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Huw Edwards named as BBC presenter!

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Amuseaboosh · 12/07/2023 18:04

I'm actually shocked.

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Chickenkeev · 12/07/2023 20:22

TheCheeseTray · 12/07/2023 20:13

Let’s wait and see. If they were under 18 he has. If he was as previously quoted ‘very angry’ and sent abusive, threatening or intimidating messages to silence those young people again that could be a criminal offence. If he arranged to meet up with them in lockdown that could be criminal or at the least very hypocritical - and message to any on dating sites/ sending images married men - don’t lie to your wife, children and church and pretend to be a Christian or a decent human being when you aren’t behaving as one.

depression or mental health is not an excuse for such behaviour or indeed abuse of any kind - it’s become a sort of ‘get out of jail free card’. My ex-friends daughter has ‘anxiety’ and broke another girl’s nose at school last year after a harassment campaign - in her exclusion appeal she banged on about her anxiety and mental health / I calmly said what about the girl with a cracked cheek bone and broken nose who was as it turned out entirely innocent of anything - what about her anxiety and mental health never mind GCSEs as she hasn’t gone back to school since and is afraid to leave the house - my ex friend is so concerned about her daughter she doesn’t consider the implications on others.

It's not 'anxiety'. It's anxiety. It is an actual thing. A dreadful, debilitating condition. Some people might use it an excuse for shit behaviour, but some of us really suffer horribly with it.

Mygazpachoistoocold · 12/07/2023 20:22

Amuseaboosh · 12/07/2023 18:08

And now the 'mental health issues' is being trotted out.

That's a disgusting statement to make OP, coming here with your faux naivety 'ooh I didn't realise it was him' but rushing in to start a new thread despite the fact his name has been bandied about on here for days.

So many posters on this thread seem to think they know the truth, yet so far on this thread alone I've read that some people think the person involved was male others female. They were contacting them on Snapchat or they met through Only Fans. The pictures are real, the pictures are fake. Look at another thread and you'll get even more possibilities. It's doubtful that anyone posting here knows for sure.

What I do know is it's all a mess. I hope that everyone involved is getting the support that they need.

Lifeomars · 12/07/2023 20:23

Bluekangaroo123 · 12/07/2023 20:04

It isn’t, that’s the Mirror.

It's rabidly right wing and very much giving to lying. It and the Mail run the political agenda in this country. Murdoch owns the Sun and likes to think of himself as a "king maker" when it comes to who holds power in this country. He is a poison in our democracy.

Here's an interesting story about the Sun. I live in a rough area of a well known city and we have a lot of issues with anti-social behaviour, think rubbish, street drinking and fly tipping. One of my neighbours contacted the Sun and down they came , took loads of photos and interviewed lots of people including myself. The subsequent article was a grossly exaggerated story with a distinctly racist flavour. It is a foul rag

Willyoujustbequiet · 12/07/2023 20:25

Brieandcamembert · 12/07/2023 20:20

If it's not criminal why is it our business?

Because we are licence payers and he is a 61 year old married man paying vulnerable teenagers for his sexual gratification.

Raise your bar.

BOOTS52PollyPrissyPants · 12/07/2023 20:25

I didn't know either and am also shocked. I only come on here but do not use any other social media except for reading online news so was really shocked. I feel sorry for his wife and children and just sick of all these people in power using that power to get what they want. Why do these men not leave their wives and live their lives how they wish to and be honest and truthful instead of putting their family through hell. Why are these men in their 50's and 60's only interested in younger people, is it about the power. Sad and shocking and feel for the parents also of that boy who was only 17.

IWasFunBeforeMum · 12/07/2023 20:27

Victoria Derbyshire pretty much confirmed it Monday night on Newsnight when she said Huw instead of who. Best slip up I've ever seen, especially as she was reading a script of "we don't know who it is either" 😂

Daphodils · 12/07/2023 20:27

Willyoujustbequiet · 12/07/2023 20:25

Because we are licence payers and he is a 61 year old married man paying vulnerable teenagers for his sexual gratification.

