It may suit you, and other posters, to call me a barbarian, that's fine, it really doesn't change my view as it's not the case. If you knew me, you'd know I'm far from it.
I don't want to chop balls off to punish people. Or steralise women to take away their rights. That's not what I meant at all and I made that pretty clear, whether people chose to acknowledge that or not.
I'm pro rights. I'm very much a live and let live, but NOT if it's harming others. And in the real world, the rights of some have to trump the rights of others, and the rights of good people should trump those of bad.
There are so many adults out there, of both sexes, who have child after child without giving two shits about them. They have proven they're neglectful at best and abusive at worst. They lose their children, MAY go to prison for a few years, then back out reproducing again. Those who don't go to prison obviously don't have the hold up and can try for another baby straight away. In other cases, the parents may have such bad addictions that it's not a conscious choice. Or yes, a woman may be in an abusive relationship herself and can't navigate a way out.
I'm advocating for the rights of the babies and children born into those situations, time and again. Those who end up in supportive adoptive families are lucky but sadly there's thousands of kids who are bumped around from foster placement to care home without any consistency, love or guidance. They are all too often taken advantage of and have, quite frankly, a horrific childhood and often many issues that prolong into their adult life.
Reproduction is a right, but so is the right to not live the type of life that many children in care are forced into.
It's ironic that people are happy with imprisonment, the ultimate curtailment of freedom, even when misjustices can happen, but suddenly, when it's questioned if they should have the right to bring ANOTHER poor kid into the mix, suddenly their rights are of upmost importance.
The only difference here, is that one is legal and a social norm and the other isn't.
I truly don't believe that so many of you don't see a need to stop a women, who can't look after existing children, to have further children. And I don't believe it because when there are posts about this exact situation, it's always a resounding "why's she having MORE children?!".