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If another child says hello to your child...

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SleepingStandingUp · 20/02/2023 09:23

Would they say hello back if they didn't know them?

DS is 7, av for his age, occasionally confused for a girl given his lovely hair.

He always says hello to any kids that walk past or on the bus, he's not always great at eye contact but it's clear he's talking to them. So many of them just look right through him and I then end up saying l, when he goes to try again to not, perhaps they're shy etc. But he always looks so sad. He'll also shout out and tell people he really likes their top or hat if it's a cool one. Again, mostly ignored or looked through.

AIBU to let him say hi and say I like your top etc? We've had the stranger conversation but he loves nothing more than a chatty person on the bus 🙄and I've not yet learnt a way to shit him up

Do you inwardly judge us if its your child he says hello to? Do you teach me your kids no talking to strangers inc's kids to their own age?

Tb clear, he Def looks 7, av height, slim, longish hair so there's no way he looks intimidating or threatening or aggressive.

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SleepingStandingUp · 20/02/2023 15:05

afinishedkiss · 20/02/2023 14:58

You child sounds lovely OP. I love to meet a chatty little kid and would be delighted if he said hello to me one morning.

You might wanna brush up on your Sonic 😜. I do find some adults are amazing, not just when I think maybe they're lonely and happy for a chat but also when I suspect they'd be quite happy with peace and quiet but are also happy to be kind

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CorpusCallosum · 20/02/2023 15:35

This popped up on my Insta feed right after reading this. I think your son sounds lovely, I too am one to say hi to people and give out compliments to strangers. But, it's not typical in our culture so I'm not surprised he's not getting lots of positive responses. Don't discourage him, he will learn on his own who looks like they'll be receptive to his friendliness and who doesn't. It's hard to see when they're sad about something but it's a normal and healthy emotion that is safe for him to experience, especially when he has such a loving mum 🧡

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SleepingStandingUp · 21/02/2023 01:14

Thank you @CorpusCallosum

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