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to not know if this offensive?

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Catnary · 17/01/2023 22:49

Colleague in canteen queue today, I comment that the food looks tasty. She makes a face, points to the label and says “Yeah but look, I’m not eating that!”

Label says “Halal beef casserole”.

I say “but it’s just a different way of slaughtering the cow”

”Yeah I know, that’s what I mean, it’s SO cruel. I can’t have that on my conscience.”

This was all very loud and other people overheard. Neither colleague nor I are Muslim but many other colleagues are. I felt very uncomfortable, didn’t engage, and ordered the beef.

Is this just no different to a vegetarian declaring loudly that they couldn’t possibly be so cruel as to eat meat, or is it a slur on Muslims? It felt inappropriate, especially at work.

OP posts:
Testingprof · 18/01/2023 10:29

Nimbostratus100 · 18/01/2023 10:23

  1. I often hear people complain that kosher slaughter is inhumane
  2. There are several orders of magnitude more Halal meat than Kosher

I have literally never heard of someone in real life complain about kosher meat. It matters not how many animals are killed using these methods. If you find the method inhumane that’s fine but there is a reason that halal meat is called out more and it’s Islamophobia. That’s the massive dog whistle.

The fact they’ll eat meat and dairy products in this type of venue but complain about halal meat shows that animal welfare is not at the forefront of their mind.

OneTC · 18/01/2023 10:30

Simonjt · 18/01/2023 06:01

I’m not sure why you think organic/free range meat can’t be halal.

Organic free range meat is cuddled to death, surely everyone knows this 😅

smileladiesplease · 18/01/2023 10:33

No it's fact it is a cruel way to kill

Emotionalsupportviper · 18/01/2023 10:34

Simonjt · 18/01/2023 09:31

Stunning is perfectly fine for halal slaughter, around 95% in the UK are stunned as animals have to be alive at ‘slaughter’/bloody draining, they do not need to be conscious. In Kosher a stunned animal would be considered injured, which is why stunning isn’t permitted for kosher slaughter.

Thank you - I appreciate your clarifying this.

BananaBlue · 18/01/2023 10:34

OneTC · 18/01/2023 10:30

Organic free range meat is cuddled to death, surely everyone knows this 😅

I was questioning this too - I’ve always assumed that Organic animals are slaughtered in the same manner as non-organic?

Or are there special abattoirs for them?

TBH, I’m not fussed about what my meat is listening to before slaughter (Imam CD or Now 25).

I do care that they are stunned and treated humanely.

Verybritishproblems101 · 18/01/2023 10:38

Halal is vile. End of.

SleeplessInEngland · 18/01/2023 10:41

By definition if you eat meat your concern about animal welfare is limited. (Yes, I eat meat before anyone asks.)

Mark19735 · 18/01/2023 10:44

Isn't it funny how this thread divides into those who want to discuss animal welfare (who think the racism angle is infringing on their right to prioritise the issue that they care about more), and those who interpreted the OP post as being about racism (who may or may not also have a view on animal welfare, but who fundamentally prioritise the racism angle).

The choice people exercise to frame this one way or the other is very revealing - it really reveals their particular privilege.

OneTC · 18/01/2023 10:48

BananaBlue · 18/01/2023 10:34

I was questioning this too - I’ve always assumed that Organic animals are slaughtered in the same manner as non-organic?

Or are there special abattoirs for them?

TBH, I’m not fussed about what my meat is listening to before slaughter (Imam CD or Now 25).

I do care that they are stunned and treated humanely.

The same slaughterhouses can handle both. My (small up market) butcher can show you the audit trail on his meat from farm to counter and it goes through the same large commercial abattoir that spoilt pig bacon goes through, which whilst a higher welfare product is also very mass market

There's definitely lesser slaughterhouses though and I guess they get less or none of the higher welfare trade.

LakieLady · 18/01/2023 10:49

Mark19735 · 17/01/2023 23:34

If your colleague would say the same about kosher meat, or lobster, or factory-farmed chickens and eggs, then perhaps it's fair enough. But I suspect your colleague is less vocal about this.

So actually, it's just like Tommy Robinson raging about nine Asian paedophiles in Rochdale, but saying absolutely nothing at all about the 1,323 white people convicted of sex offences against minors that same year. It's not about the crimes against women and children - it's about the ethnicity of the perpetrator. That's what makes him racist. And using the same logic, so is your colleague.

That's pretty much the way I see it.

And there was no need to say any more than "I don't eat halal for animal welfare reasons".