Raise your bar.

Because it's none of your business. Butt out!

Fuckit83 · 12/07/2023 20:27

BBC News is like an obituary at the moment!!

Florenz · 12/07/2023 20:28

He should be sacked. The BBC are clearly paying their newsreaders too much money if he can afford to pay £35k for dirty snaps.

RedRosesPinkLilies · 12/07/2023 20:28

There’s a difference between mental health issues and psychiatric illness. Depression can be more severe than the general public understand and can affect behaviour
The problem is that mental health gets so much publicity these days that some people think it’s the same as psychiatric illness - where one’s behaviour actually might be out of one’s control.

And I am not defending the man. None of us know the true story. But I’m fed up seeing Mental Health and Mental Illness equated.

KisstheTeapot14 · 12/07/2023 20:28

I just feel sad about the whole thing, and all involved.

Why do men do this? Surely they know it risks their career even if not illegal? Terrible judgement.

Young people need to have better training on use of social media and sex. Not 'victim blaming' just - they need the tools to navigate this world without being taken advantage of. 17 is still really young. I work in a college and I look at students coming through the door and I see big kids, working things out, and being silly and still growing up. I just don't get how older males can look and see something so different. Gives me the ick tbh.

Even if I did think like that, I would just keep it to myself and not act on it!
I'd get a disciplinary at the least.

Maybe the media world needs to do more mandatory safeguarding training for the sake of staff and young people who happen to meander into their world.

I am sad for Huw though. It's just.....disappointing. You know, there are people you feel trust for. Hope the young person is OK and I hope Huw is too. I don't like to think of anyone hurting mental health wise. I'm sure he's having time to reflect on decisions made.

Willyoujustbequiet · 12/07/2023 20:28

Daphodils · 12/07/2023 20:27

Because it's none of your business. Butt out!

I pay his wages so it is absolutely my business

Stop minimising disgusting behaviour.

LuluBlakey1 · 12/07/2023 20:28

Dovetail40 · 12/07/2023 20:11

I thought Huw was gay.
Didnt know he was married to a woman.

Just always assumed he was a gay man.

What a useless comment.

Pleasebeafleabite · 12/07/2023 20:29

tunbridgeoutrage · 12/07/2023 20:16

With due respect I think that you sound mad and bad. Otherwise why would you accuse a man of criminal acts when he has committed none?

I read on Twitter someone writing that it may be difficult for us to imagine this but some young people are attracted to older people. Some aspects of this story may be unsavoury to you or me but as I said no crime has been committed.

Some people are easily influenced by the lies of the Sun newspaper.

Are you really this naive?

We are at complainant number six now and that’s not including the first case.

I’m sure seven young people were all attracted to Huw and his saggy 60-year-old bare arse

Thesenderofthiscard · 12/07/2023 20:29

‘And now the 'mental health issues' is being trotted out.’

yup. I manage my anxiety and depression without abusing teenagers.

Chickenkeev · 12/07/2023 20:30

RedRosesPinkLilies · 12/07/2023 20:28

There’s a difference between mental health issues and psychiatric illness. Depression can be more severe than the general public understand and can affect behaviour
The problem is that mental health gets so much publicity these days that some people think it’s the same as psychiatric illness - where one’s behaviour actually might be out of one’s control.

And I am not defending the man. None of us know the true story. But I’m fed up seeing Mental Health and Mental Illness equated.

That's a really interesting point, i'd genuinely love to know where the line is.

Lentilweaver · 12/07/2023 20:30

Thesenderofthiscard · 12/07/2023 20:29

‘And now the 'mental health issues' is being trotted out.’

yup. I manage my anxiety and depression without abusing teenagers.

As do most women.

MrsMarzetti · 12/07/2023 20:31

I didn't have a clue who it was. I am gutted it was Huw. I feel for his family.

