What makes you jealous of other people?

[Cuppasoupmonster]

Just wondering. I’m jealous of people in good health with high energy levels. I want to be that kind of person so badly 😫

Hugs @LilacRain12 ❤️

Nothing.. not a jealous bone in my body.
Then again, I've had a bloody hard life at times & am so blessed to just have peace now!

@citychick I totally agree with you.

I'm jealous of people whose children don't have ADHD or Autism. I sometimes hear other people talk about their children, and can't imagine how lovely it must be not to have to deal with all the shit.

On the other hand, I've got a beautiful singing voice!

People who still have their mum.

Women who can carry a pregnancy to full term, who give birth to a healthy living baby.

People whose job means that they can go back to their home at the end of each day.

Forgot to add: people who live in or next to a wood.

people who travelled when they were young

@Blueberrypeapod like you my mum died when I was a child , dont even remember her, so I feel the same. Sending you a hug.

Some children are easy and some not so easy. Your love for your child comes at a cost to you and it is all the more precious ❤️

People with good health
People who magically sleep 7-8 hours each night

Can I join you in the twatisphere, @CatCatchYouOnTheFlippetyFlop? You words resonate with me a lot!

Nothing really... But when I see a sophisticated, well-dressed naturally good-looking woman, being like that just the way they are. I sometimes wish I wasn’t an average middle-aged woman, who was pretty when young, and even though I love clothes hasn’t got actual style or a polished look going on. Some women just have “It” I guess.

Pp who fall asleep easily, I've always suffered with dreadful insomnia
Pp with lovely, golden skin, not my red, blotchy face!
pp with warm, supportive families, can't imagine what that is like.

I do have long slim legs tho!😂

A healthy person has a thousand wishes but a sick person only has one

I hadn't heard this before. It's really resonated with me and I'm going to carry it forward.

Thanks for posting it.

People who get loads of free childcare from their parents or in laws. People who get weekends to themselves. People who get to go on date nights with their partners because the grandparents are having the kids.

People who can keep their house reasonably tidy and ticking over (and I don't even mean show home, just normal family clutter but not terrifying if someone comes to the door)

People with a solid group of friends, who do stuff together at weekends, see each other after school/work, plan stuff at Christmas....kids all playing together, adults sitting and chatting or joining in the fun. I'm really lonely.

I think what I might be describing is neurotypical people. I haven't been diagnosed yet but my brain certainly doesn't feel like a fucking 'superpower'.

Oh and people who chose a better father to their kids. Single parenting is an absolute slog and after 7 years of it I'm utterly and completely sick of doing it alone and not sharing any of the shit bits. Or sharing any of the amazing bits either with someone who loves these kids as much as I do.

Sorry, not a very cheerful contribution tonight.

Naturally tall/slim women
Women with brown eyes
People who have their mam still
Laid back people with really good friends from childhood
Healthy people/no chronic illness
People with bigger/tidy houses
People with a DP who still 'sees' them
People with a big, close family

People who are confident and not shy.
People who have lots of friends.
People who don't suffer from depression

This. For me I’d also add people who are not crippled with anxiety and people who can just pop their coat on and leave the house, pop
to the shop, have nice days out. Agoraphobia and GAD is no fun. Jealous of people who haven’t been broken by the actions of others.

People that have a council flat/house.

Biggest regret of my life not getting one (I could've) as I'm constantly struggling to make ends meet with my other friends (who have council property) living it up as their rent/mortgage is next to nothing :(

People who can afford whatever they want.
People who have been able to bring their kids up within a happy marriage and big, loving, extended family.
People with innate warmth, those universally loved ones who instinctively know how to say and do the right thing to make others feel cared for and welcome.

People with regularly sized feet!

Richer than me and I’m not rich lol

This.
Being ND it's difficult.

Not sure that jealousy is the word but wealthy parents who have connections and helped their kids out.