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Asked to move from relatives house

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OrangeBlankets · 14/01/2023 09:32

I've been living in a relatives house for more than 2 years. When I moved in the relative was in a care home but the person who had POA for them agreed for me to move in and said it was ok for a short time and that I didn't have to pay rent.

Now the house owner died and so did the POA. The executors want me to move out.

I don't have anywhere to go, can they evict me?

OP posts:
SheilaFentiman · 16/01/2023 20:47

isitalloveryet · 16/01/2023 19:13

if you choose to fight eviction and stay as a tenant the new owner probably will have the right to charge you fair rent - if you can't afford to pay then they will legally be able to evict you for non payment

I would approach your local council and see if they can help rehouse you or see if you grown up children can offer you any support

I believe OP has offered to pay rent.

That doesn’t help if there are several beneficiaries and the house needs to be sold so that the estate can be divided.

bewilderedhedgehog · 16/01/2023 21:32

TrashyPanda · 15/01/2023 19:10

In the actual POA. There are standard clauses for financial and medical aspects, in order to ensure the vulnerable person is not being taken advantage of.

the finance part is there to protect financial abuse of vulnerable people. Allowing a close relative ofthe Attorney to live rent free is almost certainly not acting in the best interest of the GM. Even a below market rent would be better than nothing. As it is,the GM was deprived of 2 years rent.

the whole point of POAs is to prevent situations like this.

Thank you - I had not realised this, but it absolutely makes sense - thank you for explaining

Sennelier1 · 16/01/2023 22:22

The dead relative was your grandmother. I presume there are more (grand)children, otherwise they wouldn't ask you to leave the property. You've lived rentfree for 2 years, have younsaved up? Then now maybe you can buy the others out?

SheilaFentiman · 16/01/2023 22:39

Sennelier1 · 16/01/2023 22:22

The dead relative was your grandmother. I presume there are more (grand)children, otherwise they wouldn't ask you to leave the property. You've lived rentfree for 2 years, have younsaved up? Then now maybe you can buy the others out?

Try hitting “See all” on OP’s posts. This will help explain her financial situation.

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 17/01/2023 09:44

Mynewhome · 16/01/2023 16:33

You really think someone on uc can afford to save 🤣

Well she could afford to get a dog.

Mynewhome · 17/01/2023 09:50

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 17/01/2023 09:44

Well she could afford to get a dog.

Oh well in that case she must be loaded. 🤦‍♀️

Sennelier1 · 17/01/2023 11:55

@SheilaFentiman , you were right, I didn't read the update about her finances. So she didn't work, didn't save. But.......I guess the other heirs aren't rich either, and could well use the money of the house sale? She has lived there for 2 years rent-free, I think it's only fair to share now?

Darkoutsideclosethecurtains · 17/01/2023 16:07

FAYK the beneficiary of the OP's late grandmother's Will might be a charity

SheilaFentiman · 17/01/2023 17:50

Sennelier1 · 17/01/2023 11:55

@SheilaFentiman , you were right, I didn't read the update about her finances. So she didn't work, didn't save. But.......I guess the other heirs aren't rich either, and could well use the money of the house sale? She has lived there for 2 years rent-free, I think it's only fair to share now?

Sure. And I don’t think OP means to try and keep it from them.

IMO, she posted unsure of the process, and in a bit of a panic, and lots of posters took that for selfishness rather than stress. It seems like she has recently got back on her feet with a job, and would now be in a position to pay rent, but of course the executors need to sell and distribute the proceeds. Yea

DadBodAlready · 20/01/2023 23:00

TheYearOfSmallThings · 14/01/2023 09:38

They will be able to evict you, although you can probably drag it out and make it difficult for them.

Is this what you really want to do? If your goal is to be evicted and get housing through the council I think you should explain to your relative's family so at least they understand why you are doing it.

Dragging it out won't be a smart move. Any costs incurred to forcibly remove you would be billed against your grandmothers estate. That won't go down well with your family. Furthermore if anything is left to you they could probably successfully sue to have any costs offset against your possible inheritance amount.

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 23/01/2023 22:37

Mynewhome · 17/01/2023 09:50

Oh well in that case she must be loaded. 🤦‍♀️

Well yeah @Mynewhome do you know how much it costs to buy a dog? Food? Worming? Flea treatment? Vets bills, leads/harness/bowl/bed/poop bags etc etc etc, it’s never ending!!!

FeinCuroxiVooz · 24/01/2023 00:01

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 23/01/2023 22:37

Well yeah @Mynewhome do you know how much it costs to buy a dog? Food? Worming? Flea treatment? Vets bills, leads/harness/bowl/bed/poop bags etc etc etc, it’s never ending!!!

plenty of dog owners don't bother with most of the items on that list, sadly.

WiddlinDiddlin · 24/01/2023 05:04

Oh behave..

Dog costs can be anywhere between.. my most recent puppy, £1000; vax, £80, collecting him probably £40 in fuel, probably around £300 on toys and food.. and thats just the first few weeks. Transferring ownership on his KC reg, microchip detail change, insurance, training classes (yep, I go to training classes even when I run my own).

Or my friends... £50 out of the paper, spare lead and collar from a friend, cheapo food from the supermarket plus freebies of toys and treats etc from friends.

You do not have to be loaded to get a dog. It does help, but having a dog does not automatically equate to having money or spending it.

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