree with is going to the media and social media BEFORE giving the school a chance to rectify the issue.

Madness all around. Why are they even using glue guns in primary school?

Soontobe60 · 06/08/2023 17:17

truthhurts23 · 05/08/2023 23:55

the school was negligent by, not informing the parent
the boy was in pain and wasn't sent to the medical room ,
the burn was blistered and weeping , they should have covered it to prevent an infection
the mother is not over reacting

You forgot to add that the boy was told earlier not to use the glue gun as the teacher had not at that point demonstrated to his group how to use it. He was in another group in a different room and went himself into the room where the children, who had been shown how to use a glue gun safely, were working.

Soontobe60 · 06/08/2023 17:19

arghtriffid · 06/08/2023 00:05

think the worst thing about this story is the lack of the school's support for that poor teacher

Well actually a child possibly having to have multiple operations on their dominant hand maybe trumps a job or at least counts a lot higher than you think.

Glue guns should be banned in primary schools.

A burn caused by a glue gun is about as minor as it gets. Would you also ban knives and fire used in Forest school, or ovens used in cookery lessons, or candles used in birthday cakes?