Regular contributor but name changed as this could be outing
I do think this is probably trivial of me but it's really irritated me and need views on if I'm just petty
4 friends since children were all born within weeks of each other. Not NCT but similar, met at local post natal class
3 of the 4 of us always generous - hosted Christmas parties or playdates across the years. And held birthday parties which all 4 children were all always invited to over last 7 years (bar covid year) , despite them being at different nurseries and now schools.
So friend 4 has always benefited from bowling, soft play you name it - but always said she didn't like to have to host (beautiful house!) And didn't believe in parties for her daughter until they were old enough to remember them as adults - but happy to come to all of ours, including in the last few months
Pictures all over Facebook today of her daughter's massive birthday party, disco, entertainment the lot - and not one of the four children invited.
Aibu? Recognise they all have friendship groups at 7 but would you not think you should pay it back a bit? I felt irrationally irritated
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Is this absolutely petty of me - children's party
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Oak268 · 31/12/2022 06:30
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Untitledsquatboulder · 31/12/2022 06:55
She's a taker, some people are. Now you recognise it you can decide how you want to proceed.
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