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Is he being unreasonable? "Women's rights were won at the expense of men"

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Rainbowshit · 25/03/2023 21:08

twitter.com/billybragg/status/1462076809542094854?s=46&t=AjtjSItRj-kgZwRzL-pdy

So says Billy Bragg. Is he being unreasonable? 🤬

OP posts:
MarshaBradyo · 26/03/2023 10:53

Albiboba · 25/03/2023 21:15

I think they know.

See recent events.. NZ, turd, dinosaur, decapitate them.. yeh we know

pepperquorn · 26/03/2023 10:55

"But now that the issue of the day is about access to toilets suddenly sex does matter again?"

Wow! What do you think femnism is? Do you think feminists think they are men, physically? Or do you think feminist would like equal rights so that they can go about their day without fear of being sexually assaulted? It's not hard to understand.

TheMarzipanDildo · 26/03/2023 10:56

Mysterian · 26/03/2023 10:51

So you agree with him. Men lost an advantage.

His tweet said:
"Women’s rights were won at the expense of men. That’s not a criticism of process, simply an illustration of what must happen for an excluded group to win their human rights."

So he thinks that it was right that men lost that advantage for women to win their human rights, like you do. He has been deliberately misquoted to make it sound like he thinks the opposite.

What he’s actually saying is us women are more privileged than trans women (males) and should therefore give up our right to single sex sports, prisons, refuges, toilets, changing rooms to stop them from having hurt feelings. It’s just the bloody patriarchy again.

Clymene · 26/03/2023 10:58

Yes exactly @TheMarzipanDildo. What he is saying is that men lost their single sex public spaces to allow women to participate. And now he's saying that we should roll back those hard won gains because those same men have decided we can't have them any more.

Rainbowshit · 26/03/2023 11:01

@Mark19735

(even though, patently and demonstrably, sex does and always has mattered hugely in most professions).

Could you explain which professions sex matters in please? I can think of a few where sex matters but most?! Really?!

Men are biologically just the right people to be CEOs, doctors, scientists, mathematicians?

OP posts:
MarshaBradyo · 26/03/2023 11:03

TheMarzipanDildo · 26/03/2023 10:56

What he’s actually saying is us women are more privileged than trans women (males) and should therefore give up our right to single sex sports, prisons, refuges, toilets, changing rooms to stop them from having hurt feelings. It’s just the bloody patriarchy again.

Yes women fought hard for rights

Now some men want to overturn that.

Beamur · 26/03/2023 11:03

PronounssheRa · 26/03/2023 10:47

It's a false equivalence though, unless you are saying things like single sex spaces etc are never a right that women should have had.

This.
Yes, men did have to give up the domination they had to allow, slowly and incrementally some degree of rights for women.
The false equivalent here is that women are dominant and have to give way to the minority to be fair.
Except the minority are in fact part of the original patriarchy after all and the ground women lose compromises their safety and security.
If we actually had equality this wouldn't be an issue. But the social and physical advantages men have are largely still owned by transwomen too.
It's applying the same principles except the factors you're applying them to are not the same.

PronounssheRa · 26/03/2023 11:03

Clymene · 26/03/2023 10:58

Yes exactly @TheMarzipanDildo. What he is saying is that men lost their single sex public spaces to allow women to participate. And now he's saying that we should roll back those hard won gains because those same men have decided we can't have them any more.

And thats the key isn't it. Men had to give up public spaces, universities, the voting booth, the work place. They still had single sex spaces, sports, prisons, hospital wards, golf clubs, the free Mason etc

Bragg thinks women should give up all single sex spaces, he thinks there is nowhere men shouldn't be able to go.

ditalini · 26/03/2023 11:07

He's talking about golf clubs.

He's literally equating spaces women need to be safe to fucking golf.clubs.

He's actually, publicly and with no shame, saying women being able to talk about their rape with other women is the same as men getting all the tee-off slots.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 26/03/2023 11:11

There are times when I really would like to believe in the transmigration of souls, you know, where you are reborn in the body you have deserved by your actions in the previous life. Anything from a cockroach up, apparently. 🪲

Shortpoet · 26/03/2023 11:17

Women’s rights fought for access to where men were powerful (education, employment, financial equality, voting rights)., because men set it up so that women couldn’t access power or money. Women also fought for men not to be able to rape women with impunity.

At no time in the women’s rights movement did women demand access to where men were vulnerable, where women having access would make them less safe (e.g where they were naked, asleep or ill such as prisons, hospital wards, toilets).

Women’s rights might have made men feel less powerful, but at no time were men made less physically safe.

