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ProbablyNotAGoodIdea · 29/03/2023 16:21

The theatre - even the cinema - are expensive treats, both held entirely in the hands of the dickheads in the audience. Phones should be locked in pouches for both - I cannot understand the mentality of paying so much for a ticket and then staring at your phone, just stay at home! And the constant talking. It's bizarre that people will spend the money only to chat amongst themselves, and that they have no shame or compunction in ruining other people's experience.

Hintofreality · 29/03/2023 16:21

I blame social media. No one can simply go and enjoy seeing a show anymore, there has to be a whole “come with me”
saga for their followers, a photoshoot in the auditorium and 25 billion videos of them singing along having “the best night ever”.
Attention seeking desperados everywhere.

Rosula · 29/03/2023 16:21

Villssev · 29/03/2023 15:48

I bet the op is one of the party and trying to raise awareness in the misjudged expectation we would all be horrified on her behalf

got that wrong Op! 😂

How on earth can you possibly derive than interpretation from OP's message?

Comprehension fail, @Villssev!

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 29/03/2023 16:22

potniatheron · 29/03/2023 15:40

This is ridiculous. It's a musical! Aren't you SUPPOSED to sing along in the aisles?

No. You pay to hear the cast not the audience.

SpeckledlyHen · 29/03/2023 16:22

potniatheron · 29/03/2023 15:40

This is ridiculous. It's a musical! Aren't you SUPPOSED to sing along in the aisles?

Why on earth would I want to pay for a ticket to a musical and then listen to you screeching along out of tune in the aisles?

potniatheron · 29/03/2023 16:23

SpeckledlyHen · 29/03/2023 16:22

Why on earth would I want to pay for a ticket to a musical and then listen to you screeching along out of tune in the aisles?

Ruuuude! I was singing perfectly in tune!😂

LakeTiticaca · 29/03/2023 16:23

These are the types of people who appear on the Facebook page "angry people in local newspapers" and they always, without exception get totally flamed in the comments 🤣

Crikeyisthatthetime · 29/03/2023 16:24

Hmm. Swaying and miming in their seats, with drinks in hand, and having a laugh, and the steward said " no" and waved her hands at them. That's shocking treatment 🙄. I'm embarrassed for them. I'm just waiting for audience participation at the next Mission Impossible film. Bring your own stunt double.

ColdHandsHotHead · 29/03/2023 16:24

potniatheron · 29/03/2023 15:40

This is ridiculous. It's a musical! Aren't you SUPPOSED to sing along in the aisles?

No, you aren't. Other people in the audience don't go to the theatre to listen to YOU.

EyesOnThePies · 29/03/2023 16:24

memesndmoreme · 29/03/2023 16:18

I'm confused what's wrong with miming, no sound passes your lips when miming. Wtf no wonder their angry

They say they were ‘swaying’

People usually minimise what they were up to, so let’s allow for arms in the air, miming a mic, general theatricals.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 29/03/2023 16:24

If you think that you can go to a musical and sing along, please don't ever go to the cinema to see Gunfight At The OK Corral!

There's nothing wrong with miming in your seat, as long as you aren't making any sound at all and no body parts other than your lips are moving; but I'm guessing they were probably full-on jazz hands and acting it out too - the key phrase is 'miming it TO EACH OTHER'.

ColdHandsHotHead · 29/03/2023 16:25

Hintofreality · 29/03/2023 16:21

I blame social media. No one can simply go and enjoy seeing a show anymore, there has to be a whole “come with me”
saga for their followers, a photoshoot in the auditorium and 25 billion videos of them singing along having “the best night ever”.
Attention seeking desperados everywhere.

I blame Strictly, tbh. Everyone in the audience clapping along. They'd do it to the waltzes if they could work out where the beat was.

