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Original poster

Man weeing in the street

83 replies

Dailywalk · 12/05/2023 16:12

Yabu - if you gotta go, you gotta go

yanbu- beyond the potty training years, pissing in the street is completely unacceptable.

for context this was busy street, near schools, at 3:30pm today while I was walking my child home from school. Man pissing up against a home’s garden wall.

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neverknowinglyunreasonable · 12/05/2023 16:13

Sounds like a pervert.

JoeLovesGina · 12/05/2023 16:15

Disgusting. Some men just piss anywhere.

TheKobayashiMaru · 12/05/2023 16:16

That's gross. Bet he got off on it.

JMSA · 12/05/2023 16:16

Disgusting fucker.

TomatoSandwiches · 12/05/2023 16:16

Fucking disgusting.

Nomorecoconutboosts · 12/05/2023 16:17

Horrible. I don’t think it’s even acceptable if he had tried to be more discreet.
(if he had a genuine medical problem then he should wear a pad - even that isn’t a reason to use a residential street as a toilet)

how uncomfortable and unpleasant for those around who witnessed this anti social behaviour.

SkippingTown · 12/05/2023 16:17

Disgusting. Probably a perv.

Irridescantshimmmer · 12/05/2023 16:18

He'll be cocking his leg next.

VickyEadieofThigh · 12/05/2023 16:53

Unacceptable.

Yummymummy2020 · 12/05/2023 17:01

Honestly I think some of these men do it on purpose to flash but with an”excuse”. It’s so gross regardless.

Original poster
Dailywalk · 12/05/2023 17:03

I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks it’s disgusting. I remember telling a teenage lad off for doing something similar years ago. I thought that was bad but this was a man in his forties. Horrible.

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OneTC · 12/05/2023 17:06

In places where people are going to see you it's totally unacceptable, horrible and very entitled behaviour. I saw someone pissing on someone's car the other day, wanted to push him in it.

Nanny0gg · 12/05/2023 17:16

You could be fined under the Public Order Act if you are caught urinating in public (or even punished for indecent exposure, under the Sexual Offences Act of 2003, should you be found guilty of exposing your genitals and intending to cause alarm or distress).

Yellowdays · 12/05/2023 17:18

Near school at that time does suggest a pervert unfortunately. If it happens again, tell the police and the school.

Badgeringabout · 12/05/2023 17:19

You need to report the filthy bastard. Pervert probably too.

Pearfacebananapoop · 12/05/2023 17:26

Grim. Then again with these pop up
Urinals it seems to be being normalised.

Teeingup · 12/05/2023 17:37

It never occurred to me that someone would get a thrill out of doing this. Disgusting!

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 12/05/2023 17:43

At 1am near a pub or near a taxi rank queue on a Friday or Saturday night in a city centre I think it's a given someone will be having a piss against a wall.

At school pickup time on a school day, near a school....pervert.

MumOfASuperSon · 12/05/2023 17:48

Disgusting.

Not so long ago, my DH was walking the dog in broad daylight and caught a delivery guy pissing up a tree near our DC school. He told him he looked like a dirty pervert and to fuck off. The guy quickly zipped up and scurried off.

I don’t know what the hell is wrong with some people.

philautia · 12/05/2023 18:05

This is so strange. Two weeks ago I was stood next to the living room window folding washing. A black car pulled up outside my house at around 5pm. A man got out, looked around and facing his car, urinated while glancing around. I was totally not sure what I was seeing until I noticed the pool around the pavement - he noticed me then and started grinning while he urinated. I got his licence plate and took a photo of the car but didn't report to police as I didn't have any evidence he'd done this.

Starlitexpress · 12/05/2023 18:14

Fed of it round here, middle of the day on residential street saw a bloke pissing on a car, while still talking to someone on his mobile, vile.

Few years ago, got off the train at 2.30, young man in front of me just got his nob out and started pissing on the platform, saw me and started to apologise then decided to start shouting at me that he had to go as he was diabetic, quite apart from being intimidating I still see no reason why he couldn't use the toilets which must of been all of 15 feet away....

Starlitexpress · 12/05/2023 18:14

Fed up of it round here, middle of the day on residential street saw a bloke pissing on a car, while still talking to someone on his mobile, vile.

Few years ago, got off the train at 2.30, young man in front of me just got his nob out and started pissing on the platform, saw me and started to apologise then decided to start shouting at me that he had to go as he was diabetic, quite apart from being intimidating I still see no reason why he couldn't use the toilets which must of been all of 15 feet away....

Daleksatemyshed · 12/05/2023 18:43

Drunks do this because they've lost sight of decent behaviour, otherwise he's a pervert. Oh I was just having a wee makes a good excuse when you're a flasher

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Dailywalk · 12/05/2023 19:07

Didn’t think he was doing it to flash so don’t think he was getting a kick of it. Was on a busy road though with lots of people coming and going, Three lanes of traffic etc. I’m just sorry my 5yo witnessed it. She shouldn’t think that kind of thing is normal! Regretting not calling him out on it.

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cptartapp · 12/05/2023 19:34

Next door neighbour had a friend pull up for a lift last week. Whilst he was waiting, climbed out and pissed against the grass verge in the road.
I made a point of letting him know I had seen him. Revolting.
My friends and I once saw a man masturbating in a car very close to our high school. The teachers took it seriously and police were called. We had to be interviewed.

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