How much noise/disruption would have to happen before you were concerned and call the police? If there was lots of noise -not arguments but angry loud shouting and swearing from one person (male) lots of things being thrown around and broken, music turned up to very high volume.
I'm the female on the receiving end of the abuse. Too scared to call the police because they won't do anything and he'll be angry with me for calling. Kind of hoping that a neighbour might call and report a disturbance but they never have.
So just wondered. How bad would it have to be before you called the police if you heard something like that from your neighbours?
YABU - Of course the neighbours should not get involved and put themselves at risk too
YANBU - I would be concerned and call the police