@Georgeandzippyzoo
The problem is that all children need to feel safe at school. Should we allow kids with complex issues to lash out at children and staff with no consequences? Is it fair on the other children in the class to allow constant disruption?
There are ways of doing zero tolerance sympathetically and in a way that makes students feel supported.
Unfortunately, schools aren’t equipped to deal with complex behaviour problems. That is what the PRUs used to be for. But they are either full or parents refuse the help. Social services are on their knees and can’t help. Ed Psych bare exists anymore and CAHMS won’t do a referral these days unless there is a suicide attempt.
So these policies are sometimes a schools only method of getting a handle on some of the deeply unsafe, violent, disruptive behaviour that is becoming an every day occurrence.
I would happily go back to less strict rules, if that didn’t lead to more serious incidents.
But I am not convinced giving kids the power over rules would stop them- taking drugs on site, self harming in the loos, sending nudes, getting drunk between lesson, taking upskirt photos in the dinner queue, violently attacking each other and sexually assaulting other students.
The SLANT thing is too much. But asking them to be kind, considerate and hard working is hardly asking for the earth. It is quite obvious to me that if we didn’t try to teach this at school then some kids would never learn it.
Because a growing percentage of children are brought up by unrestricted screen time. They are watching porn and violent videos. They are making contact with inappropriate adults on social media and generally being taught that being a snarky, nasty arsehole is what being an adult looks like.