He refuses to do anything about it. He often twitches in his sleep as well.
I've put up with it for years. I miss going to bed in peace so much. I wear earplugs but they don't help with the vibration and the twitching. I've started being resentful and grumpy during the day. I am currently in dds room - she's away at uni but I feel uncomfortable being in there. He's annoyingly wounded in the morning which makes me want to shout at him. It's honestly ruining our marriage.
AIBU?
To dislike and resent my dh because of his snoring?
Toadybum · 26/01/2023 00:52
Am I being unreasonable?
172 votes. Final results.
POLLlightand · 26/01/2023 07:20
Twitching in sleep - again my DH. Cutting back a lot on his strong caffinated coffee has helped with that.
TomPinch · 26/01/2023 08:19
Tried that - in fact I gave up.
Didn't work a bit.
For sure, it'll work for some but in fact no one knows for sure what causes RLS.
It's a really horrible feeling.
lightand · 26/01/2023 07:20
Twitching in sleep - again my DH. Cutting back a lot on his strong caffinated coffee has helped with that.
comfortablylesslumpy · 26/01/2023 07:47
It's horrible, OP.
Mine was the same, wouldn't do anything about it and I had years of awful sleep.
Really gave me the Ick.
Get yourself a nice blanket for DD's room and enjoy some good sleep.
BabyOnBoard90 · 26/01/2023 01:27
YABU.
If one could just press a button and never snore they would. People can't control what they do when they're sleep. Most treatment for snoring is just useless advice.
gamerchick · 26/01/2023 11:38
Doesn't mean the selfish fuckers get to be wounded when their partners chooses to sleep elsewhere though. Snorers who don't even bother with a sleep clinic are selfish.
Separate bedrooms can save a marriage. Fuck their feelings on it.
BabyOnBoard90 · 26/01/2023 01:27
YABU.
If one could just press a button and never snore they would. People can't control what they do when they're sleep. Most treatment for snoring is just useless advice.
Toadybum · 26/01/2023 08:27
He doesn't have RLS. He is fast asleep throughout the twitching.
Up early banging about at 6.30, stalking around doing laundry and other chores. Didn't speak to me until I said good morning. Sulking. It's pathetic.
TomPinch · 26/01/2023 08:19
Tried that - in fact I gave up.
Didn't work a bit.
For sure, it'll work for some but in fact no one knows for sure what causes RLS.
It's a really horrible feeling.
lightand · 26/01/2023 07:20
Twitching in sleep - again my DH. Cutting back a lot on his strong caffinated coffee has helped with that.
ImBlueDab · 26/01/2023 10:16
So he expects you to have no sleep whatsoever, and will sulk if you don't let him keep you awake. Can he not see how unreasonable and down right selfish this is of him.
Can you imagine if you put this scenario in any other context.
I'm going to refuse to give you any food if you're hungry, and sulk if you go and eat
I'm going to hit you, and sulk if you won't let me.
I'm going to sleep with other women and not talk to you if you don't let me.
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