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Disgusting men in work

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Xtime · 03/02/2023 16:21

I overheard 2 men in work talking about me, what I'd be like in bed, my figure etc. Making really crude comments about me. It's totally shocked me, in a work place, I'm in my forties, dressed very casually, no short skirts or cleavage. I've heard one of them repeatedly talking about me, he's fucking fixated- he's been asking around for any info about me. He's got a girlfriend and is in his forties. He should know better. I don't want to complain - they'd deny it anyway. I'm new in the job, and they are well liked, even by other women, so I don't feel I'd have support from them, I'm too new. Basically I'm ignoring them but they're commenting on that now. I don't want to change job, I do like it, but the one man in particular is a creep. I should really just leave shouldn't I?

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BaggyAndWrinkled · 05/02/2023 07:41

HappyValleyyy · 03/02/2023 18:11

Agree they are vile and disgusting- however I would deal with this by confidently walking up to them and whispering in their face ‘you know you could never satisfy me’ with a sultry look then walk away without turning back.

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TrinnySmith · 05/02/2023 07:51

I think OP mentioned not wearing low cut tops to avoid some out of date posters asking if she did.

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