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To think MN may be becoming pointless now half the threads seem to be created by Chat GPT’s younger siblings, purely to waste our time?

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MayIDestroyYou · 29/07/2023 09:37

This morning I’m struggling to believe any of the new threads I’m opening. Even S&B is weird. Everything seems to be the sort of insubstantial cliched situation a young AI might spit out for fun. Hmm

At least I know the Archers thread is real! Although who knows how long it will be before the show is written by not-humans?

(I don’t actually want the Poll, but can’t find how to get rid of it.)

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KeepingKeepingOn · 29/07/2023 10:31

Here you go - I just put this command into Chat GPT:
Write a mumsnet post about an old friend telling me he’s in love with me

and it spat out:
“Title: Need advice: Old friend just confessed his love for me!

Hi Mumsnet community!

I'm in a bit of a pickle and could really use some advice. Today, an old friend of mine reached out and dropped a bombshell on me. He confessed that he's developed romantic feelings for me and is in love. I'm caught off guard, to say the least!

A little background: We've known each other for more than a decade and were really close during our university years. We lost touch over time, but recently reconnected on social media. We've been casually catching up and reminiscing about old times over messages. I always saw him as just a good friend, nothing more.

His heartfelt declaration has left me unsure about how to proceed. On one hand, I am flattered that he feels this way about me and it's lovely to know that I've impacted his life positively. On the other hand, I never saw him in a romantic light, and I genuinely value our friendship.

I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I also don't want to lead him on or give him false hope. I'm happily married and very much committed to my amazing husband, so pursuing anything romantic is completely out of the question.

Have any of you experienced something similar? How did you handle it without damaging the friendship? Should I have a straightforward conversation with him about my boundaries, or is it best to let things settle naturally? I want to ensure he knows I value our friendship and that my marital status is not up for debate.

I appreciate any advice or guidance you can offer during this slightly awkward situation. Thank you in advance!”

So characteristics at the moment are a greeting, use of exclamation marks and ending on questions - a good way of sussing some of them out!

ScentlessAprentice · 29/07/2023 10:32

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That's just as offensive as your previous post

SoCentralRain · 29/07/2023 10:35

That’s bloody frightening KeepingKeepingOn !

5foot5 · 29/07/2023 10:35

Cheesusisgrate · 29/07/2023 10:02

There are also non AI made up ones. There was a spout of posts with exactly same issues eg missing words and same syntax. Just random weird posts from new usernames.
It feela like half is made up now on here

It's also the school holidays.

SindyisbetterthanBarbie · 29/07/2023 10:37

Fromage · 29/07/2023 10:05

I've noticed a sharp uprise in Americanisms. Not necessarily the spelling, but phrasing.

Disclaimer: I am not a bot. To prove this, I have drawn a grid with pictures in each square, and then jabbed my finger on all the ones with bridges. Because I am a technonumpty, you'll have to take my word for this because I have forgotten how to upload a photo.

It's funny your second reply had an American spelling from someone seemingly from northern England 😂

Cheesusisgrate · 29/07/2023 10:37

@KeepingKeepingOn yup. Sounda vwry much like many posts here. I actually sometimes tun them via random AI checkers for fun.
This one showed 60% AI🤷https://www.zerogpt.com/

The pikle bit is mentioned now quite a few times.

Appleofmyeye2023 · 29/07/2023 10:38

I see a huge amount of adhd, autism etc. that doesn’t match the prevalence of these conditions in the population. Some days it’s like every other thread

There’s also a degree of Pythonesque “I had it worse than you” days, with post after post on “my abusive relationship is worse than the previous one”.

when I’m feeling more patient I think- well people in difficulty will post so it’s bound to be more common on posting than in normal population. But other days it’s a bit “what another one “ 🤯 . You’d read this and think every family has an autistic child on some days.

But behind the trending stuff, is loads of post that are genuine, rather dull unless you have some experience to share and these just don’t hit”trending” . I guess many of us follow one or 2 of those more specific threads where we feel our own experiences make meaningful interactions.
there’s not a lot of chat bot interactions on the sewing bee thread for instance, or the live strictly threads. Or areas like health, divorce/separation,

So, if it’s there it’s deliberately being created in click bait areas. I’m sure the gender threads are good target areas, and obviously AIBU, which is a sitting duck to both chat bots or bored people inventing very emotive posts for clicks and wind up thrills.

MermaidEyes · 29/07/2023 10:39

It's also the school holidays.

Trust me, teenagers aren't wasting their time on here. They're on instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, BeReal....unless you mean teachers....

MayIDestroyYou · 29/07/2023 10:39

Fucking hell, @KeepingKeepingOn! That is just terrifying. But still, as I indicated, weirdly bland and generic. It’s still learning.

We’re doomed.

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Cheesusisgrate · 29/07/2023 10:41

Anyone mentioning xxx bots. Howwould one become paid popaganda spreader?
😂 Looking for side job

Appleofmyeye2023 · 29/07/2023 10:42

I think people would know mine aren’t chat bots- too many typos and c rap spelling
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

thecatsthecats · 29/07/2023 10:43

Interesting.

I habituate another SM site which is rife with shitty ChatGPT posts and replies, but MN seemed pretty clear to me so far. The other site allows users to monetize their content.

