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Well, I hated the coronation…

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TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 06:02

I can see I am in the minority on here but I found yesterday to be distasteful on a gigantic scale. To watch the most privileged people travel in gold coaches & be decorated with diamonds and gold that is priceless in the face of millions of people struggling to eat/heat their homes just feels so wrong.

Our primary school has just opened a food bank. There are kids & families in crisis- children coming into school hungry & smelly as families can’t afford to wash clothes (I am not joking) - living in Dickensian conditions. Some of the teaching staff use the foodbank.

Yesterday was a display of obscene wealth. The royals didn’t even pay for it- we did. How can we find money for that absolute nonsense yet we can’t find money for large swathes of the population to feed themselves.

While Charles was sitting there in his gold costume holding these priceless items, plenty of families weren’t eating. It made me really angry.

I am tired of all the arguments for a royal family- how somehow these displays are quaint. Yesterday was an obscene display of wealth, inherited privilege and everything that’s wrong with this country. Seems a conversation about the royals is long overdue.

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HumanBurrito · 07/05/2023 20:56

If coronations are such a money spinner we should have them more often. Let's set up a lottery system where everyone gets a chance to win a chance to be king once a year.

DarrellRiversCriminalBehaviourOrder · 07/05/2023 21:00

Presumably their value comes at least in part from the fact that they are pretty infrequent.

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 21:11

https://twitter.com/MarinaPurkiss/status/1655303532445147140

oh dear, even Charlie boy thought the whole thing was a fucking waste of time

https://twitter.com/MarinaPurkiss/status/1655303532445147140

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polkadotdalmation · 07/05/2023 21:18

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 21:11

https://twitter.com/MarinaPurkiss/status/1655303532445147140

oh dear, even Charlie boy thought the whole thing was a fucking waste of time

Yeah, like the shit you get on Twatter is gospel. (massive eye roll)

squidwid · 07/05/2023 21:39

Dont agree with it either op but just switched it off instead.

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 21:47

@polkadotdalmation its from sky news! 🙄

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Peregrina · 07/05/2023 22:09

My family went to a coronation event today. When the band struck up God Save the King, very few people joined in. I only imagine that in 1953 everyone would have joined in with God Save the Queen.

( I may be wrong - I remember in my childhood that cinemas played the National Anthem at the end of the last performance, but they stopped because everyone started rushing towards the exits to avoid it.)

Blossomtoes · 07/05/2023 22:14

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 21:47

@polkadotdalmation its from sky news! 🙄

Must be right then. 🙄🙄

TheColourofspring · 07/05/2023 23:05

@Blossomtoes love how no one wants to entertain the fact that Charles is a petulant brat even with evidence

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Blossomtoes · 07/05/2023 23:06

There is no evidence. Hth.

Daisybuttercup12345 · 08/05/2023 00:14

Well would you rather have Mr Putin then?

TomPinch · 08/05/2023 03:58

Having a royal family is an odd, quaint sort of tradition. But people were saying the same in the 30s when totalitarianism was all the rage. It was those same of quaint traditions that helped stop Britain (and its associated dominions) going the same way, as Orwell recognised.

Sure the King is rich- only in a sense, because he cannot sell the crown jewels - but so are a great many other people who, unlike the King, have no notion of public service at all. Compare the UK to the US where people genuinely do believe that all rich people got their money by hard work. Having a monarch is a useful reminder of the nonsense that is, and abolishing the monarchy won't do anything to bring about a fairer society. That's why I'm a monarchist and that's why I think republicanism is a waste of time. As a Guardian reader I've had about two months of Kevin the Teenager whining about how it's so unfair and tbh I just don't give a shit.

FurAndFeathers · 08/05/2023 06:18

Daisybuttercup12345 · 08/05/2023 00:14

Well would you rather have Mr Putin then?

Do you genuinely believe that’s the only alternative? 😂

are communist dictators and ineffective royal figureheads really the only two options you’re aware of?

HumanBurrito · 08/05/2023 06:27

You do know we could have ended up with King Andrew, right?

FurAndFeathers · 08/05/2023 06:32

HumanBurrito · 08/05/2023 06:27

You do know we could have ended up with King Andrew, right?

Please explain the sequence of events that would make that credible outcome?

