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Would you rather stay in U.K. or aus

260 replies

whytesnow · 02/01/2023 23:40

And what's your reasons? Just had a crazy idea to move over as I don't have any commitments here and life is getting boring for me here

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cantley · 04/01/2023 09:39

The ignorance displayed about Australia and the outright lies told as facts in these bashing threads never cease to amaze me.
If some of you want to stay permanently in the UK that's fine, but belittling another country and making things up about it to make yourself better about your own life choice borders on unhinged behaviour.
Other people born in the UK don't want to stay in the UK, why does this rattle you so much?

jacketchips · 04/01/2023 09:45

There are some very mean minded ignorant commented coming from either side of this discussion. There are pros and cons to living in both places. Which is 'better' is a moot point. It's completely dependant on personal circumstances and interests which is better.

MarshaBradyo · 04/01/2023 09:46

jacketchips · 04/01/2023 09:45

There are some very mean minded ignorant commented coming from either side of this discussion. There are pros and cons to living in both places. Which is 'better' is a moot point. It's completely dependant on personal circumstances and interests which is better.

Agree. These threads just rile people up. And the op does t seem that interested anyway.

sicklycolleague · 04/01/2023 09:55

Riverlee · 04/01/2023 09:02

My brother lives in Australia. He was talking about exactly the same problems as we are in the UK - increasing cost of living, increasing bills etc, so problems that people complain of in the UK are universal.

The whole world is facing problems, yes, and perhaps I'm wrong to predicate stuff on 'vibe' but Australia is still a young, optimistic country in comparison whereas a lot of UK infrastructure feels like it's about to break

EasterIsland · 04/01/2023 09:56

I’ve lived all my life between the two countries, spending significant chunks of time - decades- in each. My experience of Australia is that it’s a harsh culture. Friendly yes, but with a rampaging talk poppy/envy culture and a diminishing of anything remotely intellectual or artistic. Ironically, I think this is why the arts and artists (of all media) are actually so good. They’ve really had to fight for doing their thing.

I prefer living in the UK and specifically England. I’m English by birth and culture. The landscape, the weather (even Sydney was too hot for me eventually) and the acceptance that the job I do, and the profession I work in, are important - world-leading, in fact.

But the ingrained class divide and the imbalance between London and everywhere else, and the weird mix of deference and “up yours” public unruliness and rudeness are baffling and distressing. We are a rich country but there are people in dire poverty, both poverty of resources and poverty of thought and aspiration.

No country is perfect. But UK migrants really need to understand that Australia is not just Britain with better weather. And I don’t even think the weather is better - give me north Lancashire January over a Sydney January any time! But my Sydney friends just think I’m eccentric.

redleaves75 · 04/01/2023 09:58

Keyansier · 03/01/2023 00:19

UK all the way. Can't stand Australia. Horrible weather, horrible accents, horrible animals, horrible lifestyle, horrible everything. Personally not for me, I'm afraid!

what's horrible about the lifestyle?

How long have you spent in Australia?

Aussiegirl123456 · 04/01/2023 10:15

I don’t mind people bashing Australia if it means those ignorant people don’t come here!

My experience of Australia is that it’s a harsh culture. Friendly yes, but with a rampaging talk poppy/envy culture and a diminishing of anything remotely intellectual or artistic.
Erm, yeah ok!

EasterIsland · 04/01/2023 10:21

Well that’s my experience of 30 years in Australia @Aussiegirl123456 Your response perhaps makes my point.

DOCTORCEE · 04/01/2023 10:32

I was bred and born in North London came to Australia in 2006 with my family and wouldn’t dream of going back to the UK.
It is important to assess the affordability aspect before making the leap though..I know quite a few migrants that haven’t been able to survive financially here and have been forced to return to the UK for that reason.
I note a lot of people are mentioning the snakes and spiders, they really aren’t a problem and as long as you are sensible (ie don’t go wading through long wet grass etc) they don’t bother you.
Healthcare provision is great here, and private school (if that’s your thing) is much more affordable.

Aussiegirl123456 · 04/01/2023 10:34

EasterIsland · 04/01/2023 10:21

Well that’s my experience of 30 years in Australia @Aussiegirl123456 Your response perhaps makes my point.

Hardly, my response said ‘erm, yeah ok’, that proved absolutely nothing. “Diminishing anything remotely intellectual”, perhaps it was just the people you surrounded yourself with?

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