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Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie. AIBU?

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TooBigForMyBoots · 15/04/2023 22:44

Do you know that Belfast and NI are in the British Isles? Are you aware that some British people claim they do not know that NI is in the same timezone as the rest of the UK?

YABU = You can't expect British people to know the history and geography of their country.
YANBU = Of course British people know this stuff. Anyone who says otherwise is having you on.

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UCUNoMore · 15/04/2023 23:55

JaneJeffer what does “purely geographical” mean? There is no such thing as “purely geographical” without underlying political and social structures of knowledge and power.

IVflytrap · 15/04/2023 23:55

It turns out I'm massively ignorant in a different direction because I had to look up what the Joe Biden references earlier in the thread were about. It turns Biden is visiting Ireland at the moment and literally every single one of us Brits is fuming about it, for reasons currently unspecified. Who knew?😆

TwoFluffyDogsOnMyBed · 15/04/2023 23:55

My cousin’s ex didn’t know where Scotland was. And I know someone else who couldn’t point to where she lived on a map of Britain.

Although when I was a child I thought that Torquay was somewhere abroad.

mathanxiety · 15/04/2023 23:55

EmilyGilmoresSass · 15/04/2023 23:52

I disagree. I live in NI and have never regetr3d to myself as Irish. Nor does anyone I know.

Has it ever occurred to you that you and your circle may not be the only people living in NI?

JaneJeffer · 15/04/2023 23:55

Well done for looking at my map @VeniVidiWeeWee 🏅

JaneJeffer · 15/04/2023 23:55

UCUNoMore · 15/04/2023 23:55

JaneJeffer what does “purely geographical” mean? There is no such thing as “purely geographical” without underlying political and social structures of knowledge and power.

Ask the Ordnance Survey about that not me.

RiktheButler · 15/04/2023 23:56

WTAF is this thread about? Has the op done a survey of how many people think a specific thing, or is this in reference to something on the site? Or just a general weird outpouring of nonsense?

EmilyGilmoresSass · 15/04/2023 23:56

EmilyGilmoresSass · 15/04/2023 23:52

I disagree. I live in NI and have never regetr3d to myself as Irish. Nor does anyone I know.

*referred.

Guardian12 · 15/04/2023 23:56

Jourdain11 · 15/04/2023 23:45

What counts as a basic detail though? I imagine I don't know half of this essential information, at least...

If you are from the UK I would say basic information is the geography (including time zones) capital cities and political systems of the four UK nations. I’m very surprised grown adults wouldn’t know that.

JaneJeffer · 15/04/2023 23:57

IVflytrap · 15/04/2023 23:55

It turns out I'm massively ignorant in a different direction because I had to look up what the Joe Biden references earlier in the thread were about. It turns Biden is visiting Ireland at the moment and literally every single one of us Brits is fuming about it, for reasons currently unspecified. Who knew?😆

Keep up!

Pseudonamed · 15/04/2023 23:57

mathanxiety · 15/04/2023 23:55

Has it ever occurred to you that you and your circle may not be the only people living in NI?

Exactly. Theres AROUND half that say they are british and the other half are normal - sorry, Irish. I have the future in laws all coming down here on coronation day cos they cannot stomach the pomp of the other side.

UCUNoMore · 15/04/2023 23:57

I mean, yes - the Ordnance Survey in Ireland was literally a militarist and colonialist endeavour.

fdgdfgdfgdfg · 15/04/2023 23:58

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/04/2023 23:53

Celebrity Specials of quiz games are known as Thickie specials in our house.

I was delighted when Richard O mentioned it on a recent episode of Pointless Slebs.

You sound like you think you're rather superior.

Delightful aren't you.

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 15/04/2023 23:58

I agree with PPs that sneering at people who don't know something is nasty and uncalled for.

So @Jourdain11 didn't know about time zones. Now she (?) does. Cool. Someone learned something today. Well done MN

It reminds me of when I said (years ago now) that I didn't realise Scotland had a different education system to England. I'd never thought about it, I had no reason to know. Yet some twat kept bleating on about how I should have known, and if I didn't know why hadn't I ever googled it to educate myself. Confused
As it wasn't something I'd ever needed to know/think about it had never occurred to me to Google it!

@DownNative why would i need to know about speed signs? I've never to been to Ireland/NI. And if I ever visit I can't drive anyway. So I don't need to know about them.

We all have different things we know about, and different things we would consider common knowledge.

Jourdain11 · 15/04/2023 23:58

Guardian12 · 15/04/2023 23:56

If you are from the UK I would say basic information is the geography (including time zones) capital cities and political systems of the four UK nations. I’m very surprised grown adults wouldn’t know that.