Fullsomefrenchie · 18/01/2023 10:54

Is this serious? She’s not allowed an opinion on the cruelty of halal slaughter purposes or it’s deemed offensive.

how ludicrous

AnuSTart · 18/01/2023 11:00

Mark19735 · 17/01/2023 23:34

If your colleague would say the same about kosher meat, or lobster, or factory-farmed chickens and eggs, then perhaps it's fair enough. But I suspect your colleague is less vocal about this.

So actually, it's just like Tommy Robinson raging about nine Asian paedophiles in Rochdale, but saying absolutely nothing at all about the 1,323 white people convicted of sex offences against minors that same year. It's not about the crimes against women and children - it's about the ethnicity of the perpetrator. That's what makes him racist. And using the same logic, so is your colleague.

This I reckon. In a nutshell.

SchoolTripDrama · 18/01/2023 11:49

AnneLovesGilbert · 17/01/2023 22:53

You seem sure it is offensive. I’m a lifelong vegetarian and think eating meat is unnecessary so I don’t really care how the animal that’s been killed so you can eat it died. None of it’s okay.

But cultural sensitivities aren’t a reason not to object to inhumane practices and there are plenty of things done in the name of religion I object to and would do so out loud.

You do realise that if livestock wasn't killed for meat that the planet would be utterly & completely overrun with cattle, pigs & sheep?! It would be like an apocalypse

Kanaloa · 18/01/2023 11:49

Ponoka7 · 18/01/2023 07:36

So what conditions we keep animals in wasn't worth campaigning for? We should go back to the long distance transportation of live animals? There should be no farm animal welfare legalisation? Free range etc doesn't matter?

I mean that’s not really what I said. I said that you can’t stand loudly talking about how meany pants others are who kill animals to eat because you kill animals in a nice way. You can feel better that you buy chickens that get to go out for an hour a day before they’re killed, but if you really cared about animal suffering then you wouldn’t want to to eat any animals. But if you do want to eat animals you can’t exactly look down at others.

LastOfTheChristmasWine · 18/01/2023 11:54

SchoolTripDrama · 18/01/2023 11:49

You do realise that if livestock wasn't killed for meat that the planet would be utterly & completely overrun with cattle, pigs & sheep?! It would be like an apocalypse

Do you think they just pop into existence magically and in a way that we have no control over? No.

They are bred, deliberately, by farmers. If there's no demand for beef, pork or lamb then they will send the remaining animals to slaughter and stop breeding them. They're not going to turn their animals loose in the local park and let them breed at will now, are they?

You could make this argument for wild British venison because they live in the wild and have no natural predators after we hunted wolves, bears etc to extinction a few centuries ago. But not for pheasants and other game birds (mostly raised by gamekeepers and released for the purposes of shooting) and certainly not for pigs, sheep, cattle and poultry.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 18/01/2023 11:56

No, it's not offensive, it's a fact.

LINABE · 18/01/2023 12:05

Fullsomefrenchie · 18/01/2023 10:54

Is this serious? She’s not allowed an opinion on the cruelty of halal slaughter purposes or it’s deemed offensive.

how ludicrous

This^ Also with regards to Kosher meat, I don't see that being shoved down my throat without having a choice whether to eat it or not and strict rules govern its production. (Beth din seal, OU-DE no milk derivatives or OU-Glatt the product is Kosher meat ) and it is shown on the product so you can make a CHOICE whether to buy it or not.

Up thread we have ridiculous titles such as 'An inclusion representative' (or something) in the workplace. Seriously?? It would be funny if it wasn't so ridiculous and ominous as I see it as a form of control on how we express ourselves. The work place is full of such titles and It is an example of just how far the country has sunk with regards to free speech/voicing an opinion. Every company has to have these diversity people in order to keep their ESG score to attract investment. Do you think the company really care if they are inclusive or not? It's an absolute load of bollocks.

What amazes me is that people just don't see it, or they do but are too scared to stand up for what they know is right and need to keep their job etc. so have to go along with it. (It's like the Emperors new clothes!)

We used to be able to express our views and debate openly. Not anymore. You'll get done for 'not being inclusive' or whatever 'ism' crime you have committed.

The country has changed beyond all measure in the last 20 or so years. We are certainly not 'free' anymore. It's turning, slowly but surely, into a communist, robotic state.

RoseslnTheHospital · 18/01/2023 12:05

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 18/01/2023 11:56

No, it's not offensive, it's a fact.

