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Aibu to think most European countries don't have an Education class system or a class system at all?

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Stellanotbud · 15/04/2023 10:24

Aibu to think that most European countries especially former communist countries don't have a class system or educational class system like the UK.. Most kids all go to state school & muddle along? Snobbery isn't a prevelant in most European countries & educational standards are high & mostly state run.

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Isiteveningyet · 15/04/2023 15:06

I find your phrasing Really interesting @Mooshamoo . It’s like something out of Jane Austin. I am astonished you wrote “marriageable”. Like that was a thing still. As well as the “cold and cruel”. It’s almost Dickensian,

I can’t believe in 2023 anyone thinks of women in terms of being “marriageable” any more, and , even worse, based on their perceived position in society.

it’s like you live 200 years ago.

spanieleyes · 15/04/2023 15:11

But, in some ways, it seems easy in Britain to move " out" of your social class? Most of my friends are middle class but with parents who were definitely working class- perhaps we all just stick together 😁. The " middle class" seems to be an expanding group. Or is this similar in other countries too?

110APiccadilly · 15/04/2023 15:11

I was at university with two German lads, a very posh one whose parents were lawyers and had grown up with his own horse on a country estate, and one from an immigrant background whose parents ran a small shop.

The posh one wouldn't speak to the other and once described him to me as, "not a real German." That may not be typical, but I found it shocking.

whumpthereitis · 15/04/2023 15:12

Minutewaltz · 15/04/2023 14:53

Generally, compared to the UK, class is much less visible and it is certainly something from the Soviet times, with universal access to education and all those efforts aimed at achieving social equality and condemning the capitalist societies.

Ranevskaya Didn’t Stalin murder all the Russian upper classes so I suppose it’s not surprising there aren’t many of them.

He purged the traditional urban, liberal, intelligentsia (amongst others). Hierarchies didn’t disappear however, those purged were simply replaced by high ranking party members functionaries. Who also had access to things the average worker did not. The Soviet class system can be roughly divided into the administrators, who developed and implanted policy, the proletariat, and the peasantry. You also did have the intelligentsia class that re-emerged.

Minutewaltz · 15/04/2023 15:15

That’s interesting whump.

You also did have the intelligentsia class that re-emerged.

Was that after the end of the Soviet Union?
When the war finally ends I wonder what will happen to the Oligarchs. Will they return to Russia do you think? I suppose it depends who’s in charge.

JazbayGrapes · 15/04/2023 15:19

Hierarchies didn’t disappear however, those purged were simply replaced by high ranking party members functionaries. Who also had access to things the average worker did not.

True. And this hierarchy was very rigorous. One could literally be barred from education or jobs, if their parents fell into political disfavour. You could also replace "fee-paying" for education with insane bribery.

Mooshamoo · 15/04/2023 15:20

Isiteveningyet · 15/04/2023 15:06

I find your phrasing Really interesting @Mooshamoo . It’s like something out of Jane Austin. I am astonished you wrote “marriageable”. Like that was a thing still. As well as the “cold and cruel”. It’s almost Dickensian,

I can’t believe in 2023 anyone thinks of women in terms of being “marriageable” any more, and , even worse, based on their perceived position in society.

it’s like you live 200 years ago.

Well the class system really belongs 200 years ago. But all these things still happen today

Mooshamoo · 15/04/2023 15:21

spanieleyes · 15/04/2023 15:11

But, in some ways, it seems easy in Britain to move " out" of your social class? Most of my friends are middle class but with parents who were definitely working class- perhaps we all just stick together 😁. The " middle class" seems to be an expanding group. Or is this similar in other countries too?

If you are middle class, do you have working class friends?

JazbayGrapes · 15/04/2023 15:22

Was that after the end of the Soviet Union?
When the war finally ends I wonder what will happen to the Oligarchs. Will they return to Russia do you think? I suppose it depends who’s in charge.

No, inteligencia class was always there, just had to be politically loyal. As for oligarchs, many of them are former communists/functionaries - who had access to resources and privilege back in the day. Like Putin himself.

unfortunateevents · 15/04/2023 15:25

OP, have you actually lived in any other European countries or are you just basing this on on whatever you read in the newspapers, see on TV etc? I am also Irish, have lived in the UK for years but also lived in the US and three other European countries. No country is a classless utopia believe me but often the things which differentiate between classes in those countries are not obvious to foreigners or visitors.

ExpatInSlavikLand · 15/04/2023 15:27

No, things have changed a lot since 1989. There's a lot of private schools around now.

One thing to note though, these grammar schools are generally state-run. They have a very similar system to what we had with the 11-plus, although they enter their secondary education when they're 14/15.

spanieleyes · 15/04/2023 15:27

Yes, of course. Why wouldn't I? I also have working class family too. I also have a couple of friends who are multi millionaires. But they're America so not sure whether they would allocate a " class" to themselves😁 One definitely comes from a " working class " background, the other from a middle class one. But all are friends.

