At asking a fellow mner to change their name..?

[Shhhh]

See we both have very similar names....

I have been around for 3-4 years and have built up a bit of a good rapor etc with fellow mner's.

There is a new(ish..?) mner with a similar name and already there is evidence of confussion..ie others leaving feedback for me but spelling it the way of the other mn iykwim...

I have pointed this out (nicely) to the other mn and have had negative replies iykwim..

Just thought it would be easier for everyone if we had differences to tell us apart as im sure she doesn't want to be mixed up as me and vice versa..???

aibu..?

no idea

Bonsoir

I mean, it's red rag to a bull, isn't it?

Or, should it be......

There is a Carmen on here but I don't mind, most people know me and distinguish there extra 'ere' and that there is a wine tie-in.

Why don't you just change your name? I am sure that I was here first....

I think the word you are looking for is "d'oh"

You are all utter utter barstewards

It goes down like a lead pair of knickers, trust me..

I got all precious around Christmas when various new "Shinies" appeared and dared to ask one if she'd consider changing (it was VERY similar, ShinyHappyMummy or something) and people kept thinking she was me/I was her.. so I said something.. nicely!.. and people got really narky and told me I had no right to ask.. altho I did mention it on a thread where she was posting about a psychotic ex if memory serves along with genuine advice I hasten to add.. so I did apologise..

I've given up now. The latest Shiny (of the Dyson variety) seems to be enjoying a personal relationship with The Almighty Cod herself, so I'm fucked really aren't I..

Bring on the Shinies.. I know I'm the orginal...

Oh hello ShinyDyson-a-few-posts-down!

[tiptoes away]

Am that ShinyDyson is not you Shiny??

yes, you really should

fnar fnar

oh dear

I am so tired of being mistaken for that stroppy one

What's been happening on this thread?

snort!

There are a few other Lyras here. But they don't post that often.

I had people asking if I was Flameboy for a while... she hasn't been around since the end of Jan though, so maybe she namechanged? (or left )

Yeah but you haven't got cod-status I'm afraid LLapin which is why I didn't cite your relationship, or it's type..