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Trifle is NOT trifle unless it has jelly, I don't care if its "common" or not.

177 replies

SKIPWAY · 19/12/2022 22:09

Watching Marry Berry, she's made trifle with juice, sherry, custard and cream, no jelly. The cake soaked in jelly is literally the best bit!!!
Normally I like to be a bit fancy in the kitchen for special occasions but this is a hill I'm prepared to die on.
What other things are a must have for you but are considered a bit "common"

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DrinkFeckArseBrick · 19/12/2022 22:10

Vinegar on chips

MaryShelley1818 · 19/12/2022 22:11

I make a pear and ginger trifle which is to die for....no jelly in it sorry! Lol.

I do love jelly though!

Crisp sandwiches for me, Greggs sausage rolls and Tunnocks Teacakes.

Itloggedmeoutagain · 19/12/2022 22:11

Trifle contains jelly
It's not up for discussion

PearlclutchersInc · 19/12/2022 22:12

Chip butties. With proper butter.

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 19/12/2022 22:12

SKIPWAY · 19/12/2022 22:09

Watching Marry Berry, she's made trifle with juice, sherry, custard and cream, no jelly. The cake soaked in jelly is literally the best bit!!!
Normally I like to be a bit fancy in the kitchen for special occasions but this is a hill I'm prepared to die on.
What other things are a must have for you but are considered a bit "common"

My grandma made trifle this way, and it was amazing. No jelly needed.

Flapjackquack · 19/12/2022 22:13

So the sponges were just soaked in juice and sherry then custard and cream on top? Sacrilege! #justiceforjelly

MissyB1 · 19/12/2022 22:14

Absolutely no jelly in my trifle thank you very much!!

CMOTDibbler · 19/12/2022 22:14

Jelly all the way here. And blancmange.

Livinginanotherworld · 19/12/2022 22:14

No jelly 😱

Zanatdy · 19/12/2022 22:14

I love trifle at Christmas. Absolutely has to have jelly in it - no debate

Margo34 · 19/12/2022 22:15

CMOTDibbler · 19/12/2022 22:14

Jelly all the way here. And blancmange.

🙌 Is it even a trifle if it doesn't have blancmange and jelly and custard and cream?

CoffeeBoy · 19/12/2022 22:16

I agree but apparently jelly is only for nursery trifle!

JonahAndTheSnail · 19/12/2022 22:16

After Eights at Christmas. I remember my first boyfriend being so offended that my Mum offered us a couple of boxes to take home one year as apparently they're very WC?!

I'm trying to imagine a trifle made without jelly, presumably it still has fruit?

MilkyYay · 19/12/2022 22:16

Jelly = essential.

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TrashyPanda · 19/12/2022 22:17

My mum never put jelly in trifle either!
swiss roll slices and tinned fruit in juice, plus custard and cream.
the taste of childhood Xmas dinner!

Galarunner · 19/12/2022 22:18

My mum used to make a fantastic no jelly trifle, a layer of raspberries, or apricots stewed in a bit sherry. Loads nicer than jelly.

DreamingOfAGreenChristmas · 19/12/2022 22:18

Jelly in trifle is horrid.
Horrid, horrid, horrid.

FixItUpChappie · 19/12/2022 22:19

I’m making a trifle for the first time this Christmas (I’m not in the UK) and having not eaten many of them either I’m watching with interest about which way to go 😋

berrycakeandcustard · 19/12/2022 22:20

But, but, but .... it's not a trifle without jelly!! A trifle has to have jelly!

Trifle (with all the lovely jelly) is one of my favourite things about Christmas, can't wait😋

LolaSmiles · 19/12/2022 22:20

No jelly in the trifle here either I'm afraid.

Blancmange brings back awful food memories so that's a no to me as well.

JonahAndTheSnail I like a good After Eight. Didn't know they were working class. One of my grandparents used to tell us that they'd got some 'posh chocolates' for Christmas.

tedgran · 19/12/2022 22:20

No jelly for me, but DH loves it !

Purplechicken207 · 19/12/2022 22:23

I don't like trifle but I assumed it always had jelly in?

Personally I like cheap ice cream....can't stand really creamy tasting ones! And while I don't like it, I can't help but think custard is such an old person or we grew up with so little thing too. (Fully prepared to take heat for this and for the record yes I grew up in a household with virtually no disposable income, and money trouble at times. But it reminds me of rank school dinner puddings that looked and smelled like vomit 😳)

ChicagoBears · 19/12/2022 22:23

Jelly all the way!

Vaccine001 · 19/12/2022 22:26

Jelly of course! Being judged by class and wealth in the UK has to die.