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To really dislike female radio DJs?

121 replies

Appalonia · 27/12/2022 19:46

I either find them hugely irritating, mindlessly positive and over enthusiastic and insincere like Zoe Ball ( have to turn her off in the morning,she's too much and I fear she's going to spontaneously combust with over excitement ) Elaine Paige ( with her incredibly annoying gurgling laugh), Sara Cox and Lisa Tarbuck ( with her stupid zany voices, cringe ) or insufferably earnest and pretentious like Jo Wiley or Mary Anne Hobbs on 6 Music.

Tbf I did like Annie Mac, Annie Nightingale and Janice Long but that's probably because they seemed genuinely into the music they played and weren't twats.

I'm probably being unreasonable but I honestly can't bear to listen to them!

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TheMarzipanDildo · 27/12/2022 22:28

Yabu not to like Liza Tarbuck, fucking great show.

catsonahottinroof · 27/12/2022 22:33

Basically whoever said they hate all DJs is right, we just want to listen to the music! Of the ones mentioned, I like Mary Ann Hobbs the most, though she does sound like a female version of Brian Cox (smile talking).

Willyoujustbequiet · 27/12/2022 22:33

Go get help for your misogyny.

Catterpillarwithconverse · 27/12/2022 22:35

Stompythedinosaur · 27/12/2022 19:47

If you are writing off an entire gender, I think it is because if sexism rather than anything else.

This with vagina's on

SallyWD · 27/12/2022 22:40

I fi d all radio DJs irritating! The job seems to attract a certain type of person who I'd really dislike in real life.

Sunnytwobridges · 27/12/2022 22:43

I wouldn't say I dislike all women DJs but I haven't found any I really like. And I can say there are quite a few male DJs I don't like either, but it seems that I dislike more women DJs for the most part.

HelloBunny · 27/12/2022 22:44

It’s that slightly husky London “media voice” thing. You hear it in lots of ads, too. I think it started with Dani Behr back in the 90s. There’s an incredibly irritating lilt to it, I’d associate it with the ladette scene. Of which many of the DJs you mentioned were a part of.

AelinAshriver · 27/12/2022 22:48

Holy internalised mysogyny Batman!

grayhairdontcare · 27/12/2022 22:50

I miss Steve wright because Scot mills is so fucking boring

MerryChristmasTree · 27/12/2022 22:57

Steve Wright was awful! He’s been doing the same show since about 1986. He still talks over the end of all the songs.

CockSpadget · 27/12/2022 23:00

I can’t be doing with most DJs, Spotify is life. Jo Wiley and Chris Moyles are the absolute worst for me.
I do like Toby Tarrant on Radio X though.

neverendinglauaundry · 27/12/2022 23:02

I'm shocked that a whole 25% of people on here think that YANBU with such an obviously sexist post.

Clingfilm · 27/12/2022 23:06

Yabu. Hun.

Willyoujustbequiet · 28/12/2022 01:09

neverendinglauaundry · 27/12/2022 23:02

I'm shocked that a whole 25% of people on here think that YANBU with such an obviously sexist post.

I know

Can you even imagine if someone said I really diskike black radio DJs?

But hey misogyny is tolerated on a site for women...

Sometimeswinning · 28/12/2022 01:12

Willyoujustbequiet · 28/12/2022 01:09

I know

Can you even imagine if someone said I really diskike black radio DJs?

But hey misogyny is tolerated on a site for women...

This post would have been deleted if that was the case. There would be reports all over. But as its only against women...

Luredbyapomegranate · 28/12/2022 01:16

Well you’ve just listed three you like, so you don’t hate all women DJs.

So..

RiverSkater · 28/12/2022 01:17

I bloody love Vanessa Feltz and miss her on Radio London.

Also love Jo Good who I also miss our schedules clash.

Radio London have replaced some great read hosts (Robert Elms) with some very boring female ones. I turn off.
All tedious boring, no charm no charisma. Salma, Shay etc. Dull Dull Dull.

Stunningscreamer · 28/12/2022 01:17

Tempone · 27/12/2022 19:48

You are conditioned by society not to like female dj's..same as female comedians

Yes and female sports' presenters, pundits and referees.

