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To love my dogs as much as my kid?

107 replies

passioninthisworld · 18/06/2023 17:59

Okay rationally, I know that if I had to choose between saving my dogs or saving my kid, I'd choose my kid of course. But wow, do I love my dogs.

I've had cats in the past and dogs growing up and sure I've loved them and been fond of them but these two are honestly like my children.

They're very small dogs so not sure if that makes a difference as they can be 'baby like' but I honestly feel the same way I did with my daughter when I was bonding with her.

Pure pride, contentment when I'm with them. I still feel this way when with my daughter but she is getting into the teens and is quite moody and sometimes just doesn't seem to like me very much. My dogs are always happy to see me and they keep me company when my daughter is out or at her dads for the weekend.

I just love them so much, I get this fuzzy feeling when I look at them and they've honestly brought me soooo much joy the past year and a bit.

It was hard in the beginning but now that they're all trained they are just lovely.

Does anyone else feel this way about their pets? Is it normal?

OP posts:
Kanaloa · 18/06/2023 22:44

bamboonights · 18/06/2023 22:28

I love my dog as much as my children as the love I have for all of them is exactly the same, Dog is a third child to me. If I had to give him up to care for a sick child with a disability long term and the dog didn't fit in or I couldn't cope, my child would come first in that scenario.

So if we’re totally honest, the love you have for them isn’t equal. If the dog was sick/couldn’t cope with the child then you wouldn’t get rid of the child, would you? Because you love the child more or feel the child is more important.

Rapunzzel · 19/06/2023 00:01

Er… beauty is in the eye of the beholder ya know

Ain't that the truth.

Catsmere · 19/06/2023 06:35

I don’t have children (nor ever wanted to) so can’t make that comparison, but I certainly love my cats more than any human being, my mother and sister included. Not only love them more, but like them more.

DetMcNulty · 19/06/2023 08:19

I don't love my dog more than my kids (even though they are teens), but it's closer than I would have thought it would have been before he got him, and I really wasn't expecting to love him as much as i do. I work from home 4 days a week, he's my wee (well 60kg giant) pal, sits beside me all day, he runs with me every morning, follows me everywhere, is super protective - the way he loves my kids is so endearing.

I do think I love him more than my partner and parents though, which I'm still not sure what that says about those relationships. When I go away with work I miss him the most, and haven't booked any holidays that mean I can't take him with me.

aSofaNearYou · 19/06/2023 10:20

It sounds like you feel that way because they are replacing the warm, loving relationship you miss having with your teen DD, to me!

Fightyouforthatpie · 19/06/2023 10:22

YABVU

Missingmyusername · 19/06/2023 10:24

Redebs · 18/06/2023 18:36

No it's a revolting attitude.

🤣

YANBU op.

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