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To feel sorry for Brooklyn Beckham?

595 replies

Ridelikethewindypops · 28/01/2023 09:32

I just do feel a bit sorry for him. He's completely out of touch with the real world obviously, but he's so young and so gormless. But seems so determined to be famous in his own right, despite no specialist skill set. I wonder do famous parents ever encourage their children to go to uni and get a real job? Or is that not an option? There are plenty of fulfilling jobs he could do, teaching, nursing, even volunteering ( as he clearly doesn't need the money)
I feel bad for him as he gets mocked online, but he still seems determined to put himself out there.
Money aside, I do feel sorry for the children of spectacularly talented parents, it must cast a long shadow. ( I repeat, money aside...😅)

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converseandjeans · 28/01/2023 10:25

I don't feel sorry for him as he has had a lovely upbringing & the family seem close.

I do find it unkind of you to start a thread about him. Just leave him be to do his thing. There's the phrase "if you can't say something nice then don't say anything"

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 28/01/2023 10:25

I once spent a fortune on a pair of VB jeans. They split after a few weeks and washed really badly. Absolute rip off

DesertRose64 · 28/01/2023 10:26

I was at a teacher training seminar one evening. One of the teachers had actually taught DB. She said he was good at maths. The idea that DB is stupid is ludicrous

Being good at Maths is probably how he got his stint in Qatar to add up.

HeavenIsAHalfpipe · 28/01/2023 10:26

He is definitely gormless and has no talent or skills (that I know of!) But I certainly don't feel bloody sorry for him! He leads a blessed life and is very fortunate. BTW, the book that was published, (of photos he took,) is atrocious. The photos look like they have been taken with a potato, by a 3 year old.

It sickens me that people like him can get stuff published at the drop of a hat, no matter how shit it is, when many other unknown people can't catch a break in a similar field (writing, art, photography etc...) Hmm

I also wouldn't call VB 'spectacularly talented.' No-one would have touched her and her 'designs' if she has not been already famous. Same as Brooklyn. His photos would have been laughed at and binned if he hadn't been a child of the Beckhams.

Bertha21 · 28/01/2023 10:26

To me it seems like he has many opportunities but either finds studying to hard. Or doesn’t know what he wants to do in life. Maybe financially his parents have made the mistake of supporting him a bit to much. Now at a very young age he has married. We possibly know how this will end. His wife seems to have a job and make money. What does he do when she is working? It’s not great that their families apparently no longer get on if that’s true!

bussteward · 28/01/2023 10:27

I LOVE that his cookery show is called Cookin’ With Brooklyn. When his cheffing fails he can go into porn: Fookin’ With Brooklyn. Then birdwatching: Lookin’ With Brooklyn. Then literature: Bookin’ With Brooklyn. Chess! Rookin’ With Brooklyn. The possibilities are endless!

LittleBearPad · 28/01/2023 10:27

KettrickenSmiled · 28/01/2023 10:18

That was my kneejerk reaction too Fizz, then I remembered that VB is no dimwit, & parlayed an average dancing ability & poor vocal talent into various business interests & no doubt smart financial instruments. She launched herself as a brand & propelled herself into a lucrative marriage to another high-status celeb who she also had a significant role in re-branding, & leveraged herself & her H into a power couple with longevity & global reach.

I don't find any of that valuable, but VB clearly does, had ambition for fame & money from an early age, & a huge talent for making it happen and holding onto it longterm.
Not to say luck didn't play a part, but it has to for everyone - even David B: not every magic-footed youngster gets taken up by a club.

As to BB - I feel sorry for most of his ilk - "poor little rich kids", but not sorry enough to negate the scorn & derision about that whole set of deluded people peddling the noxious nonsense of money as god, & fame as lifeblood.
I could rage at Olympic performance level about that, but at least Britain also produced Marcus Rashford. He's a far more interesting celeb, & makes BB etc look even more like the wankers they are.

VB clearly does, had ambition for fame & money from an early age, & a huge talent for making it happen and holding onto it longterm.

Its not really talent, it’s lots of hard work - which with a v rich husband she didn’t need to do.

Brooklyn lacks the drive to succeed. He gives up on things

Elderflower14 · 28/01/2023 10:27

Cocolapew · 28/01/2023 10:21

He does come across a bit gormless, the Vogue thing where he was critiquing his wife's clothes was cringy.
As an aside, Nicola has the worst dress sense.
Bruce Springsteen's son is a firefighter. Now that's a proper job.

Agree and Bruce's daughter is an Olympic showjumper...!!

StillWantingADog · 28/01/2023 10:28

Not at all. He has a privileged upbringing and education and is clearly struggling to find his way in life but so do many his age

I’m sure he’ll be fine.
I mean him no ill but he’s totally irrelevant and pointless IMO.

and no VB is not wildly talented at all. She had however I imagine worked extremely hard to get to where she is so I respect her for that and for not just being an ex spice girl and Mrs Beckham.

donttellmehesalive · 28/01/2023 10:28

"I was at a teacher training seminar one evening. One of the teachers had actually taught DB. She said he was good at maths. The idea that DB is stupid is ludicrous."

I guess it's an assumption because he left school without any qualifications (reported in press, so am just assuming it's true).

NOTANUM · 28/01/2023 10:31

Remember when the Ramsays were slagged off for travelling in business while their kids were in economy class? He was ensuring they didn’t become entitled and didn’t get used to the finer things in life. His kids seems well adjusted.
The Beckhams have always sold Brand Beckham above all things. The abuse their young DD has got on social media as a result is a disgrace. It’s on them really as parents.

mynamesnotMa · 28/01/2023 10:31

Ah bollix. He's just like a lot of unfoccused people looking for an identity. At least he's trying..

