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To ask how many times you name change

166 replies

pinkfishbluefish · 27/01/2023 18:15

Just to be nosey

I have 10+ usernames (I think) and switch between some of them for different things, like different boards or just if the mood takes me, never to deliberately try and deceive.

I do it mainly so that if anyone IRL recognises a post, they can’t see my other posting history and confirm it’s me ie ‘pink fish has two dogs, a son who’s privately schooled’ etc it wouldn’t take long to put things together.

AIBU to name change often? Does anyone else change very regularly or usually stick to one?

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Testino · 27/01/2023 19:40

ilovesooty · 27/01/2023 19:38

And others feel differently.

Yeah, that's what I mean by 'horses for courses'.

AhNowTed · 27/01/2023 19:43

Once, and I've forgotten why.

AnotherSpare · 27/01/2023 19:44

I change username every few months, and I don't go back to use any previous names except once when I was updating a thread I had started a while ago. I change username to avoid people identifying who I am in real life. I've posted asking for advice on some very specific/identifying life situations. If anyone saw all of my posts together they could easily work out who I am.

EarringsandLipstick · 27/01/2023 19:44

Testino · 27/01/2023 19:17

You'll soon get those who tell you they've always had one name and have been using mumsnet since 1813.

I believe those people have the regular, well-known name and their namechanges.

I use the same names for same sort of topics until I'm bored and need a change or something happens and I have to change or I feel I've become easily targeted or I randomly find inspiration for a new name somehow.

What makes you so certain about this?

I'm not here that long, in MN terms, 2017 or so, but I have never name-changed. I just don't want to, I like the consistency & doubt I'll be identified.

EarringsandLipstick · 27/01/2023 19:47

And I absolutely get why poster do name change, for very valid reasons, but I think there's a certain cohort who do it to be troublesome or be particularly horrible on a thread, and I dislike this.

I feel there should be more accountability in terms of being recognisable to an extent via your UN

Testino · 27/01/2023 19:51

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Roussette · 27/01/2023 19:51

EarringsandLipstick · 27/01/2023 19:47

And I absolutely get why poster do name change, for very valid reasons, but I think there's a certain cohort who do it to be troublesome or be particularly horrible on a thread, and I dislike this.

I feel there should be more accountability in terms of being recognisable to an extent via your UN

^^ This

I've changed once in about 10 years ago, due to a real security problem.

I think users should stand by their posts, because constant name changing can encourage sock puppeting and bullying posters by NCing.

I've been on different forums years ago and never known name changing before, is it the norm on forums?

gamerchick · 27/01/2023 19:52

Never. I don't start threads and people IRL know my username on here. Couldn't be arsed anyroad and don't post anything I would care people knew.

Jellykat · 27/01/2023 19:58

I've never name changed, i dont post anything i wouldnt say in RL, and presume anyone that recognizes me must know me pretty well anyway!

pinkfishbluefish · 27/01/2023 19:59

@Testino no, not me! Perhaps there’s a user with a similar name? I’ve never been banned, I watch what I say lol.

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Testino · 27/01/2023 19:59

pinkfishbluefish · 27/01/2023 19:59

@Testino no, not me! Perhaps there’s a user with a similar name? I’ve never been banned, I watch what I say lol.

No I didn't mean you.😅

Was responding to the poster before me.

pinkfishbluefish · 27/01/2023 20:00

@Testino ahh!! My mistake. Sorry!

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Sparklingbrook · 27/01/2023 20:01

I've not been on MN since 1813, ConfusedI had a brief namechange after the hacking fiasco that lasted a week but otherwise that's it. Not sure why you'd assume anyone that's been here a while and doesn't namechange would bother to have other names.

User1794329709 · 27/01/2023 20:02

Lots of times

BiggerBoyMadeMeDoit · 27/01/2023 20:03

Just counted, and this is my 39th username. I have reused previous ones a couple of times.

Testino · 27/01/2023 20:03

pinkfishbluefish · 27/01/2023 20:00

@Testino ahh!! My mistake. Sorry!

No worries 😊

gamerchick · 27/01/2023 20:04

I've not been on MN since 1813

That's an impressive age that Grin

Testino · 27/01/2023 20:04

gamerchick · 27/01/2023 20:04

I've not been on MN since 1813

That's an impressive age that Grin

🤣🤣

PuppyMonkey · 27/01/2023 20:06

I think I was Chardonnay1966 for a couple of weeks in 2007 when i first joined, then I got told it was naff to have your birth year in your user name Blush so I changed it to PuppyMonkey and haven’t changed since because I can’t be arsed. Not even for Halloween and Christmas and shit.

Sparklingbrook · 27/01/2023 20:06

gamerchick · 27/01/2023 20:04

I've not been on MN since 1813

That's an impressive age that Grin

Grin I did wonder what the year 1813 was all about though?

BiggerBoyMadeMeDoit · 27/01/2023 20:09

Sparklingbrook · 27/01/2023 20:06

Grin I did wonder what the year 1813 was all about though?

They meant the time, not the year 😜

boys3 · 27/01/2023 20:11

Just the original one. Can’t go through all that creative angst for a second time. 😀

BCxx · 27/01/2023 20:12

I do the same thing, so someone (who has the time 🤣) can’t sit and note down all the facts on me and narrow it down from everyone in the world to being me! I’m sure there are a few people with two dogs but nope, I think that outs me on here 🤣

Sparklingbrook · 27/01/2023 20:21

BiggerBoyMadeMeDoit · 27/01/2023 20:09

They meant the time, not the year 😜

You'll soon get those who tell you they've always had one name and have been using mumsnet since 1813.

🤔

dew141 · 27/01/2023 20:25

*Who? MNHQ or posters who do this?

If you mean posters who seem to know: Some people guess. Some trawl though posts and search for users they may think sound similar. Some will know information if the poster didn't change their name, so a search will reveal other posts in that name*.
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P*osters. Thanks, makes sense. I find it a bit disconcerting.