I snapped at my dp about his Mum asking for lifts. In my defence, I had a sleepless night with my baby so was in a snappy mood and just seen a text asking for yet another lift. She doesn't ask all the time, sometimes she can asks twice a week then go a week without asking then ask the following week and so on. I work pt but it's long hours and I have 3 children so my days off are not really days off. I feel she could be more mindful and make alternative arrangements. 2 occasions have really miffed me and then seeing that text just made me lose it. A few weeks ago she rang at 10am to ask if i could pick her up and take her to her drs app for 10.45 so i did, dropped her back home and with 5 minutes of been home she rang back to say she forgot to hand in her sample and could i come and collect it and take to the drs before 11.30 else it will miss collection. Then last week she asked if I could take her to her hospital appointment at 9am meaning getting me and the children ready and leaving out at 8.30 to get to her appointment then waiting around for her to then take her shopping before taking her home. My dp does it sometimes but he could do it more but she asks me. Her dh works so understand her can't but she has siblings who drive and could easily get a taxi. She's 58 so not elderly and although she has some health problems, not to the extent she can't make her own way in a taxi. Aibu or just nit picking? I always say if you can help someone do, but my days off are not to be a taxi service. Im a busy Mum and have 1001 things to do and it can take a chunk out of my day, especially when she asks me to take her shopping.