MadisonAvenue · 28/12/2022 01:24

I don’t like listening to Zoe Ball, love Sara Cox and Liza Tarbuck though.

I often listen to my local BBC radio station, BBC WM, and had to stop listening at breakfast time until recently because an over-excited over-enthusiastic female presenter called Elise Evans was given the job as breakfast host. She didn’t last very long before being replaced, but didn’t disappear for long though and now randomly ‘appears’ as a stand in presenter.
Caroline Martin on late night local BBC stations in the Midlands is excellent.

Stunningscreamer · 28/12/2022 01:26

RiverSkater · 28/12/2022 01:17

I bloody love Vanessa Feltz and miss her on Radio London.

Also love Jo Good who I also miss our schedules clash.

Radio London have replaced some great read hosts (Robert Elms) with some very boring female ones. I turn off.
All tedious boring, no charm no charisma. Salma, Shay etc. Dull Dull Dull.

No they haven't. Robert Elms, who just repeats himself endlessly - yes we know you hung out with some cool people in the 70s and your wife is a photographer, but enough, already - has been replaced by Eddie Nestor, who is an excellent and really polished broadcaster.

I do miss Joanne Good though but I guess they need to appeal to a range of listeners and age ranges and Salma and Shay are younger.

Vanessa Feltz is also excellent and very professional and we were lucky to have her for so long on a local radio network. It probably takes a while to find someone to replace a presenter who's that good.

GrinAndVomit · 28/12/2022 06:28

Vanessa Feltz is brilliant. So intelligent.
It was always such a treat when she sat in for Jeremy Vine.

MrsDoyle351 · 28/12/2022 06:35

Hadtochangeforthisone · 27/12/2022 20:03

I'm sorry but Liza Tarbuck is in a different league !! She is fucking amazing !! The ONLY thing that gets this dedicated Radio 4 listener to turn to the dark side ..

THAT with bells on.... also like Jo Whiley

I cannot stand Zoe Ball or Sarah Cox (especially the latter with her stupid rhyming thing she does every fucking day - just NO - DON'T - you aren't funny or clever and it makes me want to strangle you)

I actually enjoyed the period of mourning on Radio 2 (post Queen's demise) as Zoe Ball spoke quietly and wasn't as annoying as usual...

Gruffalo101 · 28/12/2022 07:14

For women they have to be 'nice' . If they're not they get such a raw deal. Naga Muchetty to my mind gets a pummelling everytime she breathes it seems. Its all I ever see of headlines about her. Whereas if its a male well they can be a bit crabbit and that's not a problem.

I'm not a big fan of Zoe Ball but think Sara Cox and Liza Tarbuck come across less 'eager to please' and more natural. Personally I love Elaine Paiges dirty laugh...it makes me laugh ...but then I don't get to listen to any radio (sadly) regularly anymore. Life changes. Maybe if I heard it all the time I'd go off it.

I'm more a fan of the off peak radio people i think they seem more relaxed and nonchalant.

ExtraOnions · 28/12/2022 08:25

I’m with you when it comes to Zoe Ball and Elaine Page. Zoe is just dreadful “aren’t I mad … and look at all my famous mates…my mates, I have a considerably much better life than you”. Elaine Page and her fake laugh - cringe.

Cant stick Jeremy Vine, he never challenges anyone .. even people who are factually incorrect .. I think he’s just dim.

Scott Mills is boring AF - I was pleased Steve Wright went, but what a terrible replacement.

Ken Bruce is one of the few reasons I carry on listening.

I like Liza Tarbuck too … and “Woo Gary Davies” (who I think is in for Zoe for the next couple of weeks)

twilightcafe · 28/12/2022 09:11

RiverSkater · 28/12/2022 01:17

I bloody love Vanessa Feltz and miss her on Radio London.

Also love Jo Good who I also miss our schedules clash.

Radio London have replaced some great read hosts (Robert Elms) with some very boring female ones. I turn off.
All tedious boring, no charm no charisma. Salma, Shay etc. Dull Dull Dull.

Right with you there about Radio London. BBC are running the station into the ground.