The kind of halal meat served in a work canteen is going to be part of the 95% of halal meat from animals which are slaughtered in the same way as non-halal meat except with the addition of recorded prayers being played. How is that any more or less cruel than not playing recorded prayers?

DarkNecessities · 18/01/2023 12:07

I wish halal meat was labelled as such.
We can’t buy it locally so have to make a 20 mile round trip.

PoIIyPandemonium · 18/01/2023 12:08

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SallyWD · 18/01/2023 12:09

I didn't know much about it so googled and found this article www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-27324224.amp
It seems the vast majority of animals in the UK slaughtered in the halal way are stunned beforehand. Major supermarkets say the only difference between halal and non-halal meat is that the halal animals are read a blessing when slaughtered.
I don't eat meat. I think all animals we proiduce for food suffer greatly during their lives and deaths so those non-halal meat eaters should probably get off their high horses.

DarkNecessities · 18/01/2023 12:09

DeFacto · 18/01/2023 08:27

we frequently use 4 Indian restaurants and they’re all run by Muslims

I would hazard a guess that they are probably not 'Indian'.

@Simonjt ah yes, as a PP noted it is possible to get free-range organic meat that is also halal, but that is a niche market! A quick Google tells me a company in the UK called Abraham's is a supplier of ethical halal meat.

It was many years ago I worked in catering and my emphasis was on free-range/organic, any customer who required kosher or halal would probably have not come to me!

They are Indian

Eyerollcentral · 18/01/2023 12:09

LINABE · 18/01/2023 12:05

This^ Also with regards to Kosher meat, I don't see that being shoved down my throat without having a choice whether to eat it or not and strict rules govern its production. (Beth din seal, OU-DE no milk derivatives or OU-Glatt the product is Kosher meat ) and it is shown on the product so you can make a CHOICE whether to buy it or not.

Up thread we have ridiculous titles such as 'An inclusion representative' (or something) in the workplace. Seriously?? It would be funny if it wasn't so ridiculous and ominous as I see it as a form of control on how we express ourselves. The work place is full of such titles and It is an example of just how far the country has sunk with regards to free speech/voicing an opinion. Every company has to have these diversity people in order to keep their ESG score to attract investment. Do you think the company really care if they are inclusive or not? It's an absolute load of bollocks.

What amazes me is that people just don't see it, or they do but are too scared to stand up for what they know is right and need to keep their job etc. so have to go along with it. (It's like the Emperors new clothes!)

We used to be able to express our views and debate openly. Not anymore. You'll get done for 'not being inclusive' or whatever 'ism' crime you have committed.

The country has changed beyond all measure in the last 20 or so years. We are certainly not 'free' anymore. It's turning, slowly but surely, into a communist, robotic state.

Do you miss the old days when people could be called paddies and p*kis and be ridiculed in their workplaces?

Testingprof · 18/01/2023 12:13

LINABE · 18/01/2023 12:05

This^ Also with regards to Kosher meat, I don't see that being shoved down my throat without having a choice whether to eat it or not and strict rules govern its production. (Beth din seal, OU-DE no milk derivatives or OU-Glatt the product is Kosher meat ) and it is shown on the product so you can make a CHOICE whether to buy it or not.

Up thread we have ridiculous titles such as 'An inclusion representative' (or something) in the workplace. Seriously?? It would be funny if it wasn't so ridiculous and ominous as I see it as a form of control on how we express ourselves. The work place is full of such titles and It is an example of just how far the country has sunk with regards to free speech/voicing an opinion. Every company has to have these diversity people in order to keep their ESG score to attract investment. Do you think the company really care if they are inclusive or not? It's an absolute load of bollocks.

What amazes me is that people just don't see it, or they do but are too scared to stand up for what they know is right and need to keep their job etc. so have to go along with it. (It's like the Emperors new clothes!)

We used to be able to express our views and debate openly. Not anymore. You'll get done for 'not being inclusive' or whatever 'ism' crime you have committed.

The country has changed beyond all measure in the last 20 or so years. We are certainly not 'free' anymore. It's turning, slowly but surely, into a communist, robotic state.

Why don’t you say what you really want to? “It’s PC gorn mad”…

People being challenged robustly for bigoted views is not wrong. You aren’t having halal meat shoved down your throat, the hyperbolic language is ridiculous. Do you feel the same over vegan food?

LINABE · 18/01/2023 12:19

Eyerollcentral · 18/01/2023 12:09

Do you miss the old days when people could be called paddies and p*kis and be ridiculed in their workplaces?

Yawn. There's a clear difference between doing something because you have to be seen to be doing something rather than doing something because there is a problem.