I've been told that I can't use the loo at the school at pick up (which I've done a few times before).
Background - younger sibling and I walk to school (about 15-20 minutes, often takes longer to walk home) to get their sibling. I have continence issues arising from birth complications. Sometimes I just need to sort myself out. Younger sibling also sometimes has accidents (#2) and obviously best to clean them up ASAP.
AIBU? I know they're not public conveniences. So should I just get better pads/pants and ensure that I have plenty of time to take it slowly and hold it in? Young child's accidents due to digestive issues, not lack of training. Is it unreasonable to ask to use the loos at school? There are no public conveniences nearby.