To stop dating him...

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Been on four dates with a guy. He seemed great, was really attracted to him, good banter, both wanted the same things etc.

Tonight we were texting and he said,

'At my friends for the football, what are you doing? Should have gotten you round for the boys'

I said, 'what do you mean?'

And he said, 'would you like that? 😉😜'

I am disgusted but not sure if this is just flirty banter and I'm overreacting?

Why would this in any way be unreasonable to stop dating a man who has asked if you are up for sex with all his friends?

Omg that’s not just disgusting it’s got really sinister overtones.

I know it’s meant to be funny but that would actually really upset me in the sense he’s joking about offering you up to his mates for a group assault like a piece of meat.

Absolutely vile and I wouldn’t want to even give him the chance to explain or minimise I would block him on all social media immediately.

OP, what are your thoughts?

Block. That’s appalling!!

Jesus wept why do men feel the need to say things like that? Do they seriously not engage their brains and actually think through how that sort of thing sounds before pressing send? That he even thinks that sort of thing is probably a lucky escape really.

Just nope. What a creep

🤣🤣🤣

What did you reply / do?