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Partners hasn't come home

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honeybeeandme · 05/02/2023 02:02

Partner hasn't come home. Was supposed to go out for a few drinks with friends - nothing silly. Anyway, he's done this on many occasions where I haven't heard from him all night and he's turned up the next morning to find out he stayed at a friends. I've given up caring now as he doesn't do it often but I feel it's such a lack of disrespect to not let me know. I haven't reached out to him until now and his phone is obviously dead. If it were the other way around he'd go ape shot! I dropped him off at 6pm it's now 2pm.

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Choconut · 05/02/2023 12:53

I did a lot of drinking and staying out when I was young but by the time I got married I was way past that and I made sure I married someone who was too. I couldn't be doing with it especially when he says it's a few drinks and then doesn't even bother to let you know that his plans have changed.

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