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winterbaby777 · 18/05/2023 16:14

Of the constant peer pressure to be outside in the sun, the pressure to get a bikini body and to lose weight in order to wear certain clothes, the pressure to be constantly doing outdoors activities and living life to the full.

I want to sit indoors with my cats, watch television and eat my favourite food. I don't want to go and sit in the sun. I don't want to wear a bikini and prance around pretending I love my body.

I'm a teacher and I've just finished a hard day of work but I feel that it's socially unacceptable to go and chill indoors for the rest of the evening as it's so 'beautiful' outside, and I live in a coastal town so the pressure to get out and onto the beach and into the sea is hard. I also suffer from depression which doesn't help.

Give me rain any day!

Anyone else or am I a grumpy nob?

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nothingsforgotten · 02/05/2024 08:24

creamcheeseandlox · 18/05/2023 16:38

Such a strange post. Don't do any if those things if you don't want to, I don't get it....is anyone forcing you? What's the point if this thread? Hmm

I agree. This often comes up on posts about summer and yet I've never felt forced by peer pressure to constantly be outside, and I've never worn a bikini in my life.

If you don't want to be outside, then stay inside. I really doubt that other people care that much about what you do.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 02/05/2024 08:26

5128gap · 18/05/2023 16:29

Just try to see it as another option. Rainy day, what can I do? Sit in. Sunny day, what can I do? Sit in or go out. Basically like a chicken drumstick on a buffet, it's there if you want it, but if you want to stick to a sandwich, all good.

This, I think. You don’t have to do it but the option is there.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 02/05/2024 08:30

scalt · 02/05/2024 07:54

Summer? I’m still waiting for spring.

This too! I didn’t think anyone was saying it was already summer though - I agree, still waiting for Spring!

LittleMonks11 · 02/05/2024 08:34

You might feel better if you get outside more to be honest.

I love summer. Can't bloody wait for it, to feel the sun on my face, to feel warm, lots of outdoors activities. I would love to live by the sea.

I hope you can find a way to manage your depression.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 02/05/2024 08:37

You've gone too soon.

missdeamenor · 02/05/2024 08:41

Never bow to social pressure or feel the need to explain yourself. Just do you.

Coolblur · 02/05/2024 08:45

The only person putting any pressure on you is you. l
Love how you look, do what you want, live for you, no one else.
Besides, you already have a 'bikini body', you only need a bikini to achieve that!

CurlewKate · 02/05/2024 09:55

Pressure from who?

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