I’m a born and bred Londoner who’s married to an Australian. We both LOVE London. London in the summer cannot be beaten. However, we’ve fallen out of love with the UK due to the national politics and the fact people seem to have given up and are accepting lower standards of living whilst our betters get ever richer. We don’t want this for us or our kids.
I’m currently in Australia, Victoria, seeing the in-laws and what strikes me is that it’s a country looking to the future, whereas the UK feels increasingly fixated on the past. Many of the issues being faced in the UK, e.g. the NHS are avoidable but people keep voting for absolute bullshit.
We were viewing properties earlier with a view to moving across in a couple of years.
Interestingly every time I’ve discussed Australia with acquaintances, they’ve brought up racism. I’m mixed race (black/white) as are our kids. My SIL here is Asian. I can say hand on heart that this was a bigger issue a couple of decades ago, however, I feel safer and more accepted/welcome here than in many areas of the UK e.g some areas of Kent.
The people here are largely positive and looking to the future, it’s just a different vibe and more in line for what I want for my kids.
The cost of living is higher but wages are higher and actually emphasise how low wages are in the UK. We’ll never sell our home in London though. I will always love it and we’d like the option to move back and have a base for our kids.