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Scaredofmynipple · 14/01/2023 20:02

My left nipple is red sore and erect been like this for 2 days. Also got a small lump under right boob not painful been there for a month. Nurse took blood tests last week. Doctor Urgently said to call back, this was Monday. Of course no one answered. I emailed etc. No reply. Now waiting for call on Monday and I'm so scared. I did have an appointment with breat clinic but due to postal strikes only received my letter after my appointment then got another letter saying they had cancelled it due to a no show. 😭.

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SlaveToTheVibe · 15/01/2023 08:44

Sounds very worrying OP. I had similar, either way they won’t be able to do much over a weekend I would have thought.

Scaredofmynipple · 15/01/2023 09:44

Quick update found an out of hours walk in centre thanks for letting me know about it. Just waiting now got 2 plasters over my nipple as it's so sore to be touched!!!

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itbemay · 15/01/2023 09:44

Ooh will not be able to refer you to breast clinic, only your own GP can do that. They will be able to treat the problem though, sounds like an abscess or cyst.

I've had x 2 suspected cancer referrals in past 5 years, you'll be seen quickly. Try not to worry and maybe go to the GP Monday rather than wait for a call. I would have done that Friday.

Scaredofmynipple · 15/01/2023 09:45

I finally got through Friday! My nipple was fine then it's just come on rapidly

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georgarina · 15/01/2023 09:58

Omg I'm so sorry you're going through this OP

Hopefully you'll be seen asap now you're at the walk in and they'll at least be able to check you over/give you abx if needed Flowers

Zombiemum1946 · 15/01/2023 10:08

You've had appalling treatment. I hope you've been seen. It sounds like mastitis or infected cyst and its bloody sore and can make you unwell quickly. I was given antibiotics and the gp rollocked dh for complaining about taking time off to look after the baby. it cleared within a few days. Tell dp to wind his neck in. It may well be worth complaining to the practice. There should have been an alert on your records that has to be followed up.

Scaredofmynipple · 15/01/2023 10:20

I got to admit I'm so tired I can't really think straight. I will ask the doctor about it on Monday. It's not very busy here thank god. Ive Been having on going issues with lumps, infections and cysts but normally in my left breast not my right. Yeah I was going to give dp the side eye about his hobby. But I feel like I'm going to be sick at any moment so I just couldn't be bothered

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Scaredofmynipple · 15/01/2023 12:43

Quick update. Got seen quickly female doctor as well so that was really good. Always feel happier. She gave me antibiotics and Said to mention it to doctor asap. Interestingly couldn't access my notes, but could see what my prescriptions I have had before. Still scared shirtless. But it was nice doing something pro active. Might try some mediation or mindfulness later. 🙏🧼🤒

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DoIWantThis · 15/01/2023 13:44

Hi OP, glad to hear that you've been seen by a healthcare professional. I hope the antibiotics make you feel a bit better and that you actually get to speak to a gp tomorrow xx

Scaredofmynipple · 15/01/2023 14:04

Thanks that means a lot x

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daisydoods · 16/01/2023 12:44

How did you get on op?

Scaredofmynipple · 16/01/2023 13:06

Just got a referral to breast clinic. That's all. The doctor was in a rush to end the telephone call!

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georgarina · 16/01/2023 13:29

Are you feeling any better with the antibiotics?

daisydoods · 16/01/2023 14:36

I hope it's soon, and that your antibiotics have kicked in. Please keep us updated Flowers

Scaredofmynipple · 16/01/2023 20:28

Hi yes a bit but period due so hormonal on top of everything!

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Scaredofmynipple · 16/01/2023 20:28

They have helped albeit feeling quesy with them!

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daisydoods · 24/01/2023 13:48

How you getting on OP?

Scaredofmynipple · 24/01/2023 18:02

Hi all still waiting for that breast clinic appointment letter. Still feeling crap. Niple.has gone down a bit but still looks dodgy. I'm having regular panic attacks. Sorry not to bring better news x

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MaverickGooseGoose · 24/01/2023 18:07

That's shit. Can you afford to go private for the initial consult? It's about £200 at my bupa for initial breast clinic

Scaredofmynipple · 24/01/2023 18:53

No sadly 😔. Not in a position to do that. If I don't get a letter tomorrow I might ring the breast clinic and see if they have it. Got so many sodding issues going on at once. I need a referral to gynecologist and that could take a year minimum! I'm at my wit's end. With it all I hate being a sodding woman!

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x2boys · 24/01/2023 19:01

This is anecdotal,but my dh,regularly gets nipple infections ,with very similar symptoms ,he also.gets regular urine infections ,he has type 2 diabetes and it's all thought to.be related .

Adelais · 24/01/2023 19:06

I had a lump on my nipple that turned out to be an infected boil so sounds like you could have similar. Was given antibiotics but the doctor warned me it could take a while to clear up and he was right, it took about a month for it to disappear.
Hope you manage to get seen.

BCBird · 24/01/2023 19:09

Sending you a hand hold

daisydoods · 24/01/2023 20:59

Ah no I'm so sorry you haven't had your letter yet, I think it's a great idea ringing the breast clinic to see if they have you're referral, my DF opened a letter last week at 10:30am inviting him to an appointment that afternoon at 1pm so it seems a lot of postal issues are still happening! Keep us updated Flowers

Scaredofmynipple · 24/01/2023 21:03

Thanks yes, don't get me started on the sodding post!!! X

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