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To think Gen Z is difficult to manage at work?

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donniedarko89 · 04/04/2023 14:20

I have noticed younger people tend to be more cynical and argumentative, with less work boundaries/respect for hierarchies (which is not necessarily a bad thing, but can come across as presumption/arrogance). This makes it more difficult to manage them at work imo.

Have you noticed any similar behaviours?

OP posts:
Allblackeverythingalways · 05/04/2023 09:33

Albiboba · 05/04/2023 09:25

‘They always call in sick’
The biggest age group who are likely to be off sick is actually those 50-64 and in particular women more than men.
Then Gen Z demographic have the second lowest absence rate.

https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/labourproductivity/articles/sicknessabsenceinthelabourmarket/2021#groups-with-the-highest-sickness-absence-rates

Does that take into account odd days or long term?
Because let's be honest, 50-64 is when people start getting horrible age related health issues such as cancers.
I'm sure no-one begrudge time off for radical surgery and chemo, heart related issues etc.

Our gen z thinks nothing of taking 3 days off for a cold
As I said earlier, he's great now but the sickness is still an issue.

Jayne35 · 05/04/2023 09:35

I have seen this problem so much at work. One staff member complaining every time she was asked to do something (which was part of her job), stating she was being bullied all the time, by everyone that is, and we have never had bullying reports here.

DdraigGoch · 05/04/2023 12:59

Albiboba · 05/04/2023 06:31

Your experience of like 3 bloody young people in your office is not a behavioural pattern of a whole generation. Omg I don’t know why so many people are refusing to accept that.
You’re actually the one who comes off as entitled, lazy and ill-informed if you genuinely think your narrow experience is somehow representative.

Hilarious how long this thread has gone on for, yet how many people were whinging on the ageism thread only a few day ago!
Pot, kettle.

At what point did I say that I worked in an office? At what point did I say that I worked with "like three young people" (I'm in my 20s by the way, younger than anyone in my grade, almost across my entire industry). You've got a very vivid imagination, have you thought about writing fantasy fiction?

I haven't even claimed that my experience (I haven't even said anything about my experience working with Gen Z, mostly because again I'm one of the youngest in my grade) is representative of anything. What is apparent though from the posts many people have written is that there is a growing issue with some people who won't even do their contracted minimum, never mind going above and beyond.

DdraigGoch · 05/04/2023 13:07

Albiboba · 05/04/2023 09:25

‘They always call in sick’
The biggest age group who are likely to be off sick is actually those 50-64 and in particular women more than men.
Then Gen Z demographic have the second lowest absence rate.

https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/labourproductivity/articles/sicknessabsenceinthelabourmarket/2021#groups-with-the-highest-sickness-absence-rates

Old people are more susceptible to illness and injuries. Surely that's obvious. A 21 year old off waiting for a hip replacement would be unusual. Difference is that a hip replacement is a good reason to be off. A hangover isn't.

SeatonCarew · 05/04/2023 14:21

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 04/04/2023 21:20

I’m on the cusp of Gen X and Baby Boom. Ds is Babyboomer. Neither of us remember any of this. My siblings are Boomers.

We had central heating. Walked to school 5 minutes away. I wore trousers to school, as did my sister who was 7 years older than me.We had carpets and sat on sofas.

Your experience is not mine of living in a house with/ being on the edge of the Babyboomers.

Then you were clearly luckier than I and my siblings and friends. Rejoice!

DontSetYourselfOnFireToKeepOthersWarm · 05/04/2023 14:43

Emigratingimmigrant · 05/04/2023 08:11

The only people going off with stress in my workplace are Genx

Thats because we've realised that we are going to be the ones left holding the baby when all of the boomers have gone off on their final cruise and then we will be the ones trying to explain to Gen Z why they can't have a house, or a decent job.

