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To think Phillip schofield scandal is homophobia?

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ivfregret · 01/06/2023 00:00

Have I missed something in that the guy Philip had the affair with was not a minor?

He was a minor when they met, as was Cheryl Cole and Liam Payne for example and no one has anything bad to say about that relationship.

I'm not sticking up for Philip and really dislike him, and also think even if the runner was above the age of consent is most definitely questionable behaviour but I can't help think of it was a heterosexual affair it would not be treated in the same way?

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CheekNerveGallAudacityandGumption · 01/06/2023 12:19

FlipFlopsInMyCar · 01/06/2023 12:13

Who's Kevin Lygo?

Boss of ITV. He’s also got connections with a childrens home.

randomusername2020 · 01/06/2023 12:20

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PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 01/06/2023 12:20

Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 00:08

Because that picture was taken this year. He's 27 now. Children grow up 🤦‍♀️

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Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 12:22

Freefall212 · 01/06/2023 12:15

Then don't create salacious details about a real person when you have no idea what happened.

Salacious?

do you know what that word means?

you are down right offensive and disgusting!

are you working for Schofield by any chance?

Freefall212 · 01/06/2023 12:23

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He is 15. The date of the picture is known and his birthday is known.

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 01/06/2023 12:23

Porridgealert · 01/06/2023 00:43

Absolutely totally bonkers. The runner doesn't want his name to be released or associated with this either. He's being put in an awful situation. And I've seen on here people speculating that he was passed around amongst the different presenters. Really horrible stuff.

I honestly think the country has lost its increasingly tiny mind.

I believe he was passed around too, hence why no one at itv will say anything. Most of them are involved.

CheekNerveGallAudacityandGumption · 01/06/2023 12:25

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 01/06/2023 12:23

I believe he was passed around too, hence why no one at itv will say anything. Most of them are involved.

Bingo

Gtsr443 · 01/06/2023 12:25

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 01/06/2023 12:23

I believe he was passed around too, hence why no one at itv will say anything. Most of them are involved.

Fucking hell what is wrong with you people?

AntiSocial6DaysAWeek · 01/06/2023 12:26

Freefall212 · 01/06/2023 12:17

I never said all gay men. I am sure if you ask your brother or friend, they will have heard of 'twinks'.

Perhaps they have but I'm sure they would be disgusted at perversions made out to be 'just one of those things' because they're gay as you're implying.

As I've said, same thing is a supposed 'kink' with heterosexual males but they are quite rightly called sexual deviants/abusers.

Any grown adult interested in young people are perverts. No idea why you keep defending them (I'd hazard a guess but MN would likely delete my comment).

Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 12:27

I wonder why they paid him off?!

Hopefully there will be an investigation and we will find out

I do have enormous sympathy for MM.

However I don’t think this issue is going to go away.

The vipers are out for C McCall and once they know she is close to the push I think more will be revealed.

The media have quietened on HW. There could be things going on behind the scenes. Time will tell

AntiSocial6DaysAWeek · 01/06/2023 12:28

Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 12:22

Salacious?

do you know what that word means?

you are down right offensive and disgusting!

are you working for Schofield by any chance?

Agreed. This PP must surely be bored and at the wind up.

Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 12:28

@Freefall212

can i ask if you are male or female and if you have children?

JeandeServiette · 01/06/2023 12:31

Because that picture was taken this year. He's 27 now. Children grow up 🤦‍♀️

No, she means that in the theatre school group shot, MM looks young for 15. A young looking teen.

Tessisme · 01/06/2023 12:31

nancy75 · 01/06/2023 00:20

I actually think he’s been let off for a long time because he’s gay.

When he first came out he was all over the place being ‘brave and strong’.
If he’d been married & having an affair with a (much younger) woman he would have been called out as a lying, cheating ratbag. Because he’d been unfaithful with men he was brave 🙄

I agree with this. Everybody was tripping over themselves to say how brave he was because they wanted to be first in the queue to prove how 'un'homophobic they were. He is a cheat. Whether he cheated with a boy man or a woman isn't the issue. He lied to everyone to prop up his image of the clean cut family man. But when he came out as gay, the fact of his cheating was lost in the whole hyperbole about how he was - sigh - being his true self. Yeah, if his true self is a liar and a cheat.

