Regular user NC.
My younger sister is in her late fifties and has been unwell for about 6 months. First went to her GP in October and was repeatedly sent away. Not the type to bother them.
Over the last 10 weeks she's lost over 3st, doesn't leave the house, in constant pain, vomiting, and now sleeps all the time. It is clear she's very unwell and getting worse fast now.
GP finally took her seriously 8 weeks ago and sent for some basic bloods and scans, which identified a possible cause - referred on the NHS and was told the first appt was Aug 2023. She doesn't have much money but paid for a private initial specialist consult and was referred back to the GP as the finding wasn't actually serious enough to be the cause of her problems. I genuinely think if we'd have waited for the NHS she'll have died waiting (might still do).
Pain and all got worse so her GP did then refer on the '2 week' cancer pathway which actually just meant a telephone consult at the end of 2 weeks, with tests booked for 2 weeks after that. Still waiting for the results. Mean time bloods came back to her GP and were very concerning so she was told to get more bloods... You guessed it, another 2 week wait!! She has another diagnostic test booked for 2 weeks time.
None of her care is joined up and she's never actually seen the NHS specialist in person. A nurse saw her as part of a test this week and mentioned she was dehydrated but did nothing about it.
I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. I'm terrified she is going to be one of those cases you read about that she either dies waiting for various tests or they diagnose something very serious and she's deteriorated so much it can't be treated.
Does anyone have any experience or advice? I don't think I can get the NHS wheels to move any more quickly but I could use my life savings to pay for a private clinic where they just do all the tests and get the results in days - does this exist? What else could I do?