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Why Ukrainians and Russians are not brothers
And why calling for their reconciliation right now is abusive
Since the start of the Russian full-scale invasion of Ukraine, many voices have been calling for solidarity and peace between the two "brotherly" nations." [...]
Many Ukrainians feel angered and misunderstood because of the "befriending" attempts.
Russia is waging a war of genocide and extermination against Ukraine. This is not a dispute between two nations that can't get along. This is a neo-imperialistic war that seeks to completely destroy Ukraine. [...]
Ukrainians don't buy the idea that this is Putin's war.
They have felt that Russians have treated Ukrainians as inferiors for centuries. They know how many Russians are cheering for this war.[...]
"Brotherly Nations" is an old Russian imperial narrative.
For the last 350 years, Russia and Ukraine have mostly existed as an empire and its colony. Russia has tried to destroy Ukraine's political autonomy, ban the Ukrainian language from public use, and erase Ukrainian identity.
Russia has created and exploited the "brotherly nations" narrative to justify its imperial claims over other nations: Poland, Czechoslovakia, the Balkans, and more. If you invade a "brotherly" nation, then you're there to help, right?
When Russia talks about "brotherly nations," it always pictures Russians as the older brother and other nations as the younger ones. For instance, Russians sometimes refer to Ukrainians as "Little Russians."[...]
This version of "brotherhood" completely rejects the idea of a sovereign Ukrainian state and turns everybody who supports independent Ukraine into a "Nazi" who deserves to be murdered.[...]
Unfortunately, this war is the modern culmination of Russia's unchecked imperialism (check our cards about Russian imperialism to learn more). It runs deeper than just Putin's regime, and it must be resolved in a more nuanced way. [...]
How to treat the "Brotherly Nations" narrative
First of all, start listening to Ukrainians.[...]
Stop "Westsplaining." Ukrainians and Easter Europeans know Russia far better that people in the West.
Remember, Ukrainians have the right to be outraged and angry. They have the right to distance themselves from Russians.