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Trifle is NOT trifle unless it has jelly, I don't care if its "common" or not.

177 replies

SKIPWAY · 19/12/2022 22:09

Watching Marry Berry, she's made trifle with juice, sherry, custard and cream, no jelly. The cake soaked in jelly is literally the best bit!!!
Normally I like to be a bit fancy in the kitchen for special occasions but this is a hill I'm prepared to die on.
What other things are a must have for you but are considered a bit "common"

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SemperIdem · 20/12/2022 00:39

I absolutely despise trifle because jelly is a key ingredient - but if it doesn’t have jelly, it’s not a trifle.

Same as “choc chip” Welsh cakes are not Welsh cakes

HitMeWithAHotNoteAndWatchMeBounce · 20/12/2022 00:49

Blossomtoes · 20/12/2022 00:35

You’re mixing your puddings up. Eton Mess is completely different.

I think you misunderstood what they were saying - they weren’t talking about Eton Mess, the dessert.

FetlocksBlowingInTheWind · 20/12/2022 00:49

Yes to jelly but it must be orange jelly made with orange juice (preferably by my mum 45 years ago) 😊

BitterAndTwistedChoreDodger · 20/12/2022 01:00

Eton mess? Now I can invest in the thread.

CallieQ · 20/12/2022 01:01

No jelly in my trifle Xmas Blush

PiratePetespajamas · 20/12/2022 01:03

Ugh no! Definitely no jelly!🤢

LoveMyPiano · 20/12/2022 01:27

SirenSays · 19/12/2022 23:08

Jelly is amazing, it's always ruined in trifle with the soggy wet cake.

As long as no one is putting beef, peas and onions in it I guess it's OK

Trifle a la Rachel....

I do wonder how many pages were stuck together, unless it was the last page of main dishes, and the first of puddings.....

I have never looked at a trifle the same way.

But I am now planning a lemon one, WITH jelly over sponge fingers (!), custard made from scratch, and whipped double cream.

I also use jelly to help my no-bake cheesecakes set. Lemon jelly is getting harder to find though.

WiddlinDiddlin · 20/12/2022 04:34

Trifle itself can just sod off.

Cream - good
Custard - good
Soggy grainy spongy jammy/jelly wet bit - absolutely fucking disgusting.

I like cake, and I like jammy/jelly/fruity stuff, I do NOT like soggy wet cake. It is an abomination.

As by the way, is any cheesecake where the buttery biscuit base has gone all soggy and gritty and soft. Yeuuuuuuuuuch.

Otherwise... if I like it, I eat it. I don't care if its 'common' or not, do people REALLY not eat things they actually like because it's 'common'?

Mummieslncorporated · 20/12/2022 04:38

I prefer trifle without jelly. But I'm a bit funny with jelly - I only like it when it's kind of smashed up, and that doesn't really work with trifle.

If you haven't tried trifle without jelly, give it a go. You might be surprised.

transformandriseup · 20/12/2022 04:58

No jelly here.

cantley · 20/12/2022 05:00

Mummieslncorporated · 20/12/2022 04:38

I prefer trifle without jelly. But I'm a bit funny with jelly - I only like it when it's kind of smashed up, and that doesn't really work with trifle.

If you haven't tried trifle without jelly, give it a go. You might be surprised.

Same. Not a jelly fan except maybe a bit chopped if I have to.
I've made about six of Nigellla's trifles over the years. None have jelly, all delicious!

Glittertwins · 20/12/2022 05:19

I'd never had jelly in trifle until a few years ago. My mum used to make it with fruit at the bottom, homemade sponges with sherry and custard. Haven't had it for years sadly.

mathanxiety · 20/12/2022 05:25

A trifle consists of sherry, sponge, raspberry jam, custard, and whipped cream. That is all.

mynameisnotkate · 20/12/2022 05:42

Jelly or sherry in a trifle - depending if it is for kids or adults.

Closedlips · 20/12/2022 05:59

fmpc · 19/12/2022 23:03

Jelly (yeuch) was not part of the original trifle recipe
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trifle

Well according to this the earliest known inclusion of jelly was a 1760 recipe so it's definitely been included for quite some time!

MrsMurphyIWish · 20/12/2022 07:01

Rachel in “Friends” made hers with minced beef, so I wouldn’t worry about jelly 🤷‍♀️

red4321 · 20/12/2022 07:10

I don't think my mum makes it with jelly (yes, I'm in my 40s and haven't yet made one).

But I didn't like the taste of alcohol as a child (that changed in my teenage years...) so my mum made a section alcohol free and marked it with very ugly bits of sellotape on her lovely cut glass bowl. Very nice of her.

Mittens1717 · 20/12/2022 07:21

QueenOfHiraeth · 19/12/2022 23:27

I put sherry on the cake then pour jelly over and it always sets, it's not like I'm using half a bottle of vodka! Jelly is essential, otherwise it is just damp cake

I do both too, never made trifle without jelly

user175438765 · 20/12/2022 07:25

Of course it should contain jelly

EmileFord · 20/12/2022 07:39

I don't have jelly in trifle if I make it, but I'm happy to eat any version really.
I've always used a Delia Smith recipe from circa 1972 ish. It has proper custard too - delicious.

TenoringBehind · 20/12/2022 07:47

Jelly in trifle is an abomination. Much nicer without.

YetAnotherNameChange52 · 20/12/2022 07:48

Who calls it common? Regularly made with jelly and served for some of my favourite lunches when I was at prep school. Sounds like someone made this up 😂

FetlocksBlowingInTheWind · 20/12/2022 07:51

How about bananas in trifle?
My mum would put them in sometimes but I wasn't a fan.
Ok if you were eating it right away but a few hours later/next day...ugh

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 20/12/2022 08:00

I think jelly in trifle only became a thing in the1960s when Bird's starting making those trifle kit boxes.

bigbluebus · 20/12/2022 08:45

I was only half watching but I was more stunned that she used ready made custard and then stirred cream into it before then adding more cream on the top.

I always put jelly in my trifle as did my mother.