RhosynBach · 29/07/2023 10:44

I just tried a free chatbot trial out of interest . Here’s what chatgpt said when I asked it to make a mumsnet post about 2 sisters wanting the same name for their baby. It did it in seconds:

Title: Pregnant Sister Drama: Name Clash with Unborn Babies

Hi Mumsnetters,

I find myself in a rather tricky situation and would appreciate your advice on how to handle this delicate matter. My sister and I are both expecting babies, and we've recently discovered that we have our hearts set on the same name for our little ones. The situation has escalated into a heated argument, and I'm not sure how to resolve it without causing further tension between us.

To give you some background, my sister and I have always been close, and we've often discussed our future children's names. However, it seems we both fell in love with the same name independently, and now we're at odds over who should get to use it. We're both due around the same time, which adds an extra layer of complexity to the situation.

I understand that names can hold significant sentimental value, and it's natural for both of us to want the best for our children. However, I can't help but feel a little hurt that my sister isn't willing to consider an alternative name. I've tried suggesting variations or even using the name as a middle name, but she remains adamant that she wants it as the first name for her baby.

I'm torn between wanting to maintain a strong bond with my sister and wanting to honor my own desires for my child's name. It's a name that holds deep personal meaning for me, and I can't imagine my baby being called anything else. At the same time, I don't want this disagreement to strain our relationship or cause unnecessary stress during our pregnancies.

Has anyone else experienced a similar situation? How did you handle it? I'd love to hear your thoughts and suggestions on how to navigate this tricky naming dilemma. Should we consider a compromise, or is it fair for one of us to claim the name exclusively?

Please share your experiences and advice. I'm hoping we can find a resolution that allows both of us to feel happy and respected during this special time in our lives.

Thank you in advance for your support and understanding.

Warm regards,
[name]

RhosynBach · 29/07/2023 10:44

They do seem to have a similar format so that helps identify them

TeenDivided · 29/07/2023 10:45

A major giveaway at the moment is that they all start with a greeting, which MN posts generally don't.

Taylorswiftly23 · 29/07/2023 10:46

Holeee smoley. As a techno numpty this shit is really scary 😧

Joey2323 · 29/07/2023 10:47

TeenDivided · 29/07/2023 10:45

A major giveaway at the moment is that they all start with a greeting, which MN posts generally don't.

Yes this! They start “Hi Mumsnet” and end with “[name]”

Pinkywoo · 29/07/2023 10:48

ScentlessAprentice · 29/07/2023 10:32

That's just as offensive as your previous post

Though this is an extremely accurate description of my FIL (who is almost certainly on the spectrum).

RhosynBach · 29/07/2023 10:48

I’m quite entertained by it. It just wrote me a song about fish 😂

(Verse 1)
In the deep blue sea, where the waters flow,
There's a world of wonder that we all know.
Where creatures swim with grace and shimmering scales,
Let's dive into a tale about fish and their trails.

(Chorus)
Oh, fish in the ocean, so vibrant and free,
Dancing through the waves, in perfect harmony.
From the coral reefs to the rivers that flow,
Let's celebrate these creatures, let their beauty show.

(Verse 2)
From the tiny guppies to the mighty whales,
Fish come in all sizes, with tales to unveil.
With fins and gills, they navigate the sea,
A symphony of colors, a sight to see.

(Chorus)
Oh, fish in the ocean, so vibrant and free,
Dancing through the waves, in perfect harmony.
From the coral reefs to the rivers that flow,
Let's celebrate these creatures, let their beauty show.

(Bridge)
Beneath the surface, a world unknown,
Where fish call their home, in a kingdom of their own.
They dart and glide, in a watery ballet,
A mesmerizing display, in their own special way.

(Verse 3)
From the clownfish hiding in anemone's embrace,
To the graceful angelfish, with elegance and grace.
The salmon's journey, against the river's flow,
Fish teach us resilience, as they come and go.

(Chorus)
Oh, fish in the ocean, so vibrant and free,
Dancing through the waves, in perfect harmony.
From the coral reefs to the rivers that flow,
Let's celebrate these creatures, let their beauty show.

(Outro)
So let's protect their habitats, keep the oceans clean,
For the fish and their world, a precious marine.
In their underwater realm, let their stories unfold,
A symphony of life, a tale to be told.

ManchesterGirl2 · 29/07/2023 10:49

Those examples are a bit terrifying. I don't think I'd have realised. Would have just plugged them as a slightly boring and overly polite person.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 29/07/2023 10:50

Appleofmyeye2023 · 29/07/2023 10:26

I’m always confused by those- a bicycle? Is that a whole bicylce in one square or a bits of a bike including a small cm of the wheel?
I have to take my glasses off and peer at screen 1 inch away to check I’ve got all the bits
🤷🏼‍♀️🙄

The ones with traffic lights are the worst. Foreign (? American?) traffic lights which don’t look like UK ones, how are you supposed to identify them?

Signed, Grumpy real human.

FiveShelties · 29/07/2023 10:52

I think MN is being used by a creative writing course and their 'students' make up the most ridiculous threads and see who gets the most responses,

meridian37 · 29/07/2023 10:52

I've seen quite a few threads over the last 2-3 months that are brand new topics but I've 100% seen them before

Exactly the same scenario but posted that day

AgnesX · 29/07/2023 10:55

Any examples? I'm real 😁

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 29/07/2023 10:55

Whales are not fish. Back to school for the chatbot.