DH and I moved somewhere very rural 4 years ago. We got married here and are prime child bearing age. Yay for the village!
So let me tell you how it has gone. There is a minibus that comes once a day, three days a week for £9 return. You get around 2.5 hrs in the local town if you catch it. So I finally learned to drive and we are now a two car family, at significantly more expense than when we lived in a city.
I’ve had zero luck making friends - everyone with the time to be friendly is retired and invites me to nice (if slightly bland) activities that take place mid-morning or mid-afternoon, when I am clearly working. The few people our age are farmers and don’t really have the time or inclination to meet new people.
Going to the supermarket is an hour’s round trip. In winter the weather is miserable and we often get cut off from snow or floods. I get most things delivered which just means I rattle round the house even more. But don’t worry, I have Netflix when the internet isn’t too unstable.
We persevered and tried to buy a house for three years. Anything affordable gets snapped up for a holiday let. Anything nice doesn’t go in the market at all - it gets sold within extended families or handed down.
Meanwhile, everyone looks at me as a walking womb and makes unsubtle comments about how good it will be for the local school to have more children in it.
We have given up and made an offer on a house in a large town 45 minutes away. We expect to move in August and the relief is immense.
So yes, it’s easy to see why rural schools are closing. And even if it is a wider trend, I can’t get wound up about it. We don’t need to exponentially grow as a global population, it’s unsustainable. The human population on earth has historically been a tiny fraction of what it is now, and it was fine. They positives would be at least equal to the negatives in my view.