Namechangey23 · 12/07/2023 20:32

storminamooncup · 12/07/2023 20:02

I thought the S*n was a Labour paper (I've never read it)

No of course not. You only need do a quick Google. It stands for Conservatism, Populism and Euroscepticism...

Dymaxion · 12/07/2023 20:32

I sort of understand the 'mental health card' thingy, how many times have we seen posters on here struggling with a DH who is suddenly experiencing a mental health crisis that actually turns out to be ' a cheating bastard' crisis ?

He may well be experiencing a mental health crisis given everything that has unfolded over the last few days, I mean who wouldn't ? So may all the other people involved in this scenario , I can't imagine the parents of the young person who started this are feeling particularly happy, or the young person at the centre of it or the wife and children of Huw, there are a lot of people who also deserve compassion and understanding. There are no real winners in this situation are there ?

lubileejubilee · 12/07/2023 20:33

Gerrataere · 12/07/2023 20:04

You clearly have little idea of what a power play is or how vulnerable young people are. Especially these days. Sex work has always shown to have negative effects on the person selling themselves. There is never a healthy reason as to why one so young would do so. What used to be seen as seedy is now celebrated - both ways are as bad as each other because when it goes to shit that person never gets to say ‘I made a huge mistake, I thought I was in control at the time but it was the worst thing I could have done’. They’re always to blame for ‘their own actions’ rather than being seen for someone who was groomed into thinking that sex and selling their bodies is simply something they can shut off into the back of their minds. And that grooming is so prevalent these days to even question buying sex is considered backwards.

Hell why don’t we just have full blown red light districts and be done with it, right on the high street? Pop to Primark, run to the card shop, get a teen to wank behind a shop window for you, grab a Greggs for the way home. All just paying for a service isn’t it…

Research shows that when major cities open red light districts reports of sex crimes rescued by around 30-40% so not a bad suggestion!

Give your head a wobble and stop making out that every young person is a vulnerable scared child for Christ sake. At that age I was at uni and most of my friends were intentionally using their good looks to flirt with guys and have them guy drinks all night, before ditching them at the first opportunity. Young folk are more street smart than you give them credit for and will happily ‘abuse’ or just use the tools they have in their arsenal to get what they want, be that drinks, pics etc.

Thesenderofthiscard · 12/07/2023 20:34

He’s gone to ‘rehab’ to try to save his career and reputation. It’s not going to work.
it’s about as convincing as the actors going to rehab for sex addiction after they’re caught doing the dirty on their wife

LuluBlakey1 · 12/07/2023 20:34

I don't know but how about: someone grows up in a narrow-minded family, at a time where being gay was not acceptable, in a small community and family where religion is very important, anti-gay and controlling. He feels unable to be open, marries out of convention, has children and feels tied by that and by his public persona and past to be 'straight'. Suffers depression increasingly often over years and finds a way to explore his sexuality.

Jennybeans401 · 12/07/2023 20:35

I'm willing to give Huw the benefit of the doubt.

My dsis suffers with bipolar and during manic episodes used to be promiscuous. She's had treatment but still struggles as it's a long term condition. People with stressful jobs will find it harder to manage.

Dovetail40 · 12/07/2023 20:35

lubileejubilee · 12/07/2023 20:33

Research shows that when major cities open red light districts reports of sex crimes rescued by around 30-40% so not a bad suggestion!

Give your head a wobble and stop making out that every young person is a vulnerable scared child for Christ sake. At that age I was at uni and most of my friends were intentionally using their good looks to flirt with guys and have them guy drinks all night, before ditching them at the first opportunity. Young folk are more street smart than you give them credit for and will happily ‘abuse’ or just use the tools they have in their arsenal to get what they want, be that drinks, pics etc.

Agree but then are those who are vulnerable in this group too who will just get expolited.
Even though they think they are in control.

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