Before getting married DH always said he would have loved to have 4 kids. I always liked the idea of having 3 DCs so we were sort of compatible from that POV.
Few years later…after having 2 DC, DH said he was done. He is finding being a parent super hard and he is absolutely against having other kids.
I would love to have a 3rd child but both parents have to be 100% on board…so I am slowly wrapping my head around the idea that this is it. I am working on it.
Anyway, my DH keeps reminding me (like once a week) that we have to sell/donate/get rid of the old newborn/baby stuff because we are not going to use them anymore.
Our youngest kid is almost 2 years old.
Please note, we have no issues with storage space. Everything is nicely packed and tucked away in the basement.
I said to him I am not ready to see it all go. I need more time to process and I need to do it when I am mentally ready.
He said this is absurd and that they are only things. That it is even counterproductive to have them around if I feel so torn about this whole topic.
What do you think?