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to clear out ds disgusting bedroom as he has had 6 months to do it and i am fed up with it being a tip and i am going to put my own stuff in there

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:28

..he lives with his sister round the corner and i am fed up with his shite that he can't be bothered to clear

there is loads of stuff his ex girlfriends knickeers, porn, loads of chargers and bank stuff, clothes, rubbish ...tho must of the above is alos rubbish

i am chucking the ex gf stuff and some other things

i was rather distracted by reading maxim mag tho lol

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:30

oh he has had numerous deadlines no way he will do it

i can only just open the door it is going to take me all day

it is disgusting

and i am pretty liberal minded lol

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:33

i have been in there before he knows that if he can't be bothered to remove anything he doesn't want me to see then i think it is his problem

he knows i know he has the porn and stuff

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:34

i may be tempted to look at the porn dvds

he does have some interesting things like chinese condoms..at least i think that's what they are

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BeauLocks · 15/02/2008 11:34

Chuck it all out. You'll feel loads better and he won't be able to whinge as he's had loads of warnings.

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:35

i am too nice to chuck it all

i stole his ipod trip but i think he must have been in my room while i was away and stole it back

no current gf

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:36

i haven't opened the condoms i shall because i am quite curious

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:38

actually they aren't condoms they are very weird scahets of powder

possibly some sort of tea tho it's very odd teabag and there is far too much in it to be a one cup tea bag

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Clegg · 15/02/2008 11:44

My Mum used to do this periodically, and although I'm sure that she felt she had given adequate warning, she really hadn't been seriously vocal about it, just nagging, so it always came as a surprise and shock when she did. Having said that she never had to dispose of porn as fr as I know. I personally think it's unreasonable to throw someone elses things away, but completely resonable to tidy your home! Is there any way you could pack everything in to boxes for him so that he can deal with it himself rather thn just throwing it, which may leave him feeling you have thrown awy good stuff and cause a rift.yanbu to feel like this though

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:46

fair enough tho i am not sure what he can do with the exs playboy thong for eg except give it to one of his sisters

yuk

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Clegg · 15/02/2008 11:51

they're probably packets of some sort of 'herbal high'

NAB3wishesfor2008 · 15/02/2008 11:53

Tell him you are going to do it if he isn't at the house by a set time and he isn't to complain about what you find or what youi bin.

Old knickers? Yuk!

Clegg · 15/02/2008 11:55

agree, yuck!

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:55

armani jeans 32x32..they do have a hole in the bum

they must be the gfs

i might try those on

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NAB3wishesfor2008 · 15/02/2008 11:57

I wouldn't. If she is the type to leave her knickers around I wouldn't bet on the jeans being clean.

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:57

i doubt if it

the "tea" bags have a tiger in dungarees on a red packet

and a really tough sachet inside they are obviously for puttiong in water i think

quite big

they don't smell of asnything

unlike most of the rest of his stuff

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NAB3wishesfor2008 · 15/02/2008 11:58

Eurgh, I can't believe you smelled them, I feel quite ill.

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:58

oh and they are made in japan

i just assumed chinese as she is from hongklong

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zippitrippitoes · 15/02/2008 11:59

i smelled the tea bags not the knickers ypu plank

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Clegg · 15/02/2008 12:01

I don't envy you, sounds like a minging task, but not without compensations, will be quite a laugh checking out the porn and you may even get a free pair of jeans!

Clegg · 15/02/2008 12:01

how old is your ds?