ExpatInSlavikLand · 15/04/2023 15:28

Of course 🙄

ExpatInSlavikLand · 15/04/2023 15:29

The above was meant for @Mooshamoo

whumpthereitis · 15/04/2023 15:31

JazbayGrapes · 15/04/2023 15:19

Hierarchies didn’t disappear however, those purged were simply replaced by high ranking party members functionaries. Who also had access to things the average worker did not.

True. And this hierarchy was very rigorous. One could literally be barred from education or jobs, if their parents fell into political disfavour. You could also replace "fee-paying" for education with insane bribery.

Yep, if a family member was classed as an enemy of the people you were fucked by association.

Bribery and the black market were absolutely endemic too. If you wanted something that wouldn’t normally be available to you then you could pay (in money, goods, services) someone to either look the other way, or get it for you. The higher ranking party members had their own supplies of food and goods, separate to and of better quality than those of the average worker. Also, foreign cars and clothes for example.

Isiteveningyet · 15/04/2023 15:36

Mooshamoo · 15/04/2023 15:20

Well the class system really belongs 200 years ago. But all these things still happen today

Doesn’t mean you need to talk like you’re Mrs Bennett . I mean “marriageable “ seriously? Did feminism pass you buy?

some of your views are acrually quite offensive

whumpthereitis · 15/04/2023 15:38

Minutewaltz · 15/04/2023 15:15

That’s interesting whump.

You also did have the intelligentsia class that re-emerged.

Was that after the end of the Soviet Union?
When the war finally ends I wonder what will happen to the Oligarchs. Will they return to Russia do you think? I suppose it depends who’s in charge.

Throughout. They didn’t disappear, but how visible they were depended on the political climate. Khrushchev was more liberal than Brezhnev, for example.

The oligarchs emerged under Yeltsin, and they invariably had ties to his administration and/or family. Whether they’ll return or not depends on how the land lies afterwards. You have the oligarchs that are in league with Putin, and those that weren’t/aren’t.

this is worth reading for more insight on Putin and his relationship with the Oligarchs:
https://www.npr.org/sections/money/2022/03/29/1088886554/how-putin-conquered-russias-oligarchy

sparklybonbons · 15/04/2023 15:38

Hmm I'm not sure. I had a German bf when I was younger and he was extremely snobby. Insisted on having designer clothes otherwise he felt substandard within Germany. Anyone that didn't go through a gymnasium was also peasantry, not such a great system.

I absolutely hate the class system here but i wonder that until the head of it ie the King is gone how can it no longer be a thing.

sparklybonbons · 15/04/2023 15:39

Also I thought the French had a school system where they had to have gone to certain schools to get top jobs? Not sure how true that is though.

whumpthereitis · 15/04/2023 15:46

Oh, and there were elite universities in the Soviet Union. An education at Lomonosov or Shevchenko university was more highly regarded than an education gained at a regional one.

Qbish · 15/04/2023 15:49

sparklybonbons · 15/04/2023 15:39

Also I thought the French had a school system where they had to have gone to certain schools to get top jobs? Not sure how true that is though.

Nearly all French leaders have been to the Ecole Nationale. A sort of French version of doing PPE at Oxford.

École nationale d'administration - Wikipedia

École nationale d'administration - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89cole_nationale_d%27administration

sst1234 · 15/04/2023 15:52

sparklybonbons · 15/04/2023 15:39

Also I thought the French had a school system where they had to have gone to certain schools to get top jobs? Not sure how true that is though.

France has a highly exclusive and elitist system. Egalite part of ‘Liberté, égalité, fraternité’ is virtually non existent.

AgnesX · 15/04/2023 15:59

Mooshamoo · 15/04/2023 11:26

I also think that the class system in England makes people be very cold and cruel there.

I was born in England, I have an English parent, but I left England at a young age. This has enabled me to see England very realistically, every time I go back to visit it.

In England, people are taught to be cold, cruel, and to see other people as worth less than them, from a young age.

I just visited England and I was shocked at how cold and cruel the people there were to me. In England. People were horrible to me.

The reputation of English people around the world is that they are cold and cruel. We do not have a good reputation anywhere

Whatever can be said about England, cold and cruel about class isn't it for most people.

Admittedly I've lived on the other side of the border for 20+ years but all the English people here that I know (and there are a few) aren't like that.

I think, that like for a lot of people, it's your family in particular.

Ingrowncrotchhair · 15/04/2023 16:01

wasacasa · 15/04/2023 13:07

@Mooshamoo your posts read like you are living 200 years ago. Saying people from England are cold and cruel is extraordinary

My experience, as a non Brit, that is on her second relationship with an English man, have some English acquaintances and a couple of English friends - is that the English mostly mingle with the english. What is incredible is the number of English people I’ve met who live in London and only have English friends, who only have relationships with other English people, and so on. My own partner (who is only half English), has 2 friends who are not English.

to add a different angle to this

inyoureyes · 15/04/2023 16:04

Itsmebutnotme · 15/04/2023 13:45

I 've stood the school playground many of them as they flash their Invisalign, Boden special smiles whilst they brag about how gifted George is, as they engineer 'suitable' friendships.

😂this thread is fucking nuts.