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Shitty men

54 replies

ohjeesus · 21/06/2023 01:17

why do so many women choose shitty men?
i just don’t understand it!

YABU some women are fools
YANBU fuck them

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BodegaSushi · 21/06/2023 21:10

Soopermum1 · 21/06/2023 20:31

But what about the women who have it all laid out in front of them and still go for it. Thinking here of my ex, with his domestic violence conviction, not seen DC in 4 years, 2 years in court, contact centre, other 2 month old baby from a 'brief relationship' acrimonious relationship with both mothers. Well documented mental health problems. etc etc. His new flame, with vulnerable children, still skipped off to the supervised visits with the contact centre staff as soon as she could.

Before anyone suggests, I met him very young before any of this stuff was an issue.

Desperate.

Bunbuns3 · 21/06/2023 21:14

That's obvious. They pretend not to be shitty in the beginning, then the shittyness slowly creeps in until it is too late.

FictionalCharacter · 21/06/2023 22:00

Thelnebriati · 21/06/2023 11:38

House! we have a NAMALT and a Women Do It Too in the same post.

Haven’t RTFT but have we had Not My Nigel yet?

sonearly · 21/06/2023 22:56

I don't know. I've also found through bitter experience that sometimes the "nice" person everyone wonders this about is actually a weapons-grade shitty person themselves.

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