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To think Phillip schofield scandal is homophobia?

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ivfregret · 01/06/2023 00:00

Have I missed something in that the guy Philip had the affair with was not a minor?

He was a minor when they met, as was Cheryl Cole and Liam Payne for example and no one has anything bad to say about that relationship.

I'm not sticking up for Philip and really dislike him, and also think even if the runner was above the age of consent is most definitely questionable behaviour but I can't help think of it was a heterosexual affair it would not be treated in the same way?

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Elior · 03/06/2023 10:06

notanotheroneagain · 02/06/2023 21:00

What?

Not only is Meghan not involved in any same sex cheating on her husband, but she has never been discovered as grooming some kid.

You are chatting absolute shite.

This is a discussion about Schofield, not Meghan Markle. Take your discussion about her back to the Royal threads where you live. Nobody cares about her here!

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 10:35

Can someone link to the article where Schofield gave evidence in court to say he knew his brother was a pedophile and covered it up? I can’t say I much followed the trial at the time.

Tegrate · 03/06/2023 10:40

I think a certain kind of person loves to hate. These boards used to be filled with Megan Martkle hate, now they are filled with PS - I don’t understand the need for people to hate obsess like this, maybe they have shut lives or maybe they are just nasty people but they enjoy the pile on - the object of the hate is irrelevant.

notanotheroneagain · 03/06/2023 10:44

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LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 10:48

PS is not a ‘pedo’.
HTH.

Elior · 03/06/2023 10:48

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Your obsessive Sussex Squad reposts are the reason why it has been dumbed down. I'm sure it was fine before you started living on there. DFOD

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 10:50

No. The whole thing reminds me a lot of the Prince Andrew situation. It's not about him being gay, it's about men in positions of power/influence exploiting vulnerable (very) young people.

Gettingbysomehow · 03/06/2023 10:51

I can't see why he lost his entire career because of this. There is zero evidence of grooming so far and consent is between adults of consenting age.
It sounds like an absolute witch hunt.
There are loads of people who cheat on their wives and have affairs with young women, they don't lose their entire careers because of it.
It smells like complete hysteria to me.

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 10:52

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 10:50

No. The whole thing reminds me a lot of the Prince Andrew situation. It's not about him being gay, it's about men in positions of power/influence exploiting vulnerable (very) young people.

Virginia Guffre was vulnerable because she was being trafficked.

How was this 20yo runner vulnerable?

OCarumba · 03/06/2023 10:54

He was aware he was sexually abusing a child

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 10:57

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 10:52

Virginia Guffre was vulnerable because she was being trafficked.

How was this 20yo runner vulnerable?

He was 12 when the met when PS was patron of a drama group he was a member of, he was questioning his sexuality, he was vulnerable and he wasn't 20.

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:11

OCarumba · 03/06/2023 10:54

He was aware he was sexually abusing a child

Thank you for the link @OCarumba

This puzzles me because you think the media would have made a WAY bigger deal about this - I honestly don’t understand the media agenda. They made a bigger deal when he slipped a queue but not when he covered for a pedophile!

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:13

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 10:57

He was 12 when the met when PS was patron of a drama group he was a member of, he was questioning his sexuality, he was vulnerable and he wasn't 20.

How was he vulnerable and what age was he then when he started the affair with PS?

Meeting him age 12 is neither here nor there. You can meet someone and only be attracted to them when they’re older.

My best friends first met when she was 14 and he was 24, they got together 6 years later and have been together 15 years now. I don’t see him as a pedophile at all.

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 11:24

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:13

How was he vulnerable and what age was he then when he started the affair with PS?

Meeting him age 12 is neither here nor there. You can meet someone and only be attracted to them when they’re older.

My best friends first met when she was 14 and he was 24, they got together 6 years later and have been together 15 years now. I don’t see him as a pedophile at all.

That is the very definition of grooming.

No one knows how old he is, but he's suspected to be 20 now, 18 when they began their relationship.

An 18yo, uncertain of his sexuality, being persued by a man 40 years older who holds the key to his career success is vulnerable. We know nothing else about him (thankfully) but even what PS himself has said suggests his MH is not strong.

As for your friends, the whole point of grooming is that the victims believe it was all consensual.

Elior · 03/06/2023 11:28

Not to forget that boys usually go through puberty later than girls so when 'it' began, he probably was pre-pubescent, not just under-age (and looked it).

Blossomtoes · 03/06/2023 11:32

Elior · 03/06/2023 11:28

Not to forget that boys usually go through puberty later than girls so when 'it' began, he probably was pre-pubescent, not just under-age (and looked it).

He was 20.

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:39

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 11:24

That is the very definition of grooming.

No one knows how old he is, but he's suspected to be 20 now, 18 when they began their relationship.

An 18yo, uncertain of his sexuality, being persued by a man 40 years older who holds the key to his career success is vulnerable. We know nothing else about him (thankfully) but even what PS himself has said suggests his MH is not strong.

As for your friends, the whole point of grooming is that the victims believe it was all consensual.

Wow this runner seems to defy time and science

He was born in 95/96 yet is only 20 now.

He had a relationship with PS around 2016 and is seen in videos and pictures as a fully grown man around that time yet he was only 13 and working in a full time job. Bizarre

Elior · 03/06/2023 11:39

If you met somebody as a child within a children's educational/cultural setting and you are 30years older and famous and having loads of other sexual relationships then why would you cross that line a couple of years later when they are still at the younger end of the young adult range? Young people whom you meet as children are out of bounds?

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:40

Elior · 03/06/2023 11:28

Not to forget that boys usually go through puberty later than girls so when 'it' began, he probably was pre-pubescent, not just under-age (and looked it).

He was 12 when it began?

Ill say it again, the desperation for this man to have actually been a child is fucking weird.

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 11:42

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:39

Wow this runner seems to defy time and science

He was born in 95/96 yet is only 20 now.

He had a relationship with PS around 2016 and is seen in videos and pictures as a fully grown man around that time yet he was only 13 and working in a full time job. Bizarre

I don't know where you've seen his birthday, but AFAIK there's no information about his age or education in the public domain. The fact that you've quoted a window just proves no one knows.

But none of that matters. He was a child when they met and PS formed an inappropriately close (if not sexual) relationship with someone in an organisation where he had a position of power.

Elior · 03/06/2023 11:45

My DS was nowhere near going through puberty at twelve. He was a little boy probably until around 16 when it all happened quickly. Perverts often target pre-pubescent boys for a reason.

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:53

DitherDother · 03/06/2023 11:42

I don't know where you've seen his birthday, but AFAIK there's no information about his age or education in the public domain. The fact that you've quoted a window just proves no one knows.

But none of that matters. He was a child when they met and PS formed an inappropriately close (if not sexual) relationship with someone in an organisation where he had a position of power.

Not sure if it was this thread or another but someone alluded to the theatre company PS was patron of and a picture from their launch in 2008. At the time the company was for people aged 12+ hence the birth date.

He was not a child when they had an affair FFS. He was 4 years over the age of consent. Affairs are immoral but this is not a illegal one.

LifeIsPainHighness · 03/06/2023 11:54

Elior · 03/06/2023 11:45

My DS was nowhere near going through puberty at twelve. He was a little boy probably until around 16 when it all happened quickly. Perverts often target pre-pubescent boys for a reason.

That’s nice.

Except PS didn’t target a pre-pubescent boy

Elior · 03/06/2023 12:04

I need to hear it from somebody other than a self-confessed liar, preferably from somebody who is close to MMc. I won't believe it when there is a legal firm involved who are tightly controlling what comes out.

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