Billy Bragg cannot see the difference between these two thing.

nothingcomestonothing · 26/03/2023 11:17

Yes, men did have to give up the domination they had to allow, slowly and incrementally some degree of rights for women.

Exactly, men lost some of their ability to dominate - really not equivalent to women losing their right to safety, dignity, privacy.

Billy Bragg saying the quiet part out loud, again. What an absolute melt.

LavenderfortheBees · 26/03/2023 11:30

Rights men lost:

Legally rape/beat their wives
Automatic custody of children after separation
Ownership of all marital property
Being the only voters

Single sex clubs are still legal even though there are less of them so that's not an issue.

Rights BB wants women to lose:

Access to any single sex space (also affects men but has a disproportionate impact on women due to the behaviour of a minority of men)
The ability to describe ourselves in sexed terms

The rights men lost were rights over other people (women) whereas the rights women are looking at losing don't actually give us power over other individuals.

Some people may feel hurt and aggrieved to be excluded from a single sex space. That is worth considering against the other considerations of those spaces conferring safety on women and allowing them to access society comfortably. A good solution is to mandate third spaces or other access arrangements where possible to protect the safety and comfort of trans people.

That isn't what is being asked for though.

minou123 · 26/03/2023 11:39

A PP asked "did men lose the right to vote - No?" but missed the fairly obvious point that after women's suffrage was achieved, men's votes only accounted for 50% of the theoretical maximum votes cast. Oh ... and men also, eventually, started losing their "right" to single sex spaces (e.g. Royal & Ancient Golf Club, St Andrews etc.).

That's was me @Mark19735

It's not me that missed the point.

The fact that men's votes only accounted for 50% after women's suffrage, doesnt mean they lost the RIGHT to vote.
Men lost the PRIVILEGE of being the only sex to choose which political.party should be in government.

Braggs twitter is about RIGHTS not privilege.

Oh.....and, if you think women protecting themselves from sexual assault and violence is the same as men wanting to have drink in a golf club, you need to seriously rethink your life choices.
Sit the fuck down.

VaddaABeetch · 26/03/2023 11:44

Billy Bragg is an arse biscuit

Men arguing that men loosing privilege is a bad thing are arse biscuits.

VickyEadieofThigh · 26/03/2023 11:46

The equivalent - for those saying "Well, he's right in a sense..." is to ask if you'd agree with someone saying "In America, black people's rights were won at the expense of white people's"?

User135644 · 26/03/2023 11:47

"Don’t you think men said ‘what about our right to single sex spaces?’*

That's the point he's making. Male only spaces and clubs were challenged.

VickyEadieofThigh · 26/03/2023 11:49

User135644 · 26/03/2023 11:47

"Don’t you think men said ‘what about our right to single sex spaces?’*

That's the point he's making. Male only spaces and clubs were challenged.

Bragg demonstrating, therefore, that he doesn't even SEE why women need single sex spaces.

Spidergloves · 26/03/2023 11:53

I was naive enough to think Billy Bragg could be reasoned with when he started down this road, but he's shown he is a complete and utter lost cause. Awful man.

NurseCranesRolodex · 26/03/2023 11:54

FlyingWormsAndSubterraneanBirds · 25/03/2023 21:33

Yeah he may be right.

IF in the year 5023 we've spent a few thousand years owning men as our property, leaving all domestic work and child rearing to them, denying them the vote, legally raping them and beating them up, insisting they cannot have proper careers or be paid as much as us if we do see fit to let them work when they aren't waiting on us, and treating them as unintelligent subhumans only valued for their sperm and looking pretty (if they can manage that).

Until then he needs to STFU. Moron.

Spot on!
Billy Bragg is a boring streak of piss.

Eyesofdisarray · 26/03/2023 11:56

Never liked him or his music or his views.
Big nasty misogynist- he is supporting a violent stance against women.
His name is back in the public view so as they say, no such thing as bad publicity
🍆

Allmyplantsdie · 26/03/2023 11:56

Men lost one important thing with womens rights. Control. It tells you a lot about an individual if they think control over another group is important.

lifeturnsonadime · 26/03/2023 11:57

That tweet shows exactly what Billy Bragg thinks of women.

That we should never had rights and are inferior to the men folk.

His current line is that women who dare to speak about the current situation where men are being enabled to enter single sex spaces are aligned with Nazis.

Billy Bragg and his ilk can do one.

heathspeedwell · 26/03/2023 11:57

Bragg really hates women doesn't he. I feel sorry for his family.

EsmeShelby · 26/03/2023 11:58

Men didn't lose the vote when women got the vote. And they still have single sex spaces.