Funkyslippers · 29/03/2023 16:26

I'm nearly 50 and I honestly did not know you weren't supposed to sing along in musicals but it does make sense. Never felt the need to do it myself, just as I wouldn't at the cinema. The only musical I've ever been to where they've said no singing is We Will Rock You

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 29/03/2023 16:26

If all they had been doing was sitting still and silently miming along, nobody else would have known in the dark, much less needed the stewards to intervene.

pixie5121 · 29/03/2023 16:26

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InsertMoniker · 29/03/2023 16:28

This is ridiculous. It's a musical! Aren't you SUPPOSED to sing along in the aisles?

No. You pay money to hear professional singers sing. Imagine the caterwauling mess if all the audience sang.

Ponoka7 · 29/03/2023 16:29

memesndmoreme · 29/03/2023 16:18

I'm confused what's wrong with miming, no sound passes your lips when miming. Wtf no wonder their angry

It says that they were miming to each other and swaying. If it was to "it's a hard knock life", then you can bet that there was exaggerated movements etc. They admitted that they had drinks in their hands. That means that the people in front were in danger of getting swilled and at the least people either side and right behind them were disturbed.

MaggieMagpie1 · 29/03/2023 16:29

The staff at the Edinburgh Playhouse have had such a hard time recently with audience members behaving really badly.

www.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/news/crime/edinburgh-playhouse-director-colin-marr-says-enough-is-enough-after-staff-punched-spat-on-and-pushed-4019031

It has got a lot worse recently, although people's behaviour in theatres has been awful for a very long time. I went to see the play version of Trainspotting and one of the actors told the audience to shut up and switch their phones off, in character, and that was back in 2007.

Rosula · 29/03/2023 16:30

mondaytosunday · 29/03/2023 16:08

But they weren't singing they were miming. Unless they were standing up or moving around so much as to be distracting I don't see why they can't mine.

On their own admission they were swaying and having a laugh. I'm guessing quite exaggerated swaying, waving glasses around, jazz hands etc. It was clearly enough to attract attention, which means people's attention was being distracted from the stage.

Funkyslippers · 29/03/2023 16:30

pixie5121 that is a shame but I've never really experienced any of those things apart from watching a comedian and a group of women hysterically laughed every time he so much as breathed 🤨

Quveas · 29/03/2023 16:30

I loved the implication they made that they couldn't be drunk because of their age or the price of the tickets. Methinks they doth protest a little too much, especially since nobody had alleged they were drunk. So I am going with them having had too much to drink before the show and causing trouble for people around them.

Boltonb · 29/03/2023 16:31

potniatheron · 29/03/2023 15:40

This is ridiculous. It's a musical! Aren't you SUPPOSED to sing along in the aisles?

Please don’t go to a theatre

DeclineandFall · 29/03/2023 16:31

This seems to have been a problem with this stuff at The Playhouse post covid and they have zero tolerance. There's been more than one article in the papers about people complaining they have been ejected. Musical tickets are extortionate and no-one wants their evening spoiled by others singing/miming by over excited drunk/not drunk people. Its not a sing along. If you can't control the urge to sing don't go.

Butchyrestingface · 29/03/2023 16:32

potniatheron · 29/03/2023 15:40

This is ridiculous. It's a musical! Aren't you SUPPOSED to sing along in the aisles?

Naw, I don't go pay to watch a bunch of big weans in the audience caterwauling like strangled cats.

Unless it's panto.

LemonJuiceFromConcentrate · 29/03/2023 16:33

EyesOnThePies · 29/03/2023 16:24

They say they were ‘swaying’

People usually minimise what they were up to, so let’s allow for arms in the air, miming a mic, general theatricals.

It's visually distracting, attention-grabbing shitty behaviour that undermines the actual performances on stage.

If there's an auditorium full of people around you who've paid their hard-earned money to see professionals perform, how is arsing about in your seat, miming and having a laugh, fair to them? Even if you make no noise it's annoying as hell.

And how is it respectful of the people on stage, whose entire job is to hold the audience's attention?

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