DontSetYourselfOnFireToKeepOthersWarm · 05/04/2023 14:44

Thehonestbadger · 05/04/2023 06:10

I had this conversation the other day with SIL who hires graduates.

I mean, the starting salary at most non multinat firms (small to medium places) is around £20k around here which is the same as when I was starting. I’m a young millennial (30) and honestly I wouldn’t work any FT job nowadays for less than 30k I mean you have to understand what you’re asking of people in a time/money exchange. You cannot realistically live or build a life for yourself on 20k. You certainly can’t rent a studio/1bed in our city on that. They would laugh at you!

I think millennials were the very last of the ‘if I just work super flat out maybe one day I’ll be able to afford to buy a house’ generation. Gen Z seem to have given up, there’s a ‘IDGAF’ attitude coming from them because they’ve pretty much resigned themselves to the fact that all the ‘life goals’ of the generation before them will only be achieved by having parents who can afford to help them, winning the lottery or inheriting. So they are now motivated by different things. Social lives, experiences, well being…they just want to enjoy their lives.

It seems to me that the older generations totally broke the system and are now livid at the younger generation for holding their hands up and saying ‘yeah this game totally sucks I’m not playing’ and walking off. It’s important to remember that people don’t owe society their compliance in behaving a certain way. I also, sadly, think it’s so broken at this stage it’s totally irreversible and we are now strapped in for a wacky ride.

DH is a doctor and they just released stats saying in the near future basically no junior doctors will be working full time anymore, they’re just not willing to do it for the compensation and the way they are treated, which would be fine, other than they also released figures showing mortality rates for patients rise drastically whilst being treated by doctors who work LTFT 👍🏻
So basically the NHS is going to be even shorter staffed and patients even more likely to die.

woooo

In a nutshell - nicely put 👏

AskMeMore · 05/04/2023 17:10

Yeah because there are no poor boomers or boomers with any issues whatsoever.

You have zero fucking idea of what some of us are having to deal with and still going to work every day.

wellstopdoingitthen · 05/04/2023 18:11

I find this age group the easiest tbh. The people who moan, complain & backbite are the 40+ lot (I'm 60+).

AskMeMore · 05/04/2023 18:13

I think people closer to retirement complain about management bullshit more. I am in this age range and we have heard it all. Don't try and sell me some stupid management bullshit that is just the latest fad.

WinnerwinnerGinfordinner · 05/04/2023 18:27

I've got 2 new members of the department I lead. One is early 20s one late 30s. The order one takes all feedback graciously and is always asking how they can improve. The younger one ignored all feedback I gave then (I'm their mentor) until it came to the boss giving them feedback where they cried for 3 days because it was so bad. Every thing they said was what I had already said and if they had acted on my feedback rather than ignoring it (because someone who has done the job very successfully for 16 years doesn't have a clue!) they wouldn't have had this awful feedback.

So yes gen z are much harder to manage. I get the taking less shit (but then I don't take shit and I'm not gen z!) But thinking you know better than the people who have being the job for years and ignoring what they say is never going to get you far in life!

Househusband123 · 05/04/2023 18:34

There is definitely a higher percentage of snowflake in younger workers. Many struggle with words/phrases like "no", "that's wrong" or "can you do it again"

Emigratingimmigrant · 05/04/2023 18:36

Househusband123 · 05/04/2023 18:34

There is definitely a higher percentage of snowflake in younger workers. Many struggle with words/phrases like "no", "that's wrong" or "can you do it again"

To be honest so do lots of older ones especially if you are trying to work on databes they apparently worked on last 5 years🙈

Fanofbrianbilston · 05/04/2023 18:44

I’m sure much the same was said when boomers were entering the workplace, war veterans running things thinking the new gens were spoiled brats. Circle of life.