Blossomtoes · 08/05/2023 06:44

HumanBurrito · 08/05/2023 06:27

You do know we could have ended up with King Andrew, right?

Not for the last 38 years we couldn’t.

vera99 · 08/05/2023 07:02

Mirabai · 07/05/2023 13:30

<facefuckingpalm> it wouldn’t be similar to the US version because the US version is head of the government and the cost is part and parcel of the vastly expensive US political system!

The closest comparison would be the president of RoI. The 2018 evening state reception and inauguration buffet cost €100,000.

Yes and Irish friend told me that at a party yesterday. His mum who lives in the UK is 102. She got a handwritten letter from the Irish President and a cheque for 2000+ Euros from the President - just a robo signed card from the late Queen. They don't spread it around ! That said a card from the Pope cost 20 Euros, and they had to tip the Vatican off !

Outofthepark · 08/05/2023 07:08

Daisybuttercup12345 · 08/05/2023 00:14

Well would you rather have Mr Putin then?

Most bad taste comment of the year - apparently if you aren't a fan of the Royal Family you get accused of wanted a psychopathic child killing war mongering maniac instead 😂

It's classic cult behaviour though, along with the weird robes, gold carriages, pledges to live forever, and all the other usual weirdness.

Inkanta · 08/05/2023 07:11

It's classic cult behaviour though, along with the weird robes, gold carriages, pledges to live forever, and all the other usual weirdness

Yes definitely and using God's name in church to justify it like cults do. It's enough to make you a non believer.

vera99 · 08/05/2023 07:15

It was a very political ceremony reminding us how Henry 8th seized power from the Catholic Church and invested it in himself. The Pope who was the King of Kings before whom all European monarchs must bow and pay allegiance and God's representative on earth refused to accede to Henry's demands for divorce.

Jealous of the huge wealth of a corrupt church he initiated the schism. That is why the Archbishop kneels before him and anoints him as the representative of God in the actual Abbey stolen from the Catholic Church. Next celebration bonfire night where we burn the Papist plotters.....

The ultimate laundering of the profits of crime from one mafia boss to another. Hereinafter referred to as sacred.

Jesus would be utterly appalled.....

Inkanta · 08/05/2023 07:26

Jesus would be utterly appalled

I think so!

drpet49 · 08/05/2023 07:40

polkadotdalmation · 07/05/2023 19:41

We don't all live destitute lives, living off food banks. Most people, work, earn, pay for childcare, go on holiday and feed their families.
I don't live in a particularly affluent area, but I simply don't recognise your portrayal as poverty everywhere.

Of course there are areas of deprivation, but I enjoyed the coronation along with millions of other people. Why do some people feel we all need to be dragged down to the lowest common denominator?

This

Cosycover · 08/05/2023 07:55

Daisybuttercup12345 · 08/05/2023 00:14

Well would you rather have Mr Putin then?

Whit? You clearly have no idea how to argue your point do you? Embarrassing.

Aslanplustwo · 08/05/2023 08:40

Mirabai · 07/05/2023 20:45

She didn’t say there would be no more inequality if you read her post, she said “it certainly doesn’t help”.

The nation’s inequalities are rooted in the class system and hereditary privilege. The monarch is still head of staff and we have a Lord’s chamber.

Are you not aware of the strong links of the Tory government to public school - particularly Eton? Cameron, Osborne, Johnson, Kwasi Karteng, Rees-Mogg. Etonians have been fucking up the country since 2010. (Osborne was a Pauline) Without Cameron we would not have had Brexit.

I strongly suggest you don’t tell the British the source of inequality when you don’t appear to understand it yourself.

The poster quite clearly said "just because other countries have high inequalities and heads of state does not necessary mean that would happen here." - that was the part I was responding to. They were suggesting that if the RF were to go and a head of state put in their place the UK would possibly not have inequality as they are so special and better than other countries. Typical UK exceptionalism.

As for the strong links of the Tory government to public school - why do these people keep being voted in as MPs if the country is against it? You do have a choice surely? I am well aware of the class system in the UK, but as someone living in a country where that sort of thing is considered a load of rubbish, and no-one cares where you went to school, or what your parents do, I find it all baffling that you continue to elect the same type of people, time and time again.

40thmonarch · 08/05/2023 09:05

In all wealthy families people will benefit from wealth they didn't earn?

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