Cocolapew · 28/01/2023 10:32

bussteward · 28/01/2023 10:27

I LOVE that his cookery show is called Cookin’ With Brooklyn. When his cheffing fails he can go into porn: Fookin’ With Brooklyn. Then birdwatching: Lookin’ With Brooklyn. Then literature: Bookin’ With Brooklyn. Chess! Rookin’ With Brooklyn. The possibilities are endless!

😆
Also why does it take £100,000(?) To make a video of you standing in the same spot in a kitchen cooking?
Imagine what good he could have done with that money. He seems to have no purpose in life.
I don't think Nicola has set the acting world alight either

LizzieSiddal · 28/01/2023 10:33

Jamie Oliver’s DD is training to be a nurse! I respect that so much.

The Beckham parents are to blame here. They’ve actually used their kids to keep their brand in the spotlight. They’re horrible people imo.

Mercurial123 · 28/01/2023 10:34

mynamesnotMa · 28/01/2023 10:31

Ah bollix. He's just like a lot of unfoccused people looking for an identity. At least he's trying..

It's easy to try when you are extremely wealthy but with zero talent. So, no sympathy from me.

UWhatNow · 28/01/2023 10:36

Nope, I can’t feel sorry for a young man who has everything and will be financially cosseted for his whole life. His persona as a gormless chump is entirely his own fault.

LizzieSiddal · 28/01/2023 10:36

"I was at a teacher training seminar one evening. One of the teachers had actually taught DB. She said he was good at maths. The idea that DB is stupid is ludicrous."

It’s not ludicrous when you look at the evidence the public are provided with. Have you seen his photography book? Only a stupid person would think those photos are worthy of a book. Have you seen him making a sandwich? Only a stupid person would think making a a sandwich is worthy of a “demonstration”. I could go on ….

KettrickenSmiled · 28/01/2023 10:36

bussteward · 28/01/2023 10:27

I LOVE that his cookery show is called Cookin’ With Brooklyn. When his cheffing fails he can go into porn: Fookin’ With Brooklyn. Then birdwatching: Lookin’ With Brooklyn. Then literature: Bookin’ With Brooklyn. Chess! Rookin’ With Brooklyn. The possibilities are endless!

😂😂😂😍

Bussteward, you brilliant little fool: FFS stop posting while I get the patents sorted. You have talent, young padawan, but need a mentor to take care of copyright & .... percentages.

Have pm'd you a contract, don't waste time reading it, you need to sign & return asap before PP steal all your ideas. Obvs I'm getting the thread pulled now, so stop timewasting & crack on with it, I will definitely make you a millionaire, trust me.

Yours
Crookin' With BrooklymTM

Happinessandrainbows · 28/01/2023 10:36

I feel sorry for people who grew up abused, starving, etc.
Not for someone who had a all the opportunities in the world.

mynamesnotMa · 28/01/2023 10:39

It's not about sympathy or judgement couldn't give two hoots who are we to understand what his work ethic is. His parents also had a huge amount of family support so neither really pulled themselves up from boot straps. The poverty of ambition has little to do with money.

StrawberryAnnie · 28/01/2023 10:40

I don’t feel sorry for him.

He’s born into a wealthy family and doesn’t really need a ‘job’ to survive. Can follow his hobbies and interests. If anything I’m jealous. It’s a nice life.

He’s realised that there is money to be made from keeping up a media profile, I don’t see an issue really. For all we know, he also has made clever investments.

bevelino · 28/01/2023 10:41

converseandjeans · 28/01/2023 10:25

I don't feel sorry for him as he has had a lovely upbringing & the family seem close.

I do find it unkind of you to start a thread about him. Just leave him be to do his thing. There's the phrase "if you can't say something nice then don't say anything"

This

The thread should be removed.

mynamesnotMa · 28/01/2023 10:43

bevelino · 28/01/2023 10:41

This

The thread should be removed.

I do agree but the whole of mumsnet would shut down on that dictate 😀

LizzieSiddal · 28/01/2023 10:44

The thread should be removed.

No it shouldn’t. We don’t live in North Korea, and BB actively seeks out publicity. Of course we’re allowed to discuss his “career”.

Onnabugeisha · 28/01/2023 10:45

Say what you want about Posh and Becks, but they've both always had such a strong work ethic. You don't get to the very top of their careers without working hard. He just comes across as lazy to me.

Actually, I think he takes after his mum. She was picked in a random audition for Spice Girls based on her hotness and the girl band producers wanting one of each female- a blonde, a ginger, a minority, and a couple different brunettes. She then rocketed to fame doing hardly much of anything except lip synching, back up vocals and gyrating on a stage.

She then marries a millionaire footballer. She then schmoozed investments to start a vanity project fashion house which has lost millions of £ every year since she started it, the opposite of success or “top” of a career field.

Say what you want about footballers but at least they are picked for actually having skills, not by how fuckable they look while gyrating and wearing very little. Beckham put in a lifetime of work to succeed in his career.

I think Brooklyn is just thinking he will get a big break that will get him fame and riches for not doing very much at all. Like his mum did. It’s why you see him fortune hunting a rich bride half the time. I do feel a bit sorry for him in that people can be really horrible to him on SM and such, but not enough to worry about him. His life is and will still be one of immense privilege and wealth.

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