Elior · 01/06/2023 12:32

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 01/06/2023 12:23

I believe he was passed around too, hence why no one at itv will say anything. Most of them are involved.

ITV following the BBC blueprint! My friend had been with her partner since she was eighteen and when she found out a few facts about how he had become a bbc producer on a main show, she filed for divorce the same day. She didn't really want to know the meatiest details (I would have myself!) .
It is not a sign of the world we live in today. it has been happening for decades and there seems to be a glimmer of home that fast moving social media may move faster than a coverup and those paying for coverups may be outbid.

Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 12:33

The fact that nobody is talking about is cheating in the press is very telling. It’s because he’s done much worse.

They are biding their time.

Interesting who he put that last statement out still thinking he was the big man. He is toast. I doubt we will see him on our screen again.

Freefall212 · 01/06/2023 12:33

AntiSocial6DaysAWeek · 01/06/2023 12:26

Perhaps they have but I'm sure they would be disgusted at perversions made out to be 'just one of those things' because they're gay as you're implying.

As I've said, same thing is a supposed 'kink' with heterosexual males but they are quite rightly called sexual deviants/abusers.

Any grown adult interested in young people are perverts. No idea why you keep defending them (I'd hazard a guess but MN would likely delete my comment).

It was actually pretty acceptable for heterosexual men and older teen girls as well. Look at many musicians / celebs, athletes from a couple decades ago. Groupies was a real thing too.

And there are still older men getting with younger women.

It wasn't perversion for anyone. And if you go onto gay discussion boards, you will see that twinks and relationships with older men are still quite a regular topic of conversation and not a major perversion or taboo. There are youtube and tiktok channels of people in those relationships posting about them with lots of followers.

The younger generations will do things differently for sure and social norms change but that doesn't change history.

nalabae · 01/06/2023 12:35

I feel like some are using it to be homophobic or justify their homophobia, but him being trashed is what he deserves if he did the things he did to people.

AntiSocial6DaysAWeek · 01/06/2023 12:35

Tessisme · 01/06/2023 12:31

I agree with this. Everybody was tripping over themselves to say how brave he was because they wanted to be first in the queue to prove how 'un'homophobic they were. He is a cheat. Whether he cheated with a boy man or a woman isn't the issue. He lied to everyone to prop up his image of the clean cut family man. But when he came out as gay, the fact of his cheating was lost in the whole hyperbole about how he was - sigh - being his true self. Yeah, if his true self is a liar and a cheat.

Totally agree with this.

At the time I just remember thinking 'his poor wife'. Was all about him and the crocodile tears. So brave to have kept up a lie for so many years until it suited him not to.

Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 12:37

It’s not relevant to this discussion @Freefall212 about older men and teen girls.

and thankfully I don’t know what a twink is!!

the80sweregreat · 01/06/2023 12:38

Unfortunately, the ' casting couch ' was around many years ago for many an aspiring actor or actress. Read any kind of auto biography of famous stars here or abroad and it was rife along with nepotism , drugs , alcohol etc especially in the 40s and 50s. Many women couldn't really escape such a toxic environment if they wanted to get the parts.
It's a very murky world if you dig too deep.
Which is why many newer revelations rarely surprise me, sad as it is for the victims ;(

DeadButDelicious · 01/06/2023 12:39

He abused his position and did the square root of fuck all about his disgusting brother. He deserves everything he gets.

Summerfun2023 · 01/06/2023 12:41

Where have you been op you missed #Meto that is what this is about. Men in power taking what they want and making false promises. Did you know the lad is working in a pub now???

Quitelikeit · 01/06/2023 12:41

Yes the casting couch was a thing and hopefully a thing of the past.

What is especially galling about This Morning and PS is that they deal with all sorts of emotional issues, the guests they have had in, abuse surviviors, wronged spouses, deceived spouses - I mean he took the role from John Leslie!

I have often wondered why the desire to keep him at the network was so strong.

If he was good friends with Kevin Lygo that would explain a thing or two.