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Original poster

To talk about my mam?

34 replies

Mammyloveswine · 28/12/2022 07:58

Probably not the right area but never mind.

My mam died suddenly last night, she was 67.., my poor dad had to do cpr.

It's just so cruel, she was so fit and healthy and we'd had a lovely Christmas and now she's gone and I don't know what I'm going to go without her.

She was so full of life and energy and I'm never going to see her again. She was just the most amazing person and I speak to her everyday, but now she'll never answer the phone again.

It hurts so much.

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Iwant2move · 28/12/2022 08:00

I'm so sorry. Yes, do talk about her.
What a terrible shock for you all.

How unfair.

Goldenboysmum · 28/12/2022 08:01

I'm so sorry for your loss 😥

Losing someone you love is extremely hard, maybe post this in the bereavement section, you'll get lots of of support there. I'm not saying you won't get it here, but sometimes there's so many threads this will get "lost" if you know what I mean.

alwaysott · 28/12/2022 08:02

I'm so very sorry for your loss @Mammyloveswine what an awful shock. I hope you have plenty of support irl.Flowers

Loopyanna · 28/12/2022 08:03

I'm so sorry, please talk about her, it will help. I lost my mum in November, I'm heartbroken 💔 I miss her so much, we use to talk every day.

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Mammyloveswine · 28/12/2022 08:03

Goldenboysmum · 28/12/2022 08:01

I'm so sorry for your loss 😥

Losing someone you love is extremely hard, maybe post this in the bereavement section, you'll get lots of of support there. I'm not saying you won't get it here, but sometimes there's so many threads this will get "lost" if you know what I mean.

Thank you yes I might ask for it ti be moved. I just can't believe if. My lovely mam.

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Mammyloveswine · 28/12/2022 08:04

Loopyanna · 28/12/2022 08:03

I'm so sorry, please talk about her, it will help. I lost my mum in November, I'm heartbroken 💔 I miss her so much, we use to talk every day.

I'm so sorry..it's just such a helpless horrible pain isn't it?

I still can't believe it.

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Defiantlynot41 · 28/12/2022 08:06

I'm so sorry for your loss, you must be in shock. Come on over to the bereavement section, you'll find lots of support. Sending you a hug

maddening · 28/12/2022 08:08

I am so very sorry, there are no words that can even cover it.

You will be in shock, do you have rl support?

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Mammyloveswine · 28/12/2022 08:09

Defiantlynot41 · 28/12/2022 08:06

I'm so sorry for your loss, you must be in shock. Come on over to the bereavement section, you'll find lots of support. Sending you a hug

Thabk you xxx

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TestingTestingWonTooFree · 28/12/2022 08:10

So sorry to hear this, what a dreadful shock Flowers

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Mammyloveswine · 28/12/2022 08:11

maddening · 28/12/2022 08:08

I am so very sorry, there are no words that can even cover it.

You will be in shock, do you have rl support?

I'm got my husband and my young children (they don't really understand). But am going to be with my dad and my sisters and brother later on today.

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legofrostqueen · 28/12/2022 08:11

How terribly sad & shocking OP, sending love & strength & unmumsnetty hugs Flowers

sandgrown · 28/12/2022 08:14

So sorry for your loss . Go to your family and share your memories. . Thinking of youx

justcouldntthinkofausername · 28/12/2022 08:14

So sorry 😥 sending you a hug and strength op xxx

julesover40 · 28/12/2022 08:22

So sorry for your loss, what a terrible shock. Talk about her, celebrate her, it will help with your grief x

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Mammyloveswine · 28/12/2022 08:24

She was just the best..I literally rang her several times a day and I just can't believe I'll never see her or speak to her again.

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NightOwl101 · 28/12/2022 08:25

I am so sorry for your loss OP

Els1e · 28/12/2022 08:26

I’m so sorry to hear this. No useful advice but just look after yourself. 💐

AgathaX · 28/12/2022 08:28

What an awful shock. I'm so sorry for your loss.

ShrimpingViolet · 28/12/2022 08:30

I'm so sorry OP. We lost my MIL very suddenly last year at 60. Same as your mam, fit and healthy, was due to retire and spend time with her grandchildren. She was a doer and had so much to live for. I miss her every day.

The pain and initial shock just floors you. I couldn't even think about the enormity of it all without crying for a long time. It does get easier to bear, I promise. And she will always be with you, because she is a part of who you are. Sending you love and strength xx

cakeandchampagne · 28/12/2022 08:31

Flowers I am so sorry for your sudden and unexpected loss.

LadyEloise1 · 28/12/2022 08:37

@Mammyloveswine I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Mum.
May she rest in peace.
What a shock for you all.
She sounds very special.
"Grief is the price we pay for love" - I read this on Mumsnet and it is so true.
Flowers

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 28/12/2022 08:40

I’m so sorry for the loss of your lovely Mam.

There’s nothing quite like the pain of losing your mother (I speak sadly from experience)

It must have been very traumatic for you all , especially for your poor Dad doing cpr.

Love and strength to you all.

PumpkinPie2016 · 28/12/2022 08:40

I'm so sorry for your loss @Mammyloveswine 💐what a terrible shock for you and your dad.

Take time, be kind to yourselves - I hope you both have other support as well.

And do keep talking about your lovely mum!

FestiveFruitloop · 28/12/2022 08:41

So sorry for your loss, OP. I can't even imagine. Flowers