But you can only know stuff if you learn it. I've never had a reason to learn that.

CrotchetyCrocheting · 15/04/2023 23:58

mainsfed · 15/04/2023 23:44

But I have met Belfastians who corrected me to say Southern Ireland.

Whose view wins?

I met an English person who corrected me and called Emgland Hell, whose view is correct? It's not really a subjective thing. The country has a name - Ireland just like England is called England.

EmilyGilmoresSass · 15/04/2023 23:58

Pseudonamed · 15/04/2023 23:54

did 51% of the census not prove that to be wrong?

I don't particularly care what a bloody Census says, I'm not Irish. If I was Irish then I would be Irish. I don't say that nastily, having been in a relationship with an actual Irish man. I'm just stating that I know of very few people in NI personally who would say they are Irish. Except those wanting an Irish passport because its quicker apparently 🙄

CremeEggQueen · 15/04/2023 23:59

JenniferBarkley · 15/04/2023 23:50

Completely agree that sneering at individuals for not knowing something isn't on, for all the reasons stated.

The systemic ignorance about Ireland and Northern Ireland is something else though. Ignorance about a civil war in your own country in your own lifetime, ignorance about the constituent parts of your own country, ignorance about the independence of your nearest neighbour - none of this should be viewed as ok.

If you've never learnt about it though, how do you know you don't know about it in the first place to ask questions or read up on it?!

JaneJeffer · 15/04/2023 23:59

UCUNoMore · 15/04/2023 23:57

I mean, yes - the Ordnance Survey in Ireland was literally a militarist and colonialist endeavour.

Handy though Wink

EpicChaos · 15/04/2023 23:59

It's no worse than the arrogant southerners, who insist that clock changes wouldn't have a negative effect on the north of the country -= kids going to school in the dark, etc.

Foreversearch · 15/04/2023 23:59

@TooBigForMyBoots the Canary Islands and Madeira are also in the same time zone. Makes travelling much easier, no jet lag.

Jellyx · 16/04/2023 00:00

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 15/04/2023 23:05

It doesn’t help when people smugly say “Ireland isn’t in the UK” when actually people in NI call themselves Irish. DH’s family is from Belfast - not one says “I’m Northern Irish”. They are Irish. And the possessiveness of the ‘Im more Irish than you’ attitude of some people in ROI is a massive bone of contention to them.

The majority of Northern Ireland would refer to themselves as 'northern Irish or British'rather than Irish hence they've voted to remain part of British isles rather than a United ireland.

I am Northern Irish.

Pseudonamed · 16/04/2023 00:00

EmilyGilmoresSass · 15/04/2023 23:58

I don't particularly care what a bloody Census says, I'm not Irish. If I was Irish then I would be Irish. I don't say that nastily, having been in a relationship with an actual Irish man. I'm just stating that I know of very few people in NI personally who would say they are Irish. Except those wanting an Irish passport because its quicker apparently 🙄

And the other side of the falls road there would rather drop dead in the river than class themselves British. Over half of people currently in NI identify as Irish. Your post is just surrounding the people in your circle. My DP is Irish from NI but has friends who are British in NI. Neither side knock the other.

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/04/2023 00:01

RiktheButler · 15/04/2023 23:56

WTAF is this thread about? Has the op done a survey of how many people think a specific thing, or is this in reference to something on the site? Or just a general weird outpouring of nonsense?

I am doing a survey on how many Mnetters believe that NI is in a different time zone than the rest of the UK.

What do you think @RiktheButler?

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DownNative · 16/04/2023 00:01

Wanderingowl · 15/04/2023 23:48

Ireland in not one of the British Isles. That is why the full name of the UK is The United Kingdom of Great Britain and Norther Ireland. The island of Ireland is not British even though part of it is in the UK. The official position of the government of Ireland is also that term British Isles refers only to Great Britain and it's surrounding isles and not Ireland. Using that term is very literally coloniser language.

While that is the position of the Irish Government, the term British Isles is still widely understood in strictly geographical terms. It's the oldest surviving name for the entire archipelago. It consists of 6,000 different islands.

Type in British Isles in Google and what you get is the image attached as the first result. This is not "coloniser language" given its NOT a territorial claim of any description.

No-one is stopping you calling it the British and Irish Isles, you know.

In UK law, we have a different term for all islands that's British territory - British Islands. That includes Northern Ireland as well.

Type in British Islands and what you get is the second image attached as the first result.

Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie.  AIBU?
Well fuck me pink and call me Rosie.  AIBU?