UnicornsDoExist · 05/04/2023 18:53

Yes I work with 3 and only one seems to be willing to put in the work that the role requires. The other two sit there gossiping and putting patients on hold, having a laugh at them and generally not caring that they are dealing with sick people with serious health conditions. One feigned covid last week and let it slip she was off on a bender. The other one cries her eyes out (yes really) if she is spoken to in anything other than a complimentary adoring tone. The atmosphere is just awful, I hate going in now, I find them exhausting to deal with.

CheshireCat1 · 05/04/2023 18:56

I work with some colleagues of that age groups, they’re all very different. Some work hard, some don’t, some never have a day off, some are never in, some are argumentative and some are very polite etc etc. In any age group people are individuals, some are workers and some are shirkers.

MNbingo · 05/04/2023 19:04

I am Gen X and experiencing some menopausal bloat which has took me up to a size 16. :(

However, a lot of the Gen Z I work with make me feel positively tiny! A lot of them have to be size 22 plus. I hardly knew anyone obese 30 years ago when I was in my 20s. Symptom of never being told no, I guess!

Househusband123 · 05/04/2023 19:09

Yep some older snowflakes too

Museya15 · 05/04/2023 19:35

I'm in nursing, you get 23 year olds just out of university in band 6 roles. I don't want to sound spiteful but they are absolutely clueless, they've no idea how to run the ward and look to the older band 5s for help, when they get the help they will take all credit, they can never be wrong and when they are caught out, they are being picked.

Museya15 · 05/04/2023 19:37

Fanofbrianbilston · 05/04/2023 18:44

I’m sure much the same was said when boomers were entering the workplace, war veterans running things thinking the new gens were spoiled brats. Circle of life.

Agree but they were much tougher back then.

Suzi888 · 05/04/2023 19:40

ilovemydogmore · 04/04/2023 14:23

Personally I just think Gen Z take less shit

It's this. Good for them. They are happy to put boundaries in place, won't accept bad behaviour just because someone senior 'says so', they know their value.

😂yeah, no.

More this :
”Lack of resilience. The need to take a mental health day or go sick if they’ve missed or are going to miss a deadline. Refusal to do any admin. Even if that’s their job. Won’t do anything they don’t want to do. Not much work ethic. Think it’s acceptable to drift in at 11.”

Suzi888 · 05/04/2023 19:41

And agree they can never, ever be wrong either. Painful to work with.

sassyclassyandsmartassy · 05/04/2023 20:29

I find these posts a bit weird. I run my own company and I have trained, mentored and managed every generation.

It’s not the generation, it’s the person!

I have a hugely diverse team spanning all generations at the moment who, on the whole, are a great bunch who get along without any bitching and back stabbing and just get their work done in the allotted hours, which is all I want.

Some have overvalued themselves on the odd occasion, again, not generational, but when it’s been broken down to them how my opinion differed to theirs in meetings and rationalised with evidence to back my position we have found compromise and common ground.

Yes, I have had some people who haven’t worked out, because their values and beliefs don’t align with the business and/or their colleagues, but that’s not ever been anything to do with their ‘generation’. More to do with their upbringing as a whole which has shaped their personalities, values and beliefs (as it has with all of us) and each company will have its own culture and someone that doesn’t fit ours will fit somewhere else perfectly…. That’s life! It’s why you interview!

I do find though, and it makes me smile, having taken apprentices across the generations… Every time a new apprentice starts the old ones quickly forget how they used to be just the same when they required training and support and try to criticise until they are gently reminded they were once just the same in their own unique way!

MrsRickAstley · 05/04/2023 20:40

We have a new Gen Z recruit and I understand all you've said.

It's the whole I know it all so I don't have to listen attitude but then gets it wrong. Confident (not a bad thing) but easily distracted.

Won't accept what one person says so has to run it past 3 others who all say the same thing.

Doesn't do what's asked but will do stuff that's not. Changes process without consultation. Entitled to voice opinions about people without observing own lack of experience.

The list goes on. Utterly utterly frustrating.

Macinae · 05/04/2023 20:54

Definitely my experience too.