NC as it could be quite contentious...
I've had my baby 6 months ago and I breastfeed. A couple of times when my 8 year old DN has been over she has said & done a couple of things which make me uneasy.
I'm a ftm and obv not used to breastfeeding, but feel very comfortable in my own home around family, so am quite open about it.
DN keeps trying to kiss DS on the cheek while he is latched on and I gently asked her not to while he is busy. She did this on a few visits.
Another time she was pretending to be DS and jumped on my lap in a breastfeeding position and actually bit my boob!
Before her sibling arrived DN has asked if she can have some milk, which I have said no to which she questioned and told me "mummy's going to let me".
DSIL (DN mum) has just had her second baby a week ago and has been in hospital.
Yesterday DN said she couldn't wait to see her so she can have more "booby milk".
Now I understand being curious and trying a bit, but honestly I think she's meaning full on breastfeeding.
It's not my plan, but I can also understand if she has been continuously breastfeed for 8 years, but the fact she's been weaned for around 5/6 years, the thought of her breastfeeding again makes me really uneasy.
I'm not overly close to DSIL but I could imagine she would breastfeed her older DC if that's what DC wanted.
I will try to find out weather she has just tried some, is drinking expressed milk regularly or is actually drinking from the breast.
What do you think?
YABU - it's her child and breastfeeding is perfectly natural at any age & stage.
YANBU - Yuck, it's not right to breastfeed a child who has been weaned for over 5 years.
AIBU?
8 year old & breastfeeding
Boobi · 16/01/2023 21:06
Am I being unreasonable?
346 votes. Final results.
POLLCuppasoupmonster · 16/01/2023 21:12
If this is a real post then YANBU that is fucking weird. I’ve seen a poster on here (whose posting history suggests not a troll) who still breastfeeds her 8 year old occasionally 🤢 personally I think it should be a social services matter.
Sucessinthenewyear · 16/01/2023 21:18
It’s very unlikely an 8 year old would be able to latch.
purpledalmation · 16/01/2023 21:18
Literally none of your business. Keep her occupied when you feed and leave well alone. Extended breastfeeding isn't a crime or harmful and isn't child abuse.
Emmamoo89 · 16/01/2023 21:22
YANBU it's gross. Breastfeeding past 2 is gross
PinkPlantCase · 16/01/2023 21:26
Why is breastfeeding past 2 gross?
There are lots of issues in the OP. I’ve never known someone let a child who isn’t also tandem nursing get close enough to kiss the baby’s cheek whilst they’re feeding. And that’s ignoring the fact that this child bit the OPs boob 😱
Assert your boundaries OP.
Emmamoo89 · 16/01/2023 21:22
YANBU it's gross. Breastfeeding past 2 is gross
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Emmamoo89 · 16/01/2023 21:22
YANBU it's gross. Breastfeeding past 2 is gross
watchfulwishes · 16/01/2023 21:32
Please explain why it is 'gross'. You sound like a tween.
Emmamoo89 · 16/01/2023 21:22
YANBU it's gross. Breastfeeding past 2 is gross
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