I've changed username for this incase I get recognised in real life.
Earlier this morning my DH was shouting at me as we'd got back from holiday yesterday and he was going to collect the cat from the cattery and was asking how much it was, and started shouting as I didn't remember.
About an hour ago in the garden he was shouting at me about something else, whilst I was indoors. Shouting that I'm selfish, as he can't get to work next week as I've told him be can't borrow my car as I need it and basically shouting I think to get peoples attention and to embarrass me.
Anyway the lady next door likes a drink shall we say and started asking DH if he's ok, probably as he's shouting at me so she thinks I've done something to make him angry. Then he tells her he's ok and she puts her hand through the fence to hold his hand and say it's ok etc.
Then she lets go and is in her own garden and shouted "You C*" at the top of her voice. I'm guessing this is aimed at me.
I just feel so upset about it. Obviously she thinks I'm to blame. She really likes my DH as she's told me before as he's down to earth shall we say and I know she thinks I'm stuck up. I don't think I've given her reason to think I'm stuck up, we are just different people, we are same age and we have children but hers have left home and she lives there alone, whereas I had children later in life so mine are still at home. I work, she doesn't etc so I guess we are just different people.
What to do?